HOW TOXIC MASCULINITY IS DESTROYING WOMEN, MEN, FAMILY UNIT & THE SOCIETY

TOXIC MASCULINITY DETROYING WOMEN, MEN, THE FAMILY UNIT & THE SOCIETY
Discover the destructive impact of toxic masculinity on individuals and society in our latest video. We examine how harmful stereotypes and expectations can lead to negative outcomes for both men and women, ultimately affecting the fabric of our communities. #GenderRoles #FamilyDynamics #CommunityWellbeing

[zk]

men need to stop gatekeeping "demons". women are not living in rainbows and butterflies.

[sadejones]

They judge women all the time... They basically want a mother

[Autumn-zdnq]

What gets me is that they act like women don’t go through this too. The difference is women will go to therapy and men refuse to do anything about their issues.

[REDvellvett]

One of the things I find crazy is they're the ones who try and belittle women and calling us emotional and sensitive.

[rainingblueflowers]

Most Men don't open up to anyone including family and friends. Stop blaming women and seek help. ❤

[justacoginthefkery]

Men: "if you make us feel unsafe, you'll never hear from us again."

Yet when women actually put that same concept into practice, men lash out & act even more aggressive like it's going to help them.

[ana-nim]

I don't care.
When women express their emotions men shame them and make fun of them, gaslight them and say "oh you have pms".
And for some reason we should feel sorry for them now?
Men suffer from the consequences of their own system? Good, not enough.

[Buffy-the-Karenslayer]

They make us feel unsafe. They use what was shared in that moment of vulnerability too. Every accusation is a confession. Emotional blackmail comes from men too!

[livelife]

I’m a woman with alexithymia, women suffer with this too, it’s more common than people realise. Most women have been taught to suppress their emotions in relationships, put up with emotionally unavailable men & cater to men’s emotional needs before their own. We’re taught to be emotionally available to everyone except ourselves & when we do put ourselves first we’re told we’re selfish evil bishes. We’re told that if we cry or express our feelings in any way we’re being manipulative & we attract predatory males when we show a signs of vulnerability.
Also, I’m over hearing about males feelings & problems. They don’t care about women’s feelings & problems so I don’t see why I should care about theirs.

[missinterpretation]

I am just so sick of their fragility. Literally the world has evolved and all we need them to do is be our partners and they’re melting down.

[MBJean]

I just dgaf, they need to grow tf up and gtf out of our way because we have adulting to do

[nitarhodes]

You know what I'm hearing listening to everything that was said...men are still expecting women to perform unpaid labor by carrying the emotional load of their lack of humanity. With the exception of the first guy identifying the condition, it was women who laid out the impact it has on everyone around them, because they don't know how to regulate and express their emotions properly to benefit themselves or their loved ones. Oh, they said why they don't share, and the consequences of having their vulnerabilities thrown back in their faces during an argument (like they don't do the same or worse) but not one of them stated how they need to start addressing the problem.

I'm so over it.

[okaycola]

If Masculinity is attainable for women then it is achievable for men too.

[TM-nbzf]

"Fighting demons" is such a scary statement to me. When men say it..
I think
1. Gay
2. Sexual predator
3. DRUGS
4. OR violent thoughts

[nnn]

Let’s just build an all women planet and move there, please.

[thandondlovu]

It's not a woman's job to teach men to be decent human beings. It's the 21st century the tools for self improvement have long been established already figure it out for your self because guess what 🤷 Women had too - On top of the Physical and Emotional Abuse women are subjected to By Men we still are expected to take care of ourselves while simultaneously putting everyone else above ourselves.

[Niona_Shashai]

I honestly can't take it anymore. Everything they do has an excuse. Every time they don't match up, excuse. I'm sick of it. Emotion blindness? I just.. I'm tired of it. 😂

[dalmalifemore]

Omg you are grown up now men - teach yourselves!!! We all as adults have to figure things out - women are not the target of your rage anymore figure it out!

[LeilaniLight]

They can shut down. They can clam up. They can punish us by witholding. Go ahead. I ain't gonna be around to suffer none o that!

[evergreenforestwitch]

I am autistic and have alexithymia. I have Boomer parents and nobody taught me as a child how to identify and express emotions, either, but I recognized that this struggle caused negative impacts in my life and took it upon myself to dive into psychology, self help, spirituality and to develop tools and practices to learn how to do this. Even with my skills, I still require alone time and often journaling to understand what's going on when I'm upset. There is no excuse in 2024 not to do this work. I got the same conditioning those dudes did - don't cry, nobody cares about your feelings, don't complain - and I have neurological disability that is the cause of my alexithymia and I still was able to develop these skills. These men have no excuse. It's been decades of women saying emotional intelligence was important. They don't want to learn. It's not because they can't or that the information on how to develop these skills is unavailable. They are choosing to remain stuck. I have zero sympathy.