Biwi Agar Dusri Shadi Karne Se Rokay Tu Shohar Ko Kya Karna Chahiye | Ustazah Nighat Hashmi

Biwi Agar Dusri Shadi Karne Se Rokay Tu Shohar Ko Kya Karna Chahiye | Ustazah Nighat Hashmi

[khannaveed]

Yahan jitne mard mojud hain apni betiyon k shoharon ki bhi 4, 4 shadyan krwaen baraey meher bani

[SafiyaNaaz-lk]

Thank you sister, you said it very well.

[hina]

Assalam o alaikum
You are the first Muslim scholar who favoured first wife so nicely and logically . Allah bless you

[dranam]

Ma sha Allah such a wise lecture
Never ever heard before anything like this
Many ulmas r just pushing women away from islam by just forcing the need of second marriages

[khannaveed]

Mera mashwara hai sab mard apne baapon ki 3 4 shadyan kar waden maaen bhi khush betay bhi khush orton ka sukh hi sukh

[ustaadsalmankingt]

Mam ap ne dil jeet lia apny dil ki baat keh di allah ap ki har khwaish puri kary jannat de apko

[mubeensheikh]

Amazing ❤❤❤
Meri 2 shadiyan hui hain dono Masha Allah khush hain main b khush hu bht dono se
Alg alg ghar main rhti hain dono ko haq b mil raha ha

[khizarhayat]

Assalamualaikum baji absolutely right baji

[sumbulkhanxid]

Bahut achi baat hi aapne Haq k hwale se.Allah Jza dein

[ilovegtg]

You are absolutely right sister .you are one of the wise scholar

[mohammedsameerullah]

This madam is encouraging women to ask devorce rather than advising men to keep womens separate.

[harunyahyadotorg]

Polygyny is a much needed sunna and needs to be revived, respected, and practiced. Not to be counter argued with bad arguments, suppressed with bad understanding and neglected by excessive females rights... 42 out of 43 inhabitants of the hellfire are women, and most will come during the end of times, such as now.

May Allah guide and reform you.

Allah knows best.

[mominaahmad]

Assalamualikum everyone.
For those who are saying 2nd shadi is sunnah and those giving examples of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Please tell me do men of our society do the perfect justice between their wives like the holy prophet? Maybe very few.
If a man is not doing justice, ustazah is saying that then the wife has all the right to get separate. Khula is a right given by Islam. And khula can be for many reasons. One of the reasons is injustice among multiple wives.
When pakistani men say we married 2nd time for sunnah, are they really following sunnah in its true essence?

[fareedali]

Agr mard dono ko equal rights de raha ha to mard ko teesri and chothi shadi b krni chahye....aj kal ki khawateen mard k liye dosra nikah karna itna mushkil kr deti ha k mard ghalat rasto pe lag jata ha aur is jurm ki saza ki asal haqdar wo biwi ha jis ne mard ko itna majboor kea k wo ghalat rastay pe chal para

[mzullah]

If the husband is not just between 2 wives then the woman has the right. But if a man is taking care of both then its not wise for a women to take divorce.

[ustaadsalmankingt]

Aj fakar hai k kisi ne orat k dil k bary me soca

[asmasyed]

The one and only condition is justice if a man cant do justice then he is not allowed for multiple marrriges.
And hamaray nabi ki tarah koi insaaf nai kar sakta . Or aaj kal ka mard to bilkul nahi.

[luckyaiman]

Aise to. Zindagi or nikah to ek khel ban jayega ki ek ko pyar kro chahe aurat ya aadmi mann bhar jaye chorr do fir doosri kro fir waisa hi kro to nikah ko majak smjhna bht bada gunah hai

[harunyahyadotorg]

To dislike a sunna such as polygyny, is this good? To prohibit / dislike someone from fulfilling the sunna is this good? To prohibit / dislike or take kulla (divorce) from someone who wants the sunna (for what ever good reason, be it for sex or a younger, slimmer more beautiful bride) and is an order of Allah, (if possible) is this good? Is this a sunna to prevent; surah nisa verse 4? Yes there has to be justice, of course, it says that! But didn’t one of the wives of the Messenger, (pbuh) gave her (time / sexual) rights up to remain married to the Prophet (pbuh)? Yes she (ra), did! (Aisha ra got this extra day). She didn’t seek a divorce or cause problems, but chose to prevent it, and remained married and made her marriage more better then before.

[bashirahmed]

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:

Of the dinar, you spend as a contribution in Allah's path, or to set free a slave, or as a sadaqah given to a needy, or to support your family, the one yielding the greatest reward is that which you spent on your family.
Sahih Muslim 995

According to the above Hadith, it is the greatest reward for one who spends on his family, having two families and spending on them can double your rewards, another benefit of polygamy