3 Tragic Things Destroying Men and Masculinity Today ☝️☝️

[TheComedyHistorian]

I used to struggle with the first one, but now I’m four months free from Pornography and feeling in charge.

[billybrandt]

I'd have to say social media is the biggest killer here

[ke]

Bro you are always on point! Much appreciated 👍

[kshitijarora]

Excessive video games and processed junk food too

[MartaBuck]

I don't think it's slow tbh, it's rapid

[ashmirecringe]

Biggest factor is actually lack of good father figure to guide them and show them true masculinity. Men resort to those things without guidance in the world fron a father.

[Oqhixiism]

I thought this was gonna be toxic but your actually right!

[ambermshana]

Thank you SO much for speaking the truth🙏I feel a lot of fear for good people never being able to find their one.

[Volymbrez]

the first one i can relate but the second and the drugs i cannot...

[hunterkiller]

Treat pr0n like a reward. Like watch it while you workout or after something successful. Like finishing an exam or essay.

[t.o.g]

It's sad when you realise that so many of those things in your life and it's really hard to remove it, then thinking that how could your life can be better without it

[Mixtyonthegrind]

One of these days I will kms then everyone that every bullied me or rejected me will wonder why I did it

[tatumtots]

I like masculinity but I hate the thought of “rejecting weakeness” Thats not what being a guy is about or even a person as a whole. We were built to cry and show emotion not be one sided

[mazerunner]

I’m already at the first two.


Fuck.

[TheGoodGuy]

I quit all social media except YouTube over a year ago. I then Quit cannabis and alcohol over 7 months ago, quit caffeine 3 month ago, I recently quit vaping Nicotine. I eat relatively healthy and exercise at least 4 days per week.. I got promoted at my job, I got stronger and realised this war within ourselves is caused by Culture and the weakness it wants us to be. It’s evil.

Funnily enough I don’t feel symptoms of depression, anxiety like my old uneducated, unmotivated pussy self once felt. I feel almost completely free, motivated and the voice inside myself spurs me on instead of berating me like we have all felt.

Find God and find discipline, then you’ll find self respect and self love and realise what we are really going against.

Who do you want to be? ✌️

[Dan.Solo.Chicago]

Self medicating is so common that most people do it and don’t even realize it. They’ve probably never even heard of it, let alone understand the concept.

[baadshahgaming]

Therapies and emotions are not our weakness it's true but right on the other hand we are judged for showing our emotions. Nobody really cares or wants to know how you feel they just want to get their work done anyhow you do . Hence we are forced to hide our pain and emotions, slowly and gradually everything gets build inside and then we become rude . We listen to them but we don't get listened . I personally experience this every single day in my life, the one I consider my priority they don't even seem to consider me close I feel they just hangout with me because I am alive and won't even care when I die . I want to have a healthy relationship with my parents but they judge me too every single time I share my thoughts or emotions the only reply I get is " be a man " . I want to know what you think a man is, one who doesn't have emotions, doesn't want love and can bear everything you say to him without getting hurt or responding back ? That's a machine my friend that's not how humans are but we have to do it because even after bearing their 1000 abuses and angry moments, when just one time we show our anger, we are just called toxic males . How are males supposed to survive further ahead when just as teen we males want to die . Either we grow up as depressed adults or we die in our teen age that's what the future holds for men . PERIOD

[cinnamontea-qy]

not me deleting my rant about toxic masculinity as soon as I see the reasons

[arcane_heaven]

These 3 things are destroying everyone.

[spynix]

Toxic masculinity is oddly a factor I.M.O. However this leads into the second point brought up of mental health.