She wants me as a friend but I love her What should I do?

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She wants me as a friend but I love her. What should I do?

Contrary to what you probably expected to hear when writing this, the best suggestion is that you should do absolutely nothing. You heard me right. The best thing to do is nothing. You do not want to chase a girl who doesn't want to be with you. That will be equivalent to setting yourself up for failure, negativity, unhappiness, and even depression. No one in their right senses should also think of putting themselves through such pain. Everything else aside, you deserve to be with someone who wants you as much as you want to be with them.
I may sound harsh, but trust me, I learned this the hard way. If only I had someone to tell me what I am telling you now. But like they say, "experience is the best teacher." Back in my first year at Uni, I was friends with a girl. The friendship grew naturally from when our paths crossed when we were both at school. It then happened that we were in the same classes pursuing the same degree.
After a year of walking to class together, sharing a desk, doing projects and assignments together, going out and having fun together, and even meeting each other's family, I realized that I had developed feelings for her. I was attracted to her in a way that was more than friendship. At first, I did not know how to deal with these feelings, mainly because I was not sure of what she felt towards me.
It would kill me every time I saw her with another guy or anytime she told me of a guy she was crushing on. Even worse, were the times she was trying to play matchmaker for me, and other girls she thought were good for me. After fighting this silent battle for several months, I decided to open up with how I felt. This was after my cousin suggested that the girl could be feeling the same for me, plus I was tired of hurting in silence.

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Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He specializes in coaching men who have been looking for dating success and chronically unlucky with women. He publishes regular infield dating videos and social experiments in KamaTV. He’s highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, coffee shops, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating including confidence, conversational skills, connection and mind sets. He has been featured in top radios and newspapers in UK and Ireland.

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[vivek.s]

My brothers ' Time is precious '
If she likes you as a friend - Then accept it.
Do not waste time [ Live as you ]
Do not change your character for others.
If anybody likes you - They will come.
So, Dream Big | Do Big | Be happy ❤️

[amritpalhh]

Accept she is your friend and move on. Because it’s too much of a ball ache trying to change her mind.

[roydwips]

*She looked at him in a way that she would never look at me* These golden words made me come to my senses man I can exactly relate to this. This is sad but thank you for opening my eyes 🙂

[ZayBack]

Facts! I wasted months of my mental stability in hopes that I could a chance with someone that I was MADLY into! Someone I had feelings for that I never felt for anyone else. Even confessing my feelings didn't do the trick. We are still friends to date but sometimes I wish I never met her so that I couldn't feel the way I do. But you're right. I should be thankful that she was honest with me so that I can not be in stuck in a limbo trying to figure out if she felt the same way. Plus, lately my evaluation of the friendships in my life show me that I'm putting way too much into our friendship more than she is so. There's that. Bottom line, thank you for sharing. Imma start moving on. 2020 is a b***h

[jonathandale]

My opinion is... Let it be and create distance.. It's mentally exhausting and taxing on your health and feelings.. Let them know from start what your looking for or expecting and if it's not what your expecting, no matter how hard, walk away but be nice and create distance...

[LPlover]

I wasted 4 years on a girl in the same way... I was there whenever she needed but now finally I'm done. I will never love again

[Themorningcyclist]

Love this. This is something that I have been going through the past 8 months. I finally had the courage to stop all contact and convince myself to move on to better things.

[bartnewt]

100% agree! I’ve done that in my life too! Let’s live life better 💪

[donlamourchimhanda]

Just ended a friendship with a girl really loved, but I knew that there was nothing I could ever do to convince her to love me the same way.

Hardest decision I have ever had to make. Legit cried about it but I know that things will work out.

Salute to all men that refuse to settle

[loopeyloopey]

Omg your talking speed is so good I love it. Very calming and straight forward. Thank you. I loved this girl, she helped me personally more than any other girl. I miss this feeling but yk we move on

[bubichok]

holy fucking shit man, that story you told about your first year of uni is exactly what's happening to me now word for word

[halendavis]

I can’t believe how much you just described my situation.. it hurts so much, and why my brain insists on convincing myself to keep trying when deep down i know she’ll never accept me for anything but a friend.. we’re such good friends thats why sucks because i cant not be there for her but its tearing my heart.. damn i care so much abt her

[Pauli-dgyv]

I cut off my friendship with her after that rejection..No chat, no hi's or hello's . nada. If i agreed to be friends with her, means she is only using me as an ego boost or the rebound

[kunaljyotisarma]

Thank you so much this is actually happening with me right now

[douglasschmidt]

I put myself through that pain and heartache and hell for 21 years. I’m still going through it. Being her best friend means I’ve had to suffer every boyfriend she ever had. Being her best friend meant I had to be supportive, even when the guys were pieces of shit who hurt her. It’s pure hell most days. I’m there for her 24/7/365. I put her ahead of everyone and everything else.

[tarekcyborg]

She want you as a Friend because you are poor ... 😏

[cathyb]

I just want to wish all at Kama and all your Subs the very best of luck in the present crisis .☺❤

[lilnicky]

i needed this more than you will ever now. Real recognize real.

[praveenkushwaha]

This video helped me to get my head straight 🥺 i already knew this but i wanted to hear this from someone else

[NoInsurance]

Good video. Recently happened to me, but I couldn't cope with the pain 4 months after opening up and watching her pursuing guys, despite feeling that we were getting closer. So I said goodbye for good. We're no longer talking to each other.