Child loss : How to cope with the really bad days

ChildlossUK
How to cope with the really bad days.
Grieving mum trying to help other parents on this awful journey.

[suetaylor]

Thank you so much. You are 8 months further in your journey of grief and it’s helpful for me being 9 weeks in. Giving me some hope in my despair

[saltybeach]

My daughter passed away suddenly on Nov 11, 2023. I’m just going into my 4 month without her and still I cry and cry and ask what am I supposed to do with out you! And I just forgot everything I was going to say. I do want to say thank you so much for sharing your story. For sharing for sharing. I can’t believe this is happening that it happened I’m still saying and thinking what and why. Please continue with your videos

[angelawilson]

I found out that there are places called smash rooms (I’m in Colorado, USA so I’m not sure if they are elsewhere). For me, since there was really no one to blame for Samuel’s accident, I could get out some of my anger with a sledgehammer and a crowbar.

[MG-xpsi]

thank you - I find your videos very helpful.You asked what other find helpful - for me it's gardening and exerting myself digging, etc.

[angelapage]

First of all Thank you ❤️ for your video x
Not sure if this will help but when my beautiful son Lee Simon ❤ transitiond on the 5 /3/21 .
It wasn't one minute or hour or day at a time it was one breath at a time.
To calm down the only thing I could do was too listen to my breath one breath at a time still do this on really bad days and there are lots.
Found colouring adults book's helped and knitting.
This was a few months after though .
Because at the beginning it takes so much energy just to get up and brush your teeth .

Not sure if anyone else finds this too painful I just can't say how long it's been since my beautiful son ❤️ transitiond in real time .
Also I feel like I'm on a different planet and everyone's speaking a different language .
The only comfort is taking to other people who are wearing these shoes no one else understands this cruciating pain .
Sending my heart felt condolences to you all ❤️ x

[moonbuim]

Thank You for Sharing, My son Age 34 suffered from phsycosis and bipolar passed away 9 June 2024 Sunday. It has been very difficult for me to except his death suicide. I Got myself a journal so I can pour all My feelings the good and Sad Memories I read the bible on days I cannot cope sit outside to clear My Mind.

[jeannetteterhark]

Ty for another great video. Can't wait to see the next one.I play w my Cats.I listen to a playlist I made for my daughters Celebration of Life.When she passed away this 2-15-23.😘❤️

[stephaniechappell]

Thank you for doing these videos. They are very helpful to me and I admire your bravery

[sonjarethy]

Make more videos please if you’re up to it. So helpful

[angelapage]

I find since the transition of my beautiful son Lee simon ❤️ x
In 5/3/20 . I still find it difficult to sleep so i don't go bed till around 3 o'clock in the morning manage a few hour morning's are really difficult my body feels like it's too heavy to move which my weight is now around 7 and a half stone so it not my weight .
This pain is cruciating every second of everyday still .
Just wondering if anyone else has experience this .
May one day we find some sort of peace 🕊️ xx

[JustSistersSeekingJoy]

I’m sorry you’ve walked this journey too. I just posted a video about things that helped me find joy again! Blessings!

[cindybackus]

Do you think looking at pictures and videos a lot of my daughter

[angelapage]

5/3/21 was when my beautiful son Lee Simon transitiond ❤