A Young Man's Attitude Towards Women - Biblical Manhood Part 3 - Paul Washer

Although our American culture has blurred the lines between masculinity and femininity, Christians are to be different in the way that they treat the opposite sex. In this teaching session on Biblical manhood, Paul Washer explains what kind of attitude that young men are supposed to have toward young women.

Paul Washer of HeartCry Missionary Society. All rights reserved. Used by permission.

[gingerraptor]

The hardest part for me is when I see people my age dating and looking like they're having the time of their lives, and I think of how great it would be to begin a relationship with someone, which makes me discontent and envious. But then I have to remember that I'm not ready, and that the Lord's timing is perfect, so I should be content with where I'm at in life right now

[bayani]

Every man in this generation should watch this Biblical Manhood series by Paul Washer

[TheTrenchesYT]

Funny that Pastor Washer says "don't marry a Cinderella." I know he meant the sparkly Disney princess fashion model kind of character, but the complete picture of Cinderella is actually that dignified, hardworking homemaker that he described. Don't marry someone who looks like Cinderella on the ballroom floor just because she looks like that-- but do look for a girl with the humility, wisdom and strength of the fabled Cinderella!

[Meru]

I am 26 and I have never mistreated a woman but I treat them like my other friends. I needed to hear this. I will change my attitude and behavior around women.

[piotrsliwka]

Thanks pastor Paul. No one said that in my place. But every men needs to hear that.

[rauliciii]

I come back to these messages from time to time and check myself.

[joew]

God bless you for teaching on this subject. Very needful in today’s world.

[jennamarielovesjesus]

This was great, all 3 Parts🙌🏼🙋🏻‍♀️🙏🏼✝️

[gokeogunremi]

Pastor Paul Washer speaks some very heavy truths and words (I completely lost it when he said, “dislocated father”) Oh man!
It’s a word for all men (young and old)

[gordonramsayjr]

Thank you Sir Paul Washer, my biblical mentor.

[legendarylinus]

I just like your communication style sir. Cool but yet compelling.

[silasyoder]

Very nice series! I enjoyed listening to it and greatly appreciate Mr. Washer’s view on these things. I hope more guys can listen to this and be encouraged and want to become more godly and Christlike.

[techno_techie]

I wonder how a single woman like myself, who has been single forever, can be protected from those who would not treat me with honor. My dad isn't a strong Christian if he even is one. If a Godly man approaches me, do I direct him to my dad? To my elders? My reality is one of divorced parents.

[bassoonatlarge]

Listening to this again after hearing it for the first time maybe 4 years ago. Great wisdom from a man after the Lord.

[jamesbarten]

Brutal. Don't watch this if you're not looking to put in the work.

[mpilozuke]

I never heard this, i which i heard it early

[thefamily]

Biblical truth must sound very foreign to this generation, it wasnt too long ago in America that we lived by many of these principals even the non believers.

[iuk]

I will lesten over and over again till it sinks.

[briannaleyva]

Agradecido de terminar esta serie, mucho ánimo en el señor y saludos desde Tijuana a todos 🇲🇽 pt: Desde el YT de mi esposa

[macaiden]

Lots of good things to be learned here, especially when he has scripture to back it.
He also says a lot of things that sound proper, but those things need scripture behind them as well.
I can't persuade other people that he's more right than they if there is no scriptural foundation on either side.

Example:
That an unmarried young woman is to be under her father's authority as long as she remains unmarried. I believe this is true based on Exodus 22:16-17, and Numbers 30:3-5, which Mr. Washer cited. However, the extent of her father's authority is not clearly defined here in scripture. Mr. Washer would say in my situation, that I need to go to the young woman's father before entering into a relationship and ask him permission to enter that relationship. How do I convey this to other people? My parents say that I should simply ask the young woman out, so that I can talk to her, to see what kind of woman she is. However, Mr. Washer would say that asking the woman out would initiate conflict and a small amount of emotional response out of the girl that would affect her. I respect my parents, but I want to honour the young woman's father and mother. I especially want to do what is right in God's sight and in accordance with scripture.

I think 99% of Mr. Washer's principles are good and true, but many of them are also more opinion than scriptural fact.