What is grief - Julia Samuel

[karennelson]

Thank you Julia, I just lost my husband after 61 years, of marriage, and I feel empty and alone. Your talks do help me cope with this loss. God Bless you!

[joenation]

My girlfriend died suddenly 3 days ago, ever since I have been looking through YouTube trying to find videos to help me through this terrible loss and sadness, the videos that have helped me the most are the ones of Julia Samuel, my mind was racked with guilt that I should have saved her and I could have done more, watching clips like this have helped so much, my whole body and soul is broken in half but I have to go on and this is helping

[elizabethnewton]

I have left the earth,
But I am still about,
I kiss your cheek at night,
When your light is out.

I am the wind,
That blows in your hair,
I am spirit now,
I am near.

I sit on your shoulder,
I see all that you do,
My body is gone,
Still my love is with you.

When times are tough,
I hold your hand,
You are never alone,
Together we stand.

If you are in trouble,
I shall help you out,
I am your instinct
When you doubt.

I am the angel
Assigned to you,
You will never be alone,
For I am next to you.

[oldgoods.]

Two months ago, my brother died. It's hard for me to believe he's dead. It makes me feel guilty, but I have no idea why. All I want to do is sleep, and I hope to see him in my dreams.

The logic of this video and her voice are helping me.

[twelvesevven]

It felt like she was talking to me and telling me everything I needed to hear.
Thank you, Julia.

[octgirl]

My daughter died a month ago. My heart feels so heavy. I still can’t believe she’s gone.

[dale]

Not to put too fine a point on it, this is the best video I have encountered on grief. And I have watched many. Thank you so much.

[Good.London]

God bless you, I needed to hear this for reasons I don't know, Alicia Havelock.
RIP

[bethbartlett]

*"People and/or Pets"*
Dealing with Physical loss from the Now. Be Conscious in the Now.
*It helps so to keep :* a Knowing we and all life are Eternal Energies and it is the vessel that expires, the Soul Energy shifts to NonPhysical.
(Quantum Physics Science: energy can neither be created nor destroyed, it merely changes form.)
This can be so comforting.

Know you are worthy and are Unconditionally Loved by your Creator, your NonPhysical Support Goup, Angels/Guides, all that are your loved ones in NonPhysical.

...and stay present in the Now.

😘

[Enigma-eb]

Talking and humor is a therapy on my journey of grief. Find the right circle of people that give you positivity and that helps to get back to reality cause it’s been a year since I’ve lost my soulmate, the love of my life and I used to be in a constant fog.

[kelsmy]

I lost my one and only younger brother 7 days ago to a hemorrhagic stroke. It was too sudden. I feel he was too good to leave. A loving brother, a son and a father to his 3 kids. He worked so hard and didn’t have it easy his whole life. Our dad died young and mum re-married and lived faraway. As life was improving he didn’t get to enjoy this little success. Everyone tired him, depended on him but hardly showed appreciation for everything he had done for his family, our mother and half-sister. I’m stuck in anger. Would trade everything to have him back because he deserved to be alive. I’m broken but trying to help everyone in the family. I lashed out at everyone especially my mother for the constant quarrels and hurtful words hurled at my brother despite how much he cared and loved her. Can’t function normally these last few days. One moment I’m lost another I felt spirited for the kids. I know he is in a happier place. I will try to pull through but everything has changed forever. I know I have to stabilise the family for his sake.

[Ingens_Scherz]

My dad died a few months ago and I am really struggling (I'm not sure how I'm struggling for one thing). Brave face and all that - no one knows! but I feel so sad all the time. So guilty (why?) and so different (defeated, frankly) - and I don't seem to be able to shake it off. People who know me don't seem to perceive my current mood as far as I know - although I might be wrong about that (they're very good people!).
BUT! (That's a big "but" - I know). This really has helped. It's a start. Thank-you :)

[diannejeffrey]

I have been married for 57 years to the best man on Earth. Now I am alone, though with a huge family and really close friends, I am finding it hard to cope. Most days the shock hits me again - after 9 months, and I think I would welcome some help…….can you? - Dianne

[manichairdo]

It will always be painful. That explains a lot. Thank you.

[LoriButterfly]

Loss is a part of life and much harm can be done if we don’t allow ourselves to grieve.

[jearanio_]

Thank you Julia Samuel. This resonates with me. Thank you.

[JoelManrique]

I'm 17 months on my grief journey of losing my sweet four year old daughter. This YouTube channel is dedicated to her.

[scottvriethoff]

Grief is like a car payment. If it’s a pinto or a Cadillac. It’s how you value that person. You can pay that payment off daily, weekly, monthly, that debt is due. You have to face it or that interest builds up and it becomes overwhelming. Counselors are just debt counselors. Make your payments and you’ll get through it.

[joshreed]

I’ve lost my parents and best friends. But when I lost my dogs everything I ever believed in fell away and I now have no foundation.

[jamesmonahanmusic]

BLUE IN MY HEART BLUE IN MY SOUL (❤)2006