How To Deal With A Rude Disrespectful Child

Dealing with a rude and disrespectful child is always a challenge. It's something that triggers parents more than anything! So in this video, we're going to talk about how you can deal with this situation in three specific steps.

00:28 The first thing you should take care of
01:54 Be careful about this
02:29 Loving them does not imply this
03:15 The three stages
05:04 The second step
06:31 Hone in on the behavior

Watch and Enjoy!
Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[archananadan]

Two things I hate in life are disrespectful children and parents that think its funny

[Fetchup]

The nicer I am to my 4 teen daughters the worse they get. They take kindness for weakness. It can be pure hell .

[wilmabrgz]

gives me some kind of relief seeing i’m not the only mother struggling

[chrisoulalakkas]

When you think you can't go on, force yourself to keep going. Your success is based on persistence, not luck.

[teramehrenberg]

I'm dealing with my own children who have a pack mentality with me. They scream, yell, call names, and refuse instruction. They give ultimatums, they refuse to do what is expected of them, and there are no consequences that matter to them. Their anger continues to build and I am at a loss of what to do to help them.

[crystalpistol]

Your channel has and is truly help me with raising my 13 year old daughter who lost her father to suicide 2.5 years ago. I'm finally getting thru now that I'm working ON ME. She said on the phone to me, 'Mom why are you being so nice? Keep doing it, I like it' and then proceeded to listen to me for 45 minutes talk about Jonah and prayer and the Lord in general. Every day things are getting better and her respect level for me is going up now that I'm not allowing myself to show any anger or frustration. When I don't give in to her attitude, she gives up and then talks to me openly and we usually end up having a wonderful convo

[clementine]

Disrespect is the plague! No order, no guidance, just desires and feelings taking over... a world of pain!

[mamabear_]

I feel like every time I say something to my daughter no matter what it is she always has a negative response from disagreeing to raising my voice. It’s getting to the point I don’t even want to talk to her. My husband has no problem but me I’m the enemy. It’s really heartbreaking and I feel alone 🤦🏾‍♀️

[lesleyjenkins]

I was brought up to 'know my place' . I was always respectful to my parents while growing up in the '50s and this continued when I was an adult. My youngest daughter however, is disrespectful to my husband and I . She has used foul language to me and also gave us silent treatment last year for 7 months. She married a passive aggressive who has alot of 'issues'.
She has stopped our 2 grandsons visiting us.
More recently she stormed off 2 weeks ago because I asked her why she told my grandson not to say 'goodbye ' to his grandfather because he stayed in his study when he had 'flu symptoms, she is very controlling,
I cannot just forgive her easily. Please help

[Sagittarius--]

Tried everything hoping for a miracle my daughter is 17 now for 5 years she’s been doing stuff that I never thought in a million years

[minella]

I just started the video but right off, talking about being aware of your own self in your body and if it is respectful. I have ALWAYS had a problem with my tone. Not just with my son, period. My tone will come across as a completely different attitude than what I am feeling. I catch myself and I apologize and change it. Hopefully I will learn some new tools to put in my parenting toolbox.

[BestdaughtereverEver]

My kindness is being abused by my 15 year old daughter. She’s rude, disrespectful, hard headed and thinks that I’m obligated to do everything for her as a parent, because she didn’t asked to be born. My kid is ungrateful after all the nice things I’m doing for her, getting her all material things she needs. I didn’t trigger her, she’s just feeling entitled. This is an ongoing battle with her. I’m tired of it. I asked her if she wanted to live with her Dad, she didn’t want to. Her Dad doesn’t want her living with him either. I’m just stressed out dealing with her. I have 3 more years left, when she’s 18, I’m done with her. She’s on her own if this is how she’s gonna continue to treat me. I won’t be helping her with college tuition. I’m not putting up with it. I have my limit.

[jacquelinefroehle]

I was dealing with a husband that told our teenage children "You get to do whatever you want....and your mother has to do what you tell her to do. I own the house, so I make the Rules"....so my son decided Mom has to buy him a new mustang. I said "No...I already gave you a very nice car"....he intentionally wrecked his own car 2 times in one week, destroyed the transmission also....with his decision that "If my car is wrecked, she has to buy me a new mustang". He did not get police reports. His friends had a beat up old car and they ran into my Son's car...or vice versa....and no one got police reports. The parents of his friends wanted me to lie to their insurance company....it was a zoo. My husband (whom I had to divorce for abuse)...took up for our son and blamed it on me. "You had those accidents because your mother taught you to drive". I did go through the Drivers Education parent's packet required of parents to work with my Son on driving, learning driving laws, rules, etc. I had to do that, because his Father would not. My Son is now in his late 30's and refused to speak to me or be caring to me, since he was 19 years old. Often, one parent taking up for a child....causes the problems. Very very sad, and painful when we love our children.

[samveer]

My husband has put in my daughter's head, that I never spent time with her. I'm home after my 17 yrs of marriage doing online studies, working on casual jobs from home, taking kids to tuitions, swimming, soccer, hockey, many more activities..since 10years..doing all home chores all alone so far and my husband and my daughter they both disrespect me and they teaching my youngest son who is 10yrs old. My middle son who is 14 perfectly fine with me. My daughter doesn't talk to him, doesn't do any chores at home, doesn't respects me. And being 43 year old woman it feels may God give me death I don't want to live anymore. Its frustrating..they both are rude most of the days in a week. They both make feel soo sick with their words, they not realizing now may God make them realize one day. I'm going through a very difficult time, I can't share these things with anyone coz no one is a Friend in this world they just gossipe they want to know everything about you so they enjoy hearing such stuff.

[crowmaster]

Parents are so used to being the "good guy" that now they look to this video hoping that this works.
The reality is be good when it matters, be bad when it matters

[veeherreraJanecka]

Also, I speak blessing over them as opposed to “you’re a brat !” Etc. If they hear those negative terms they began to internalize that as their role and their identity


Speak blessing over our children
🙏🏽

[lifewithq]

I'm going thru a battle with my 12 year old boy and man he acts like me at time like a eye opener 😂😂

[CharukesiArunraj]

Most awaited topic!! Really nice .. thanks for sharing these insights..

[Elainna]

It’s hard when you’re in a divorce situation and the disrespect is unacceptable so I’m so tired I’m her mom and I’m 56 she’s almost 15 and is going through a lot with her dad not being there for a couple of years due to a girlfriend now that she acted out with drugs he has come back in her life. I can’t even explain its so hard for me how she treats me. If I take her phone away she goes nuts called

[marionbco]

My two adult daughters are extremely disrespectful and rude. Ongoing issues for years. They talk as if they want family counselling, but then don’t follow through.
There seems to be an epidemic of rude adult children, and eventually it breaks down relationships with grandkids. It’s so sad.
The Bible talks about how in ‘the last days’ there will family disfunction, it sure seems to be happening right before my eyes!