4 Magic Power Phrases to Respond for Anyone in Any Situation

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⭐Rebecca Zung is a globally sought after expert in the art of negotiation and high conflict communication.

Speaking on platforms worldwide, she is also a bestselling author of several books including the USA Today National Bestselling book SLAY the Bully: How to Negotiate with a Narcissist and Win and she’s a YouTube celebrity (more than 40 million views in just 3 years).

She’s also the founder of the proprietary SLAY® Method of negotiating with narcissists and her programs have transformed thousands of lives in more than 100 countries and on every continent.

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[izabudz]

Happy New Year Rebecca, thanks for all your passion in educating us! 🥳🥳🥳

[rebeccamay]

The "I'm curious" approach, instead of showing them the agitated reaction they're expecting to draw from you, has been helpful for me. In effect, you're sending the ball back into their court, which takes them by surprise. They were not prepared to explain anything. Our aim is not to win, but merely cause them to fumble for a moment by taking back our power, taking away their fun. When the game stops being fun, they lose interest... eventually.

[carolynsmith-pilling]

I always pause because even after a lifetime of verbal abuse I just can't believe it just never stops

[JulieSnowstudiojuliesnow]

7:55 How do you manage your emotional triggers?
P - Pause and breathe
A - Acknowledge how you feel
U - Use rational thought
S - Shift your thought process to standard responses
E - Excuse yourself if needed

Thats interesting, why would you say that?
I'm curious, tell me more
That's interesting feedback, what makes you think that?
That's an interesting perspective, why would you ask that?

[alschneider]

The best thing I have found is to tell them what they are saying. For example, if they say, "That dress looks expensive, " respond with, "You are implying it is cheap!" That shuts them down now.

[shellyminnick]

You have helped me soo much!
I would be lost without you!
May God keep blessing you with your guidance and wisdom.
I'm excited to learn more from you this coming year.
You have truly given me, so much encouragement this last year.
Thank you 😊
There's no way I could of done this without you.
It's just starting, but with your guidance, I feel prepared.
Sincerely,
Shelly

[breakthroughmoment]

Mentally withdrawing from the situation and not reacting is my goal for 2024. Thank you for these helpful reminders! A Happy & Blessed New Year to all.

[perrywong-kd]

Thank you Rebecca Zung. Your methods here are going to be vital for someone like me. However, I usually fail to pause and my mind will not be pausing at anytime, being a husband and loving her is my weakness. I can't think clearly.

[jjacob]

This is so hard to do....I wish I was strong and didn't get hurt so easily. Abusive people have no remorse they love insulting and continue to do so.

[michaeleckert]

This is wonderful insight. I take time to pause and freeze in time.That way, I'm less impulsive.❤❤.

[CynthiaLane-zmiy]

Going in with a planned response is so helpful! Thank you!

[ArcherHall]

Great practicals. I hear the comments its hard when the person is being abusive. I guess that's when you walk away and excuse yourself don't stay there and take it

[cdgross]

Thank you for the excellent free information!

[kimgordon]

Rebecca, ThankYou for sharing your pause method! Best New year to You lovely!🎉

[dimondDave]

I DON'T NOGOTATE with no narcistic person at ALL! You can change them so avoid them

[LENEDAU]

Hi thank you for your helpful videos. It is not easy to keep in mind in some of the trigger situations, but I am learning.
I don't know if you already made a specific video on mocking. A person in my family really mock people, for example at familydinners. People get kind of frozen or defensive mode, when she starts picking. I cannot see the question-advice in this video to be of use in that situation. Can you refer to a video when the narcissist pick hard one a few persons in a social situation ?

[df-hhyd]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge. I wish u all the best in 20XX

[c.thompson]

I shut up BOTH attorneys, AND the narc, by saying "Why? Isn't the Truth good enough?' 😮
Meeting OVAR. 😊 I won, throughly.

[janb]

I'm sorry, when someone is screaming abuse at you, "tell me more" just doesn't work.

[shushi.]

Hi there...I think I am narcissist and I want to change...can you pls create a video on this?