#POV when a parent doesn’t care to see the pain they’ve caused #shorts #fyp #acting #crazycae

[CrazyCae]

Hey guys! I know my emotions in this are very dramatic. With this song and background story, I ended up bringing out pure/personal emotions. This pov hit me harder than most ❤️ please remember to be kind. And if you relate to this, you’re not alone and I love you so much

[Aaliyah_Matyevna]

A lot of parents don't want to admit their mistakes and say sorry. But if they do their children's respect for them increases by a lot.

[Laynalu]

Nothing is worse than when they don't listen and get mad at you for being upset about something, and they proceed to say you don't have the right to feel but get mad when you don't express emotion

[rainbowshine]

"I didn't raise you to be like this"
"you didn't raise me"

-me 2022

[persassyjackson]

“I didn’t raise you like this”
I half expected the daughter to just SCREAM “YOU DIDNT RAISE ME AT ALL”

[thatonefishfromtiktok]

My dad recently divorced the one who did this to me. I wasn’t able to talk back. I once told her I wanted to finish my sentence for once, and we got in such a big fight, I woke up in the middle of the night to use the restroom, and not exaggerating, my dad was in the dining room crying. She had both me and my dad in tears, because I wanted to state my opinion for once.

[fareedaelsayed]

And the WORST thing is that
1.) Most depression is caused by parents
2.) Parents think that when they raise their kids the way THEY WERE RAISED back in the day, they're gonna be good children and they're gonna listen and everything
3.) Parents don't realize this, and I don't know about everyone but if kids told their parents that they were depressed the parents would act like this AND say "you don't look depressed" or "depression is for people with bad parents and manners and we aren't bad parents"

And Cae, you are sooo nice I would looovve meeting you in person I bet you would be the best, nicest person ever, I your vids and when I say this, I mean it, but YOU. ARE. THE.

[miavika]

Them: “Don’t you see the pain you cause me?!”

Also them: why is my child depressed and suicidal?

[kaeyaskrew]

This is what i literally feel in my everyday life i just really wish that every parents could understand it.

[AltJGirl]

My dad said that I had no reason to be mentally ill. My mom said her problems are worse than mine. My Nana said I was lazy and ungrateful. If you ever dealt with this crap, I'm sorry. You deserve better than you've gotten and I hope you find it.

[Nova_the_witch]

It’s even worse when you are like them and trying to change for the better of yourself while also being true to yourself.

[katesampleseverything]

"I did everything right" & "I didn't raise you to be like this!"

Thanks girl, it's not like I needed my heart or mental health today anyway
❤

[beatlejuice-meme]

The reality of living with a narcissistic parent.
I love and adore my mother and she is incredibly nice to people but behind closed doors she is a narcissist and doesn’t even know it. Even if I tried to gently explain it to her she would deny it to high heavens because a narcissist cannot admit they’re wrong. If you are genuinely able to sit and ask if you’re a narcissist or ask yourself if your behaviour is narcissistic then you’re more self aware than a narcissist.
The hardest part of life is adoring someone like this. So many times I’ve tried to explain why what she’s said or done is hurtful but it’s met with “well you should stop feeling that way cause it wasn’t my intention” or “it’s all my fault, it’s always my fault, I am the cause of all things horrible in your life” or something else along those lines.
If you know someone likes this DO NOT blame yourself for their behaviour, DO NOT let them manipulate you, stand your ground, set your boundaries and most importantly don’t be afraid to cut someone off because of their unreasonable behaviour.

[Bakugou_explosiongod]

My stepdad used to yell at me and tell me how useless I was, but my mom finally got her head on straight so she sent me to live with my dad for a year, and now I’m doing better. I’m really glad to see that I’m not alone in this struggle, and if any one is going through this now or has gone through this please know none of the things they say are true and that your ✨perfect✨

[nightrollx]

This is how it’s like with my mom and I. Her and I argue almost ever single day. Whenever I try to tell her about my mental health or how I’m feeling she says I’m being over dramatic and all this other stuff. I’m just hiding all my emotions and feelings, I’m losing some friends because of it but I don’t know what to do at this point.

[michaelburns]

Why do I feel this is the kinda conversation you'd hear after the daughter got raped & instead of listening to her daughter & comforting her, the mum is like " why would you provoke men by dressing the way you do & wearing make up" as if they've forgotten what being a teenager if like.

[BlessedWithBadDecisions]

It hurts. It hurts so bad. All I want is to feel loved. All I want is to look at my parents faces and not see disappointment. They have caused so much pain. I still love them dearly. It’s just so hard sometimes.

[ATELPHOBA]

I know I will never understand the pain that victims of abuse went through, but if anyone needs help or needs to vent, I'm always open. My parents always sat me down whenever we fought and appologized or tried to see my point of view, and you all deserved the same. It pains me to see so many people that had to deal with this.

[i_roblox_edits]

That's me and my mom all the time she never sees my pain she just always turns it around and blame me saying how much pain I cause her she said she thought my child would understand me and if you relate to me then good luck out there

[Asnnazar]

This hits hard for me. I’m 12, and my mom doesn’t understand my problems.. she blames me for things I haven’t done, can’t control, or things that are her fault entirely…

Edited to add: this comment was posted a year ago and I’m 13 now and she’s slowly doing less (although still like that) but now she keeps pressuring me to let her hug/kiss me or I hug/kiss her

Edited once more: Turning 14 in a month. The only reason I keep coming back to this comment is when people reply lmao. And it ain’t getting any better. So life sadly sucks x