Asking Women: How Did You Know He Was The One?

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[loribothwell]

A really inspiring video to wake up to. It's as if someone is saying, "don't give up....he's "still out there."

[leelee]

This is the best channel to go to for relationship advice because the host is married. This particular video was too short. ❤️

[GoodWill-dw]

So inspiring and yeah! I had the ' knowing' moment !

In second date with my today husband, he was wearing a jacket himself and brought another jacket with him.
I was like 'why?'
Then he said' I think you may forget the weather and you may wear short sleeves even it's cold tonight. so I got you a jacket'
And yes I was wearing short sleeve shirt. Since I didn't check the weather, it was cold.

Then he put his jacket on my shoulder and handed my favorite coffee.

At that time I knew he was the one.

We are together for 20 years, married for 13years with two daughters.
He is taking me out this weekend for a romantic trip in a gorgeous hot spring hotel.

So happy to have a great guy in my life.
And as a happily married woman, I agree everything Jason says.!

You are the best dating coach in youtube since you teaches the ' real deal'.

[EntrepreneursBusinessandServic]

I briefly met this attractive man at a local supermarket where he worked. I know he is the one. It is the most incredible feeling. It was like a magnetic force pulling us towards each other. He is a very hard working nice man. I know he will be my future husband.

[tianiemitchell]

I went to his house one winter day and we were walking in the garden and I didn't have a coat and he took off his coat and put it on my shoulders

[professork]

I heard "balance" a lot in those conversations. 👍🏻

[acastle]

This made me think back to that moment years ago. He made me laugh so much and it was as if I'd known him all my life. Sorry to say I lost him 2 years ago, but this a memory that will always stay with me. Yes, it really does happen.

[xyz-wvnb]

The moment I realized he was the one for me was when he flew 6hours just to comfort and support me at a moment I really needed . He did this on his own without me telling him to visit me. He had spend so much as he stayed a hotel and flew back after one week. No time did he question about that. He is my husband now

[Mariaaahah]

I think the ones that tell thee stories about totally mundane thinks like not swearing while driving etc are really important.

It's the stuff that people do naturally and subconsciously that really show you what kind of person you he actually is

[Quntah]

1:54 ‘he had really good manners’

Him: eating ice cream like a boss 🕶

[vikkismith]

By their dedication, actions and not lost their love.

[vikkismith]

To be his everything and no one comes before me. I'm special to him.

[towandaallen]

They say you will know if he is the one! I am looking forward to that moment and all well! 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[JanzJake]

I know who is my soulmate but I don't find him yet I have a sign which God gave to me😌😒😏

[anorbert]

I love real love! This is beautiful! 🥰🥰🥰

[chrysoulano-name]

