Mindset of the Middle Mid Range Narcissist

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Understand the driver behind much of the behaviour of the MMR Narcissist, what they consciously believe and what unconsciously they actually seek and how this impacts on you.

[vrusnxg]

A true person never brags about how good he is

[vociferonheraldofthewinter]

"I'm just trying to be kind."

Listen, Jack. Good people don't TRY to be kind. They ARE kind. They feel genuine empathy and they act on it. They don't have to force it. They don't have to work for it. They just ARE kind.

If you're always "trying" to be kind, then you aren't kind. True kindness is effortless.

[kr]

If something seems too good to be true that because it is.

[stacymckenzie]

Thank You again HG Tudor. Every word spoken was the truth. After living with a Mid range narcissist. You do loose yourself forget who You are and become there personality. Just get out before Your absolutely consumed. I used to trust everyone until they gave me a reason not to. Now I trust no one. A part of me is gone a stolen innocents that the narcissist has taken. I see people differently now.

[maxi]

My mother was this type!!!

I had to become 54years old to finally see it. Of course my best friend is the same type.

I feel that my life has just come apart and I have no idea how to put it back together. Everywhere I look I see narcissists. How on earth can you trust other people again after such experiences ?

[kauffrau]

This video was very creepy for me - I have been through a relationship with someone who had no boundaries, and smothered me - I developed an unconscious body armor to protect myself - and then I had to move far away. It was only years later, after I had been through some difficult experiences, that I just collapsed from all the pressure and went through a process of taking myself apart piece by piece and putting myself back together. It took decades. Now I have radar for these types - the energy vampires, I can feel it from a distance.

[RJ-ltlk]

I can’t believe anyone anymore ever again.

[luvmeamoose]

All of this!! He came in like prince in a Disney movie! Devalue me, I'd pull away and love bomb me. He controlled me with "kindness" being "good guy" - all the abuse cancelled out any good. This is why when all the shit hit the fan I, friends and family couldn't believe that how could he be capable of this 'he was so in love with me". No he was in love with controlling me. Biggest mind fuck of my life

[xxwatermelon_feathers]

My abusers first sentence when we met in person said he was an empath and he came out of a narcissistic relationship looking back now I should of run then 🙈

[teresarudolph]

During the part where you said, "You needn't take another step, though, because I will carry you. I will lift you up, and I will carry you, onwards towards our joint destination, " I was reminded of something a guy I used to know, who was trained in martial arts, told me. He told me that one of the rules of self-defense is to never let anyone pick you up, because then, you will be at that person's mercy. They will be able to drop you like a rock, throw you down from a very high place, or put you someplace where you don't want to be, where you will be trapped.

While he meant this literally, physically, I think that this also holds true in a metaphorical or psychological sense too. I can't let anyone else carry me through life, because I will be completely at their mercy too.

Some people might say that there are exceptions, that there might be someone I can trust completely, but I haven't met that person yet, and I don't know if I ever will.

[carolflann]

You know you're never going to win with a Narcissist. They will alway's be right and you alway's be wrong. I think there is no middle ground.

[madambutterfly]

Spot On!! Scary how accurate it is! Yes, I did become an extension of the middle range. Yes! Spot on!

[aliciashort]

My mother is a middle mid range type B. My sister is a Middle mid range type A. And my ex romantic partner was a mix of middle mid range type A and B and upper mid range.

ALL of them think they are empaths. It’s hysterical and sad at the same time.

[nancycole]

By the second conversation, he said to me that he loved me. He monopolized my Time by being on the phone hours on end with me and texting me when he wasn't speaking to me. I began to feel very drained and began feeling sick to my stomach, like an onset of an ulcer setting in. By day 3, I blocked him. Not my first rodeo. Thanks for your informative Videos HG, which helped me confirm that I was dealing with a middle range narcissist. By the way it would be very much appreciated if you can cover why contagion super empaths feel negative physical symptoms when pursued by a narcissist

[deepinn]

Thank you HG Tudor. I’m currently dealing with someone who I believe is A Middle Mid Range Narc. I asked him what is values are to which he replied Love, Happiness, Empathy (particularly important to him) and honesty 🤮 I was floored by his answer. His disillusionment is staggering. Perhaps you could do a video sometime on what the real values of a Narc are. It would be fascinating to hear your take on it.

[VesnaVK]

Thank you for this. It makes sense. And yes, others cannot see it and will not believe it until they've become entangled or unless they have glimpsed the facade slip, and then only reluctantly and still with much skepticism. And/or bewilderment.

[misbah]

As soon as you choose yourself they get the 'feels' and you're painted black!

[CorvusLudos]

How can they still believe they are a good person, when lying and denying right in front of evidence to the contrary? A normal person getting caught doing a bad thing would normally confess and/or breakdown when confronted.

[SydMountaineer]

4:34 *Elmyra from TinyToons!* 😂This reminds me of a cartoon character & what they said that I heard when my son was little- I used to repeat it because the mindset is so funny. It’s from Elmyra Duff, a human character in Tiny Toon Adventures, who attends Acme Looniversity with the animal characters. (I had this memorized from decades ago, but I looked it up to get the exact quote.) Elmyra came a across a squirrel, and said:

*"I'll take you home and lock you in a nice little cage, and never never ever let you out, except to pet you..."* (kisses the squirrel) *"...and love you..."* (kisses the squirrel again) *"..and hug you..."* (kisses the squirrel) *"..and squeeze you all up!"* (She hugs the squirrel, who by this point is losing his breath) *"Won't that be fun?”*

[madelinehodges]

Nailed it. You describe and profile them so eloquently. Loved the reference to “killing with kindness”. All so sadly true.