Asking Women About Simps

In this video, I ask a group of women about "simps" and they give their honest perspective/opinions.

Stella - @stellastevenss
Anna - @annajhawk1
Deja - @dejanatei
Kailee - @kaileeterrance
Lexi - @alexxismxx

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[ajtaylor]

The first woman summed it up perfectly. A simp is a man (or woman) who is willing to please a certain person even at the expense of their own dignity and respect, and we see it everyday especially on social media. Telling a woman you find her attractive is not simping, but constantly telling her that is indeed simping, as well as going out of your way to please her even when she doesn't reciprocate it.

[stevenbrashear]

It's not worth being a simp. Putting them on pedestals will get you nowhere. Treat them like a celebrity, and they'll treat you like a fan.

[byrdmaniacsg]

Guys, don’t humiliate yourself. You will get nothing out of it.

[andresfajardo]

As reserved as I am, I hate to admit that I was a simp for a coworker of mine from my last job. She liked it enough to keep me simping but never gave me a chance. I learned a lot from that girl. Never again will I simp for another woman.

[IamjustBruh]

My personal definition of a simp is a man (or woman) who sacrifices their dignity for an affection of a person who would not reciprocate.

[CataclysmDM]

"They make it seem like it's bad" - it is bad. Really bad. There are legions of women right now who take advantage of men simping/being overly nice and they just use them for free shit and food. It's pathetic. On both sides.

[marinarodriguez-jkqm]

My heart goes out to anyone who wanted to go above and beyond for another person who wasn’t willing to reciprocate and instead of being honest from the beginning, they exploited you. As a woman who has been exploited by a man, I hate hearing the term “simp” used to describe a man who is trying to show up for a woman. If you are a man who has been exploited by women, you’re not going to fix it by not investing in a relationship. It’s a matter of finding someone who is willing to reciprocate the effort in a way that is mutually beneficial and practical.

[anonmouse]

"When she sees that you will do anything she says, she's bound to respect you!" - The wisdom of Milhouse.

[brokecsstudent]

Don't simp, you have more potential than a simp.

[gerardoa]

Simps (Men) and Attention seekers (women) are the worst combinations

[anthonyteichroeb]

I was dealing with a counselour over this topic a little while back and I still have relapses... They made a great point: “simping” is about a mismatch in energy, a dance. If they are not matching your energy and you are trying to MAKE them.. or sell yourself to them- your simping.

[sajzoghet]

It's all about the recepricocity! Whenever the balance in desire is drastically out of balance, you will get "simp" vibes. Generally speaking, Stella nailed it. Seems to me, she gets it!

[CookieMonster-wein]

Best advice for men, dont validate women. Speak to them as if you were speaking to a friend youve had for years. And last, never waste time, if she doesnt like you walk away. No emotions no hard feelings there will always be an endless supply.

[Robert_Westwood]

I had a friend in college who would've been the textbook version of a simp. It was because of the way he was raised. He had a very toxic mother who demanded him to do everything she told him to do in exchange for her affection. And because she sheltered him from world, outside of school, that was how he thought women were to be treated. Fortunately, about a year after he got to college, he met a girl who showed him there are other, healthier, ways to treat women. She was very loving and patient with him in his growth and development, the best thing that ever happened to him. Twenty some odd years later, they're still together, married, three kids, and a moderately successful careers. He got lucky to find such a keeper...

[johnnyboyyyyy]

I’ve definitely been a simp, but because I was raised by a very narcissistic mother who gave affection only in exchange for favors. I still struggled with it, but it’s a result from the dynamics I was raised with.

[brandonbennett]

By far your best video to date. This was very refreshing and nice to get other people's input on the situation that most men, including myself, often deal with.

Last year, I learned this the hard way by constantly chasing after a girl who wasn't reciprocating back. I had to fall back and work on myself. Which was the best thing I could ever do. Looking back one thing that I learned is that you have to heal yourself before you can give yourself, and two established some boundaries.

[Incredible_Mister_J]

I think there is a difference between being a simp and being a romantic. Modern definitions make being romantic seem equal to simping. Romantics care about their partners and will make sure they feel good by letting them know they love them, either by small gestures or communicating that verbally or nonverbally while simps have a perverted view and put women on a pedestal, like paying for pictures or hoping for acknowledgement like a puppy. Simping is a treating the woman like an object, not a person.

[SavageBunny]

When me and my wife first started dating, she was young, only dated 1 guy before me, but she was mean, I would tell her, "You better get off that pedestal some one put you on" because that shit isn't going to fly with me. We've been married for 9 years.

[swingset]

Magically, no one is ever a simp when they're your ATM at dinner time. Lol. Perfect.

[Jessanth]

It was great to hear the different perspectives of each of these women. More of these videos please!