4 Proven Ways To Be More Attractive Than Most Men

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In this video, we’ll break down some clips of Robert Downey Jr and Charlie Hunnam to highlight 4 different personality traits you may have that are psychologically attractive to a lot of women.

We’ll also go through how you can show you have these traits in a way that feels natural, rather than try hard or braggy. You don’t need every single trait in order to attract someone, this video is meant to give you a menu to choose from. Some come through in the stories you tell, others only require one sentence for you to establish.

And yes, both these guys are handsome, but the techniques in this video will help anyone to be more attractive regardless of how you look.

Also it’s worth noting, these are far from the only ways to be attractive. There are many other traits we can cover in future videos if this turns out to be a topic you’re interested in.



⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:40 - Use the story baiting method
3:02 - Show that you're a protector
4:11 - Be the first to be playful in serious situations
4:17 - Make yourself the director of any situation
4:44 - Give the spotlight to someone who hasn't had it
6:01 - Be a successful risk taker
8:47 - Be playfully cocky
9:26 - Go over the top with your cocky persona
9:54 - Follow cocky statements up with a joke
10:31 - Be quick to compliment others
11:58 - Tell the story in an attractive way

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[alightened]

Imagine Robert Downey jr as a late night talk show host. He’d be legendary

[jachymandrysek]

Guys. I was at a party w/ few friends and there was this girl and we clicked. I invited her for a date and she said yes, but our date somehow became a group hang again and I got overwhelmed by the number of people and could not "focus" properly to getting to know the girl properly. I think, it would be a good idea for a video: How to be seen in a group, or smth like that.

[RogueWolfArtist]

Relaxed and attentive eye contact shows confidence and assurance to what they’re saying matters to you. As it genuinely should.

[MishaElRusito]

The funny thing is that they're not using any "tips", they are just natural themselves. The biggest tip here is to find your passion in life that makes you happy and confident, then your natural traits will come out

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“Being a successful risk taker may not be attractive to 100% of women but, nothing is” 💀☠️💀☠️

[littlevoice_]

And for woman looking to gain and keep attraction through conversation? I feel the wider scope of 'attractiveness' would be interesting to address. For example attracting colleagues, the public when speaking in general, family, friends etc. Attraction doesn't have to be refined to sexual interest. Communication and general engagement is important in all forms of relationships.

The worst thing you could do to a person in a group conversation is to shine the spotlight on that person when he/she doesn't want it (has nothing interesting to say). It could be a passive aggressive way to show people how uninteresting/uninteresed that person is. So be mindful of when you call on people to share their opinions because they might not have an opinion they feel is worth sharing at that very moment.

[papl]

I love how we all love RDJ. Like he really is an extremely charismatic guy. It doesn't matter if you're attracted to him sexually, you're attracted to him because he shines and you just want to pay attention to him. Amazing guy.

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Know what help too? Integrity. Knowing who you are. Liking who you are. Absolute confidence and peace with who you are, and who you are not. Something to think about before you start practicing in the mirror how not to be yourself.

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Excellent points, I really like the one of the idea of being a successful risk taker, it's an important sign of leadership (which is attractive)

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Ambition is always attractive. Fortune favors the bold.

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When Charlie tells that story about the joke prom invitation. He knows for a fact every girl in that room would be thinking they would go to the prom with him. And every guy relates to him or is inspired to become successful despite previous rejection. Well done Charlie, this story hooked in 100% of the audience. RDJ could speak gibberish and you'd still listen with intent. His personality and charisma is just that huge.

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Can you PLEASEEE do more group videos, or parties and how attention and focus flows and what causes it etc. I think it's something a lot of people struggle with

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