Montessori & Discipline - Understanding Freedom within Limits | Guide & Grow TV

MONTESSORI & DISCIPLINE

In this video we discuss the 3 Key Skills that you will learn to help guide discipline in a Montessori Home / Classroom to diffuse feelings of anger and frustration in children. It will teach you how to instill healthy boundaries and understand “freedom within limits” with mature reactions, remaining calm and allow for teachable moments in any situation.

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[stephencurrie]

This is very helpful for everyone from educators, parents grandparents etc.

[simply_linka]

What if I offer a choice and my child still says no? Or if I say that she can play with another toy when she cleans up the one she was playing with and she still takes out the other toy and doesn't listen?

[milenabaltova]

Hello, much appreviated! How to deal with an 11 month old, who insists on touching the toilet and the toilet brush and in general licks the bathroom tiles? I remove her from the bathroom, but she comes back. I don't want to use negative words, but I get really frustrated and I can't help myself saying "Don't touch this, it's dirty!". How do I deal such situation in a Montessori way?

[ExpectingFitness]

Great video.
I have twins. 3 yrs old. I have 2 issues.
1- How to get them to stop destructivly touching and grabbing everything, they know they shouldnt. The worst is in the kitchen when cooking. Its not possible to have everything put away and they just figured out how to open child safety locks on cabinets.
2- how to get one of them to focus in classes I take them to. She just dances around doing her own thing, talking and doesnt pay attention. And cannot sit still for 2 seconds ever. Unless watching videos on youtube. It also frustrating in resturants. As much as I hate it, I have to use ipad as a last resort to keep her from disturbing others.

[kyesg]

Hello Sylvia! New follower her and first time mom to a very active baby boy who just turned 10months 3 days ago. I’m a silent reader in your FB group montessori at home (0-3 yrs). I just have to ask how to apply the 3 methods on a 10month old who is already really showing his autonomy in actions & emotions. I know he doesn’t understand my words yet but what he can understand is my emotions and I find being calm and firm when I tell him not to do something works sometimes, but not always. I REALLY WANT to apply these methods as early as him being 10months but it’s hard as he cannot understand words yet and choose verbally.

[rubinajanmohammad]

Love your videos. Would love your advice on how to get my 12mo to stop pulling my hair. I have tried ‘my hair is not for pulling, please be gentle’ then show him how to be gentle but it just doesn’t work. Has been going on for months

[qetiqavtaradze]

Very helpful. I only wish photos or videos of examles for them who aren't english native speakers, it will be more easier. Thank you!

[ArdashMuradian]

Congratulations on launching your new channel!

[wendyhinojosa]

My son gets really upset and when I offer a choice he is still crying or screaming. What should I do? Do I wait for him to stop crying? Sometimes it seems easier to distract him and have him focus on something else.

[sandratamayo]

How do you do this while dealing with kids fighting over toys or constantly pushing little brother and not sharing? I all hear is constant fighting and crying, leads me to getting angry and giving a time out. What consequences can I use when one is hurting the other?

[piabyron]

Hi Sylvia, when it comes to offering a choice - I'm finding this challenging with my 2-year old. When I offer the "would you like to *this* or would you like to *this*", he ignores the question.. or says yes OR no to both options... It seems these two-choice-statements aren't appropriate for his age yet or the choices I'm offering aren't acceptable to him. Any thoughts or alternatives so that I can still offer him choice and request his help in a respectful way? Thanks!

[yesikhaatmadja]

When do you start implementing this? Is 16mo too young to understand this?

[laurawilliamson]

If a child is for example hurting another child or causing harm in an environment would it be acceptable to say something like "I can see your very angry but we can't hurt others. You've made*insert name* feel sad" if they were to continue the behaviour would it be wrong to say "I see your having trouble not hurting others. You will need to leave the room/sit on the sofa until you have calmed Down" this is what I do in certain situations when I'm just not listened to at all. Is this wrong?

Also what would you do if you have a child who doesn't listen or respond at all. So you give them options and they just do not respond? Also giving real life consequences and they do not respond?

[mariadelrosario]

How do deal with a situation wherein he's always clingy to you. Like when we wake up, I will try to prepare his meal but he keeps on insisting that he wants to be carried. So i ended up not being able to cook or do anyrhing.

Also in your scenario regarding the spilled water, what if the glass is broken on the floor, would you still allow the kid to help you? Thank you in advance.

[trrhyn]

at what age do you start implimenting these skills, as far as... like my son just turned two last week and if I asked him to help me with something he would either do it because he wants to but if he didnt want to he would walk away. Im not sure how to engage him into listening, sometimes he hears me i can see he does but he chooses not to repsond. Im a fairly passive parent and some would say Im perhaps too easy going on him but I would like to understand how to get him to respond to rewuirements a little more but not sure if he is too young? Does that make sense? lol
FYI: He has recently discovered how to push the step thing we have (to wash hands brush teeth ect) to the stove and climb on top of it, which is so dangerous in so many ways and I cant allow it natural consequences to happen there, does anyone have any ideas how to manage a behavior like this?

[moonmoony]

My baby is 11 months old he biting me when he feel frustrated or when i nursing him how to deal with that

[kremenagiannino]

Hello,
The concept of Time-Out, still very confised when could be used..we use " go to your room, on the thinking chair for certain time frame to think about it"..many times she bangs on the door and screams for me to let her out of the room..so I feel like I have either modify or use different approach for the situations...
Also, many times he doesn't want to clean up her toys..even with options..
How do I improve that?
When I pick her up from school she goes on constant snack requests..candies, cookies, some other food..one after another..she usually has good amount of snacks in school also..so I feel like she just does it out of boredom..
Progects manu times not interested, need tips on how to get her to want to do more..
Thank you very much for your useful tips😊

[sofiahilali]

How long does the video of the course last when you purchase it?

[classyteacherkb]

What about children who horseplay? Or a child that is stubborn

[brittanysadler]

When my nephew (1 year old) comes over he repeatedly goes to my staircase and begins to try and crawl up and down the stairs even though he has been told no over and over. He smiles each time he is put down and makes his way to the stairs as quickly as possible. He has not been raised Montessori but what would be a Montessori form of discipline to try and prevent this? As he is getting older he seems to enjoy more and more, rebelling against what he is told to do.