10 STOIC LESSONS TO HANDLE DISRESEPECT (MUST WATCH) | STOICISM

10 STOIC LESSONS TO HANDLE DISRESEPECT (MUST WATCH) | STOICISM

In this must-watch video, we explore 10 powerful lessons from the ancient philosophy of Stoicism that can help you handle disrespect with grace and dignity. Stoicism, a philosophy that has withstood the test of time, offers timeless wisdom that can empower you to face challenges with resilience and composure.

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Navigate through this video:

0:00 Intro
0:36 Stoics stay Calm
1:23 Stoics Reflect on Themselves
2:32 Stoics learn to Pause
3:48 Stoics have Empathy
5:42 Strocism is based on Virtue
6:50 Stoicism embraces Acceptance
8:08 Stoics use Humour
9:04 Stoicism means setting Clear Boundaries
10:04 Stoics Forgive
11:27 Stoicism will change your perspective

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[donnaclemmons]

Really hard to be stoic with a narcissist

[HauntedGuitarMan]

This is the stuff kids should be learning in schools at an early age.

[macblink]

Remember that when someone disrespect you, is a result of their personal thoughts and emotions, not a true representation of yourself and your values 👌🏻

[johnshields]

Even as a 10 year old Boston kid in 1970 I've had a chip on my shoulder, always fighting older kids for bullying others or myself, I'm still the same way, l. My father told me, if you fight every Ahole you meet, you'll be fighting 24/7, he was right.

[FaithFilled.]

Never in a million years did I think philosophy would encapsulate my interests. Growing up is fun. 😂

[danserrano]

1. Keep your calm-their behavior is a reflection of their erroneous thoughts, and negative emotions; others insecurity;
2. Reflect on yourself-are they telling the truth, then silently reform yourself in line with your envisioned values;
3. Pause-resist the impulse to react;
4. Practice empathy-have compassion on their ignorance;
5. Concentrate on virtue of wisdom and courage, respond with reason not emotions;
6. Embrace acceptance- you have no control with others. Happy with what you have, not compare with others what you lack;
7. Use Humor-or simply smile never take it seriously;
8. Set clear boundaries- be the mountain no matter how the wind howls never bow down to it;
9. Choose forgiveness-let go of negative emotions, with compassion in fighting justice and
10. Change your perspective -take the higher view and broader perspective. Never entertain vengeance, manage your emotions with reason. Everything and everyone shall come to pass, do not be too attached to temporal wealth, power or fame and even pleasures of the Earth.

[dennisliamardell]

Met a man, named Roy masters.
He wrote a book “ how to control your emotions .”
Helped me enormously.
“ How your mind can keep you well .”
Those books are life changers.
Roy Masters, unlike cult gurus
Would never tolerate anyone worshiping him.
He often said “ never follow anyone who wants you to work for them who will not pay you ; and, never follow gurus who do not have nine to five jobs and EARN THEIR OWN WAY IN this world.”Perfect advice for avoiding cults.
I just found out this wonderful man died a few years ago ;who gave of himself so freely over the decades on his radio program.
R. I. P. Roy Masters . I still have many of his books . I am glad I had the experience of meeting Roy MATERS in Los Angeles in 1977-
Basically, his message was “ never follow anyone ( especially him)-but yourself .”

[martinadelaney]

The minute someone disrespects you. Walk away.

[jimbogan]

Remember being a stoic also doesn't mean being a doormat and letting someone to continue doing disruptive behaviour.

[lemmesay]

1. Keep calm
2. Recognize your part, if any
3. Learn to pause in anger
4. Have empathy
5. Concentrate on virtue/be rational, maintain integrity
6. Embrace acceptance, you can not control the external
7. Use humor/do not take it seriously
8. Set clear boundaries
9. Choose forgiveness
10. Change your perspective, it is really not a big deal

[justice]

Yes, we do understand that disrespect comes from the person's insecurities and jealously. If it happens repeatedly, we can't just keep taking it or they will walk all over us. Best thing is to avoid these people.

[bambbam]

I have been in a terrible 29 year relationship, when I met her she was 21, and I was 26, when we met she was already having major life issues and I fell for her deeply and I told her I could help her, well during the entire relationship I was trying to fix someone that wasn’t will to fix themselves but I didn’t give up because I always thought it would get better and here I am 29 years later sharing my life story. You can’t fix anyone and you can’t help others unless they are willing to fix themselves. These videos have help me a lot so thank you, divorce isn’t the end of my life but a new beginning. 😊

[kyledowning]

Admittedly, I have a hard time letting disrespect go. The urge to defend yourself against unfair or unjust criticism often overrides rationality, and it's hard to think clearly in the moment. It takes extreme willpower to walk away from painful situations, and even more to respond in a calm, collected manner. It has to become a daily habit before it can become a normal part of our psyches. Some days if just feels so hard to maintain.

[thinkagain]

These are principles that even a person with schizophrenia hearing mean thoughts can follow to create a better life for themselves. And I write this from my own perspective, me being one with schizophrenic thoughts and growing to handle them better after 5 years with no medicine and managing it with humor and grace in the name of my dignity.

[happygolucky]

I wish the US would teach this in every school. So many children would grow up to be better citizens and happier adults.

[jessevincentsawian]

I would argue sometimes that by not doing anything we empower them, with the confidence that there would be no consequences to their actions and would lead to an increase to their actions.

[thebutton]

This week extreme disrespect was visited upon me. Twice in one day. I laid in bed literally physically sick. I was not able to go to work.
Sure wished i knew about this here upload!

[dylansmith]

One line my wife loves when somone comes to me and disrespects me is "start over" they either get offended or repeat themselfs in a more respectful manner if they get offended I simply state "I want to hear what you have to say but I want it to be civil" simple as that my boss hates it but he has never given me disrespect since a few times of that. He now knows he can't push me.

[kalfive]

If they can make you angry or upset, they can control you. Don't be controlled by others.

[dudersification]

Being a nice person I always get frowned upon, talked less to meaning people make jokes at your expense, seen as feeble or weak, a push over or lack confidence. In the face of adversity I smile and keep on walking, those who wish to destroy your character will only get more frustrated because their insecurities do not affect your psyche meaning when people try to belittle and fail they only get more angry with themselves because they cannot project their insecurities upon you. Smile and walk with your head high no matter what type of difficulties you are experiencing