How To Tell When A Man IS Interested In You!

[Venusgem]

I’ve Learned That A Man That Doesn’t Ask Questions About You Or Your Lifestyle Is A Complete Waste Of Time.

[amaragrace]

FACTS. Put them lil emotions to the side and PAY ATTENTION to the quality of your conversations. I even recommend journaling about it. Pros, cons. Things become VERY clear. You might even realize you don't even like him all that much.

[sunnyflower]

I write poetry, he had no interest, didnt even ask about it. I paint landscapes, he never ask to see them. I volunteer Saturdays at the animal shelter, he never ask about that. Everything is about him and his wants and interest. He doesn't even really know me, the real me.

[ThaanimebookieTV]

He's right. When a man is interested in you, he will learn you and come up with topics of discussion about your interests and it may align with his

[FAMDSH]

A man who is interested in your will see you as an extension of himself. He will do for you what he want for himself.

[Rockgirl-fqgc]

I'm not sure any man has ever truly loved me.

[aleciadunlap]

A person that pays attention is focused

[Bluesmoke]

So true. I knew my current guy was the one when he offered/gave me $500 for my seat deposit for law school. He is always talking about how smart I am and is super proud of me for becoming a lawyer.

[tt]

He's right ladies, listen up. A good man is not a selfish man 💪🏾🌏💪🏼
❤Kings care👑

[Cautionbankz]

What sucks is when you meet a man who does all of this, pays attention to you, you finally let your guard down and out of nowhere, they ghost you with no explanation. Go from talking everyday, laughing.. Everything was good one day then he just ghosts you..😢😢

[TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising]

My husband would buy me books while we were dating, because reading is my favorite pasttime. And the kind of books he got, let me know he was listening to me because those books would be on point 😁.

[angelitalee]

I’m rubbish at knowing when a guy actually likes me but I know when guys ain’t into me; Puts me down. Names calling. Disrespectful. Rudeness. Walking behind me and NOT taking me out on proper dates. Took me a long time to understands it! I was stupid back then. Not today !

[melissamedlin]

He still benefits from those things because a woman will go above and beyond for someone who pays attention to the little things. ❤

[annieterry]

I was very nervous the night before I was to have a colonoscopy…my sweetie called and prayed for me….he’s such a good guy❤

[cynthiareynolds]

So true if he interested in you he will pay attention to you

[Cheerleader]

Noted!
Been knew this. I explained this to a guy and his response was “ I’m different, I don’t just want you for one thing.” Everytime it came time to talk about or do something I wanted to talk discuss/ do- excuses on how he doesn’t have patience, the line is to long, I’m getting to deep, and he don’t think about that kind of stuff. I knew he wasn’t on nothing or wasn’t intelligent- lacked intellect. I lost interest but most importantly he never gained me!

[trenastewart]

When you have a know it all man who takes no accountability, insults everything you say that doesn't suit him, degrade you bc you ask questions, cheat, lie, and hold secrets it was hard to talk or deal with. I left that narc right by himself. It took me a long time to figure out who I was dealing with. That narc life ain't no joke.

[charmariah]

I take notes when I meet men especially while speaking by phone. I’m over 50, but the idea came from my 34 year old co-worker. Best advice! It has kept me from wasting my time.

[reneetreece]

It takes a real man to do those things❤

[lindaefraim]

My now husband told a girl that was after him when we not even had start to dating it was just the second time we meet with friends at a club, that girl was not a friend of him or me and he told her to back off. He was chasing me, the hottest guy in the club and I knew I would never get a man like that the first time we meet but the second time when he told the other girl to back off I knew he want me and only me. We been together for 30 years now and married for 27 years and also have six kids.