11 Things You Should NEVER Say to an INTJ (And What to Say Instead)

Unlock the secrets to winning over the elusive INTJ and build a powerful connection with the masterminds of the world. Watch now to learn how to navigate their intimidating nature and become their trusted ally!

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▬▬ Contents of this video ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

00:00 Introduction
00:30 Things to Avoid
00:47 No Contradicting
01:20 Respect Their Ideas
01:49 Respect Their Need for Downtime
02:38 Respect Their Emotional Processing
03:06 Avoiding Offending Intjs
03:54 Giving Intjs Autonomy
04:38 Engaging in Meaningful Conversations
06:02 Conclusion

Discover the phrases and comments to avoid when communicating with an INTJ, one of the rarest personality types known for their intelligence and intimidating nature. In this video, we dive into the world of "Master Minds" and learn how to maintain a good relationship with INTJs. From respecting their knowledge and expertise to giving them space to recharge, these tips will help you understand and appreciate their unique way of thinking. Avoid making assumptions about their feelings, pressuring them to conform, or micromanaging them. Instead, engage in meaningful conversations, trust their autonomy, and be open to learning from them. And if you accidentally offend an INTJ, don't be afraid to apologize and communicate openly. By following these tips, you can build strong and fulfilling relationships with the INTJs in your life. Watch the video now to learn more about understanding and respecting INTJs.

[seren]

"why don't you talk more?"
"Why don't you smile?"
"Don't you get bored by yourself?"

These questions would make me hate and want to ignore you immediately.

[heron]

I agree with all this. Three things that rile me, as an INTJ, are the phrase "We have always done it this way" and "You're being too logical." I also hate to be interrupted when explaining something. Every sentence I utter has been carefully constructed to be clear, logical, and easily understood. You can't just snap it in half and throw it away.

[Nomad]

"You're too quiet". Some of my best friends would say "Coffee's on", and that's it. We'd hangout for hours watching YouTube, sharing memes, or I'd just watch him game without saying a word.

[eclipsos]

Intj guy

1. Your car was the most durable and fuel effecient at the price point. Including looking up ways to reduce costs and remove unnecessary fees on sale
2. You went to college the most cheaply possible unless you could go to ivy league with scholarships (never got that opportunity)
3. Your best job was when the managment wasnt present and was busy filling in for someone else
4. All your emails end with:
Sincerally,
Name
5. Participation points are a cancer including everyone wins
6. Romantic in our head and what we would do to make a marriage great
7. Also cant ask someone out unless it starts with some variation of, "I'll be completly honest but I think your a nice person ... (with explanation).

[eclipsos]

As an INTJ its even better to respond with a situation where the model the INTJ doesnt work in particular. This will immediatly cause the INTJ to come up with a reason for the discrepencie that may fill the diffrence and come up with ideas which we find fun.

[jasonkrick]

I have found going through life was to always be as genuine as possible all the time. It’s not my job to try and figure out what ‘triggers’ you. It’s impossible. Aside from attacks on your character. If you have a trigger from something considered benign by 98% of the population. Guess what. You might be the problem and not the other way around.

[AmeliaC-eo]

The video of the guy the bug spray when he said "lighten up or "go out more" made me chukle becouse I would just love it if there was people spray to get ride of annoying people.

[AmeliaC-eo]

As an INTJ who hates people the best thing to say is nothing, just shut up and walk the other way pal.

[mrnin]

We really need to get away from this notion that Elon Musk is INTJ. He absolutely is not.

[samf]

"you flip flop your values too much to pursue vapid goals"

[MrRayopt]

The problem I had with an INTJ is that he would never shut up. Seemed very rude

[niranjanalagappan]

Intended audiance: the other 15 personality who wants to get to know about INTJ
Actual audience:INTJ themselves because the other 15 personalities can't put up with their shit or vice vera

[MindsetExperiments]

As an INTJ myself, I wish I knew all this sooner! What's the ONE thing you used to say to INTJs that you've stopped doing? Let's help each other out in the comments!

[Chris-fndf]

Also, maybe stop putting us on a pedestal. We aren’t that great. We are just people.

[IYasmineI]

One more thing: Don't call INTJs only NTJs, ANTJs or ENTJs as you have repeatedly done in this video.