5 Psychological Tips To Get Your Ex Back

Coach Lee shares psychological tips and tricks that you can use to get your ex back after a breakup.

After a breakup, so much of what people often do actually pushes their ex away. Tips that well-intentioned loved ones suggest to us to get an ex back or re-attract them most often do the very opposite.

Relationship expert Coach Lee shares psychological principles that can help you re-attract your ex after they broke up with you.

[ksantiago]

I did everything you said coach Lee thank you💪🏼 took only a month and a half of no contact and working on myself and it’s been three months back together. Everything is going great and working on yourself during no contact works damn wonders

[eljoker]

Hello stranger: I don't really know you, but I want to apologize to you on behalf of those who broke something beautiful inside you 💔 ☺

[benhartart]

The real lasting success is when the dumped person picks themselves up off the floor, focuses their attention on improving themselves in ALL aspects of life, doing this for Themselves not anyone else, this creates momentum, strength, self awareness in their ability to change and become the best they can be, they start to live through there passions and to know that they are one of a kind and they are enough, they are the star of their life, and they naturally attract other people who want to be apart of their life.

[ags]

Day 9 of NC. I found out that we have accidentally booked the same holiday (camp) with our common friends in January! I am part worried part excited. I know 4 months is a long way away, and anything can happen. I will focus on improving myself and being best I can be!

2 months NC and we got back together!

[EldritchAugur]

Whether or not my situation is successful; these videos have helped me feel so much better regardless and I'm so thankful for that. Whenever I start feeling really anxious or depressed I watch one of these videos and almost instantly calm down.

[harshjones]

Some girls are just too prideful to ever reach out. I’ve learnt so much from you coach so thank you. Still hurts after 3 months but i feel better. Despite having others want to date me, just not ready yet! But growing stronger everyday, so thanks once again

[ojp]

Thanks for you videos, helped me through the toughest time of my life. Im now 5 months into no contact and I have learnt to love life again! I dont even want my ex back anymore and realise that I have a life without her :)

[mamziemay]

I never pleaded, begged or chased. Gave him the break-up. Also, I'm not on social media (used to be, left it 7 years ago and never looked back), so he doesn't know anything about what is going on in my life.
I rented an apartment in another country for two months, and will have a sim card from that country, will not even know if he does end up contacting me since my cell service is not available there.
This break up hurts like a nothing I've experienced before. It's not my first rodeo, we are older adults.
Coach Lee, wish you would do more vids on older folks. Anyone over 50 has lots of baggage and has many exigencies going on.

[agbordaniels]

I was truly struggling with breaking no contact after 73 days, thank God you dropped this video. Now I can hold my position for another 30 days, this was a super boost to my strength and resolve to stay in no contact.

[henryhoward]

Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[tomdizzi]

I think I'll be more upset of Coach Lee stopped posting videos 😆 i don't even know if I would take my ex back because Coach Lee has motivated me to pour the love I have to offer into myself❣

[conoress]

Lee, you’re a really great guy for doing these videos. Just to hear someone talking about this stuff is so soothing and reassuring.

[KenRFoxNashvilleSEO]

So important to realize no contact with strength and confidence is NOT inauthentic - it feels that way because you're in pain, but confidence is a FAR MORE authentic version of who you really are when you aren't in agony. GREAT VIDEO!!!

[BeegirlsHoneyHouse]

Don’t fix what they broke‼️👍🏽
I so desperately needed to hear this now…. It’s even helping me to reconcile my feelings of guilt and shame with what he decided to destroy.

[juliealo]

The best relationship coach here in YouTube! You should have millions of subscribers!!! Thank you for helping me move on and be more stronger than ever! 🙏🏻💕😚

[SNEHAGUPTA]

Your all psychological tips had been applied and successfully worked 💯on my ex gf and she's in my life today and still following you coach Lee ❤️💙😊 thank you so much ❤️💙 blessed to have you 😊 in my life...

[Alleecats]

My ex is on an island and his first ex is right across the road making sure everything is good for him. When he and I were together, she was intrusive, just showing up at the door, bringing cookies, pies, etc., things he loves. Both deny anything going on, just friends. She is making this break-up easy for him. She even brings her dog over for her daily visit! He said I was too jealous. I feel she over-stepped her bounds constantly. There were no boundaries; he wouldn't set any, but claimed he had nothing going on with her.

[hayden]

Day 3 of starting no contact after having a very strong relationship of 4 years that ended out of nowhere...I still love her more than anything and its very hard to not contact her, but I can already tell that these videos are going to help whether or not she comes back. I'm going to use this comment section to hopefully post updates on how it goes for me.

[tercsi]

Coach Lee has the best advice. It's so true about my relationship. In the entire 4 years of our relationship I was the one who always fought for the relationship more with my ex fiance. The tables have to turn. He has to want me and value me just the same. It's best to let him come to me. If not well I have my answer.
In essence you have to value and respect yourself in order for others to value and respect you.

[kamyanaava]

Am so greatful to have come across your videos coach, become stronger every day and more trained on how to keep my emotions in check 🤝💕