Toxic relationships: healing the karmic trauma bonds with family or partner

Getting out of toxic relationships, karmic relationships or trauma bonds. We all have had relationships in our life that bring out the worst in us. Relationships were with few emotionally abused, whether it is from our parents in friendships or romantic relationships. We all go through relationships where we feel so extremely triggered. These are karmic relationships, or trauma bonds that bring out the shadows. When people are around to trigger you, it isn’t an indication of what you need to work on. It is because that is a shadow that exists in you. If we don’t bring the shadow into the light it will just keep reappearing. We love to point fingers, especially when we’re in toxic relationships like that person wasn’t treating me well or my mom or my parents they’re not, they’re horrible to me. All of that may be true, but there is no point in pointing the finger. We are all one. We are all one consciousness. The universe works with the resonance of frequencies, if we are being abused, there is a shadow aspect within us that is frequency-wise on that same level, resonating with that frequency. And yes, maybe you walk away or avoid the emotional abuse but then it just reappears in a different person in a different form. We face shadow within us until we transmute the darkness into light. Maybe in some cases, the solution is to walk away because we need to learn how to set boundaries as a form of self-worth and self-love. Karmic, romantic relationships. These relationships can feel so incredibly addictive. The type of relationship where you consciously know that this relationship is not serving you, in fact, you don’t even want to be in this relationship. But it feels like a desire stronger than you and addiction. These relationships are characterized by the contrast of the very good moments incredibly detrimental to dark moments, you hate each other, but then you go back to loving each other and hating each other, and this cycle repeats. And at some point, you realize it is a cycle you keep believing in good moments, and keep sucking drum backing, no relationships like this usually don’t change it takes you elevating your frequency to not resonate with it anymore. It takes self-honesty. It takes listening to your body. how do you actually feel around this person? How do you break the karmic cycle?

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Toxic relationships, karmic bonds, karma, breaking karma, breaking karmic cycles, emotional abuse, narcissist, dating a narcissist, narcissist empathy dynamic, emotional abuse, physical abuse, toxic relationship addiction, dealing with triggers, manifestation, law of attraction, manifesting love, healing, trauma healing

0:00 - intro
00:34 - Why triggers are YOUR lessons
01:42 - Toxic romantic relationships with narcissists
03:31 - The purpose of trauma bonds
06:05 - Karmic relationships
10:06 - Parents that trigger you
13:49 - Breaking karmic bonds with a narcissist

[destroyraiden]

sometimes your family is toxic and aren't trying to change you from a place of love but from a place of they want you to be their tool.

[W.Aaron]

"everyone around us is just reflecting something back to us" LOVE THIS. I can't believe your channel is over a year old already, it feels just like yesterday when I first saw you.

[ainahaga]

I get so triggered so that family always call the police on me and now I cannot have much to do with them. This yourney is so insane and I dont know how do I get triggered now when I keep away from all of them. I dont need my life even more ruined now than it is.

[JcraftCharger]

I can't believe how much I have learned from you over the last year. You truly are a gift. Such a great mind!! Thank you :) You are 100% regarding the parents dynamic

[vuslattilki]

I was taking notes and suddenly found myself in tears... thank you so much, really

[nataliedegracia]

Okay, what part is resonating with the abusive cycle? It's financial issues, in capitalistic world, this person would be like a hero. This person gives me projects that are paid very well (Shift job only gives limited hours). I need the finances, there are people dependant on me. It means I hv to work with this person who triggers me..

[snoopuff]

💜the best way to start my day is hearing your angelic voice what a divine beauty you are

[Ardour_stroke]

Really really needed this, Parents are the biggest triggers, I was able to totally see it in a different way now.. thanks a lot..

[rongike]

for me it was seeking approval, I learned I can't get that from my mother long ago bc she's just too immature to understand my path, so she rarely triggers me, but I still had the programming that I need to excuse every choice I make and got attached to a friend instead, and this friend didn't actually care about me (other than what I could offer her) so she couldn't give me the validation I wasn't giving myself. I want to make new better friends but something's still holding me back, like I have to properly heal from it so I wouldn't get attached to someone else like that.

[madurai]

Vanakkam (Respectful greeting in Tamil culture ) clearly all are energy beings thank you☺....nandri (Thank you in Tamil language)

[JcraftCharger]

Would you please be able to do another positive affirmations video soon?

[highvaluewoman]

how the abusive behavior resonates me?? what shadow work questions should i do here please help

[katerinfreitas]

Thank you so mucho for your videos, they are helping me in a way that you can not imagine. Greetings from the other side of the world Uruguay, Latin America 💙🤍

[parya]

And even being an empath means we are narsist as well and we will do it if the opportunity comes up

[johnevans]

What is triggered? How am I triggered? Triggered to do what? I’m not understanding this part.

[Indigomooneyes]

Maybe sometimes it's just them faking their personalities?

[БоянИванов-тш]

Do you have successful relationship now