First off, consider the ages and length these people have been married. This reminds me of a widow who lived across the street from me. She and her husband were in second marriage together, she pined terrible over the loss of him even though they had NOT been married long before his death. You could tell she still felt romantic when talking about him...dreamy. She was a lovely lady in poor health. They hadn’t had much time together but you could sense her attitude of gratitude. Some people want to undermine the importance of “feeling romantically, ” I have heard a good case for “friendship, ” but ideally, one would experience both. It’s true that if you don’t know how to be a friend that all of the romantic feelings in the world will only lead to divorce court, but if you know how to show love, accept love (the verb and feeling) and you form a bond of companionship these are all important elements. The bond can take place before or after the romantic, some levels of bonding occur with different types of living situations. For example, the couple that marries before being separated by circumstances (like going off to war), or the couple that lives together right away after getting married, the couple that marries and one was single and suddenly due to marriage is flung into a family with children as in the case of a woman brought in after the unexpected death of a mom/wife, the case of arranged marriages, or engagement that is 20 years long before hand. There is no cart before the horse when human relationships are concerned. Because humans are so adaptive and spiritual there are many different orders in which these elements can occur. Sometimes one element but not the other for reasons of all sorts, and not always incapacity of character, a wrong (original) choice. Perhaps before he stepped on that land mine during his tour of duty, he did have the capability. But, when they brought him back and he had no brain functioning (perhaps they should not have used heroic medical measures to save his life as a vegetable)... well, I think fate has something to do with success in marriage. Man likes to imagine that he is so the Master of his destiny, but I do believe in reincarnation and that part of our soul journey is to put us into binds that fire the clay that creates the pottery. The form of that the pottery takes in turn shapes the soul. Mystery. Creativity of both the soul and the Soul. Having said that, it seems interesting to me that as a woman, I feel 4 years old, 15, and 37, and now almost 60, AND I have the ability to love others of all those life stages and see all those stages active in a single person as well. I think some people “get stuck” emotionally or have fluidity issues (failure of fluidity of personality), and that for this reason, what you end up with are flavors of love you feel, and it maybe unreasonable to force humans into rigidity of a single intimate relationship which explains serial marriage. Maybe the more humane thing to ask of people is that they learn to cope with jealousy rather than required exclusion of the depth of intimacy explored by partners. What do all of these silly abstract concepts mean? Well, basically that perhaps part of soul maturity is dealing with jealousy. Look at men who injure and kill due to NOT coping at all! Degrees of the maturity of the soul, the development and growth, without withhold the comforts of companionship (oh so important)! Abandonment is more the pivotal issue, if you were to ask. Not that you are obliged. Jesus declared, “Whoever is without sin, let him cast the first stone.” However, in the case of EDIFICATION we are expected to speak up! What doesn’t kill me makes me stronger. My point? I have a conscience and when I say something to someone else, I know it applies to me also. All fall short. I am guilty in different, but similar ways myself. I am mortal and limited also, this mortal business is just like being a parent or becoming a POTUS—OJT always on the job training! But, if we don’t speak up, then we hide the truth from our brother and ourselves...our own shortcomings and everyone suffers. I am not a fan of most of the New Testament, but I “fell in love” with this one part called Romans (chapters???), it talked about the “measuring stick” we use to judge other, calling that we be warned... look it up. Self-acceptance is so crucial to loving Gd! Otherwise, we are all going to hell in a hand basket of shame. The balance of healthy conscience against the hellish shameful insistence upon perfection of the human. I love AAs slogan progress NOT perfection. Do not let the sun go down upon any bad sentiment. Be as fluid as water and as changing as the wind. As above, so below is a description of the reed. Our feelings matter. It doesn’t have to be love at first sight for both, it does have have to be any one thing, or one way. It can be many roads lead to Rome. Where we find this particular understanding on this particular day in these particular circumstances...that is the fate part of the equation. Peace and goodwill, these drinks are on the house! It shouldn’t be a competition. When love becomes a rat race, we are all capable of becoming exterminator and exterminated. This is another reason why the monetary system (scarcity/competition) works in direct conflict with soul growth. To be fair, the monetary system served to advance humans to a certain extent and rapidly so; however, there is a “season, ” for all things... and I personally think that if money grew on trees, we would see that human kind is well into the winter. Not to say that someday there may come a new age of spring. As a species, if we survive, I think it would benefit us greatly to record the signs of the times to have council concerning these cycles and when humans have revealed that the “season” for a monetary system is once again required but controlled with greater perspective of the changes needed for advancement rather than extinction. If we refuse to bend then I say, we will die/become extinct. Does that matter to you, personally? After all you will be dead so why should you care? Well, only if you believe that there is a remote possibility that there is such a thing as reincarnation and also perhaps you may begin to see the likelihood that this existence is not a competition but it is a team pass or fail situation. If failure is NOT an option, GET ON BOARD

[heidijaramillo]

Just looking through YouTube this morning I seen with some other dating coaches are saying out there especially dating coaches better men. This one guy is talking about dating over 50 specifically he's speaking to women and he says pretty much men are opportunistic assholes who don't really care about women at all are just out for themselves and that older men over 50 I'm looking for a younger woman which leaves not much left over for us women who are 55 and over. It may be kind of sad and a little angry but just because a person has been divorced there are little or no options out there. You can be an attractive Confident Woman and yet still not find anybody that suits you. I'm a very caring person and I don't want to think that someone is out just to hurt me I'd rather stay alone if that's the case