I Read the Top 25 Books on Love. Here’s What I Learned.

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*SUMMARY*
Self-knowledge: Relationships Have to be Conscious Love & Not to Fill a Void
1. Being in a relationship should not be to fill a void. (Is this person filling a void and what do I have to do to feel whole?)
2. You really have to like the other person. Focus on the fundamental character of your partner rather than just the feelings. (Years into the relationship when the passion has faded, what are the traits you wish they would have?)
3. Relationships are not about what you can get, but about what you can give.

Prompt: Am I entering into a long-term relationship because there is something unresolved? or is it because I want to find the best match and make their life the best as possible?

[infpbubble]

I loved the point of it is easy to love someone on a trip to hawaii but you need to love that person on the 5 hour flight just the same

[SY-spuo]

Who is aiming to read lots of books this year? 🎉

[olliviermae]

Passion towards your lover never dies.
People allow it to. Love should get stronger, not weaker.

[salimaosman]

At the end of the day. We get into relationships to grow and to learn something about ourselves. They are no perfect person out there.

[AndreyZenperial]

Love is literally one of the highest frequency of vibration, no wonder when we are in love it feels like we’ve got the whole world at our feet! Great video✌🏻

[brownhairedgirl]

this is by far the best relationship advice i have ever ever ever listened to. i’m 20 and have always been single, but while soaking in all of this information, i think of how toxic my parents’ relationship is and how i want to my future relationship become nothing like theirs.

[kendallhamilton]

Thank you so much. From the bottom of my heart, the world needs more people like you.

[AhmetKaan]

*Hello everyone who will see this comment anytime in the future! I hope your 2021 will be so much better than your 2020. Stay strong, I am cheering for you!*

[CaseyBurnsInvesting]

This was an awesome video. Shared vision, family values, shared religion, and being a complete person are super important in my relationship.

[khaledabegum]

Can we get the list of the 25 books please?

[suncluster]

After my last relationship I finally realized I was recreating the dynamic of my parents relationship. And it was abusive. My exhusband has alienated me from my child so it continued after our divorce. I am the friend who was broken down so much that I can’t pay my rent and can’t keep friends. Because I just gave up on my life for a long time. I am still trying to climb out of the hole. It’s a long road ahead but I am clear I will never ever have another relationship like I did in my past either with another person OR MYSELF.

[alizeederochefort]

Whoa. Thank you so much Alex. I'm 19 and I am so glad I'm watching your video now. For each of your realization I asked myself, and I am happy to realize that the relationship I am into now seems to be healthy, according to what you say. It makes me feel good to know that I'm on a good path. Thanks!

[ursulac.]

COVID has really got me reevaluated why I should wait before hoping into another relationship.

[phloatuk]

I found falling in love and accepting myself attracted men to me even when I wasn't looking or interested in a relationship. Sticking to principles is really important to have a healthy relationship no matter how hard. thank you for you video is was really insightful and inspiring

[fatiraaureliatarigan]

Thank you for the video, this is a really good food for thought.

For the third point, I feel there's a lot of nuances that needs to be stated. One of the most important is "giving is not the same as fixing". I think there's a very thin line that makes people have trouble differenciating the two. But when we're able to, it makes a whole lot of difference.

[hazaeleduardorojas]

Thank you for this video. I am not in love nor have I been in a relationship for over 10 years. Working evenings and never making enough money has been the (thought) thing that has held me from meeting someone, but mainly because I was not asking the universe the right things. Knowing what I need in a relationship I had no clue, but now that I have had time to know myself I am clearer on what I need. I also am working on releasing that into the universe and just let life take its course. Paying attention to my own needs and loving myself is key to finding all the things I desire in life, Love is one. Thanks again for making this even more clear for me.

[ledarodriguez]

Great advice. I have found getting out of yourself is always the answer. We are all so self centered. Relationships helps us develop our most selfless nature :)

[michelangelopazienza]

This is one of the most true and most helpful channels on YouTube hands down. Thank you!

[djf]

Luckily, I got the info about LIKING the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with when I was in my early teens. My S.O. and I have been together nearly 50 years now. You asked, "Would you still want to be with the person even if nothing sexual ever happened?" This is a seriously good question. Another thing to ask is, "Have I developed into a well-rounded person who brings good things to the table?" and the last is, "Have they."