Hidden Red Flags (That Destroy Relationships)

Hidden Red Flags (That Destroy Relationships). Learn the hidden red flags that destroy relationships and your self-esteem. Love Advice pulls back veil on the traits you’ll miss when dating that come back to haunt you later: #redflags #hiddenredflags #disposition #toxicpartner #datingadvice #healthyrelationships
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[SusanWinter]

OH MY GOODNESS. I LOVED THIS SHOW. THANKS TO ALL WHO PARTICIPATED~

[andadollar]

This was very helpful to see through angry partners. They tend to hide behind their charm, helpfulness, etc. Ladies, you always have to ask yourself the question: why is this tall, handsome, educated, successful professional man never been married? ---All the smart women find out and run! Thanks Susan!

[camellia]

So true about asking yourself if the effort you are making is worth it, is the relationship actually progressing

[woopiemiddleman]

“Moody equals selfish”; this is brilliabt❤ thank you Susan for such great wisdom!

[mesCheerios]

sometimes love is not enough because relationships are about day to day functionality. Ugh it's so sadly TRUe.

[joesandstrom]

I’m going to leave my commentary here for those who may find it useful.

When someone carries red flags, I don’t believe they are ever truly hidden, but many people are just blind to them. They either choose not to see them, aren’t wise enough to recognize them, haven’t done the proper investigative work to unveil them, or simply don’t have the power to walk away from the warning signs.

Although I don’t believe red flags are ever truly hidden, I do believe that those whom carry red flags often try to conceal them as best as they can; and often suspiciously. If someone claims you yourself carry red flags, but all you have ever done was showed up with green flags, they themselves are the ones concealing their own red flags, and it won’t be long before they start waving them. It’s part of the covert narcissist playbook and they will point to you as the one who supplied the red flags they were already carrying; which they are now ferociously and desperately waving.

What I just described is a form of gaslighting and projection, a false flags operation and diversionary tactic; and in magic, this is an illusionary trick commonly known as a misdirection:

‘Hey! Look over there!
*Alakazaam!*
Voila! See? You’re the problem!’

[Diabeteslovewithdee]

OMG Susan, So true! Moody = Selfish

[catherinegardener]

Wow 😮 thank you so much great information to have your the best Susan❤

[lucyloo]

Darn it missed the show. Listening now. Thanks Susan

[faithludlow]

@susanwinter I really enjoyed today's show - thank you! I sent a super chat but my question got lost in chat - I hope it's ok if I send you an email. Many thanks!