Men Talk About Whether You Can Be Friends With An Ex

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my dad once told me a very good piece of advice - "it's impossible to keep being friends with someone you've seen naked."

PeachFuz
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When my ex- and I got divorced, she got a job in Venezuela. I cannot recommend that enough!

I never had to see her in the grocery store, with her new boyfriend or run into her at the gas station. We had no loans together and never had kids.

I can't tell you how great it was to break up with her and then never see her again.

But as the years went on, I still had dreams about her every six months or so. That lasted for about ten years. I'd wake up feeling like I *just* got divorced and it was exactly as horrible. :-( That feeling would last for weeks.

davidbuschhorn
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Only problem is you have to be in a relationship in the first place.

junkster
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I would never even want to date someone who was friends with their ex's. Especially close friends. HUGE red flag. I've seen my friends boyfriends/girlfriends stay friends with their ex's and almost always my friends get cheated on because their boyfriends/girlfriends end up having sex with their ex's. "Friends" they say, lol.

So I've learned that if someone can't let go of their past and move forward, I don't want to invest too much of my time in the person.

Coryo
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I agree with guy who said it's far more difficult if they "broke your heart." If you're still hurt or unhappy with how things ended, or if you haven't moved on from the situation, it's pretty difficult to maintain a friendship with that person.

sclwilliams
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You can be civil and friendLY but not best mates

EdeLovesGerrard
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Im friends with an ex
And shes my best friend now
Shes wonderful and our past doesnt get between us (:

Valpalmal
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Hell no you can't stay friends. After a break up, make sure you end off on a note where both of you are civil, then avoid all friendship to dodge catching feelings again. I have so many stories that led me to this conclusion.

jacobwright
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I have no exes, so I don't know what I'm doing here

luisacalsavara
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Like the one guy said, I think in respect to your current partner you shouldn't be friends with your ex.

ohitsmarinaaa
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I tried to be friends with a girl that broke my heart once, it didn't work out. Maybe now a couple of years later we could be just friends but it was too hard to keeps things 'friendly' when we still had some feelings for each other but couldn't get back together. Its a roller-coaster I do not recommend you ride!

yamban
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If you can be friend with an ex then you didn't really love each other, simple as that. How are you going to be able to see someone that you've shared such intimate moments with create those same moments with someone else and still feel happy for them? I'm sorry it just doesn't happen. And on the other end I wouldn't want someone I've shared such deep feelings and emotions mucking up a new relationship just because they're there, when you share things like that with another human being those feelings linger and sometimes bubble to the surface.

Just my two cents

chimi
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well seeing I've never dated anyone, I wouldn't exactly know.

astranoon
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Speaking from experience, I would strongly advise against it.

Lax
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I see YouTube got rid of the under 301 club.

shatteredmemoryz
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After a break up you cease to exist to me

mananexus
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All I think of when it comes to that topic is "How I met your Mother". 

And then I realise that the show is not real.

feena
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Saying "we broke up, but we can still be friends" is like saying "the dog died, but we can still keep it"

Lauraismusical
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I agree with this video completely, if shes broken your heart and then wants to be friends theres no freakn way that can be possible without some emotional attatchment its just not possible

Joshiemo
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I think being friends and keeping in touch can be good, but being close friends seems like it would cause some problems

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