Healthy Dynamics For All 9 Enneagram Types | Your Enneagram Coach

One of the most common questions that Jeff and I receive on a daily basis is what Types are best suited for one another in relationships, and if there are any “bad” couple combinations. ❓ So let me set the record straight!

Marriage gives us the opportunity to have a front-row seat to our spouse’s personality in all it’s raw, unfiltered glory. We may even see sides of our partners that they don’t reveal to the rest of the world. For better or for worse, once we say “I do,” we get an up-close and personal view of the good, the bad, and the ugly of their Type.

But I’m happy to tell you that no matter your Types, and whether your relationship is thriving or hanging on by a thread, you can have the healthy relationship of your dreams. 🙌This transformational hope is possible when you set your hearts every day in the direction of the Gospel and put your full dependence on Christ!

Over the next several days, I’m going to walk through the healthy dynamics of every couple Type combination, because I firmly believe that there is NO “bad” pairing. God has a very specific purpose for each relationship, and He puts two very different people together to accomplish His sovereign plans within your relationship, your family, your sphere of influence, and the world. 🌎He can use even the most seemingly opposite perspectives for His glory!

If you and your partner want to do an in-depth exploration of your unique relationship dynamics (your “dance”), I now have a course customized just for your couple Type combination that will guide you on your specific growth path! 🔎 The Becoming Us Course combines Enneagram knowledge and tools with the hope of the Gospel to guide you and your partner to the relationship God intended for you. If you’re ready to dive in, you can learn more and register with the link in my bio.

Time Stamps:

Type 9 - 8:04
Type 8 - 7:18
Type 7 - 6:13
Type 6 - 5:14
Type 5 - 4:10
Type 4 - 3:13
Type 3 - 2:15
Type 2 - 1:28
Type 1 - 0:41