She Filed For Divorce During Reconciliation

Our live caller explains he began reconciling with his wife and it was going well for the most part... but he discovered that his wife slept with someone when they were separated (and he thinks his “cold” reaction to this news hurt any chances of reconciling).

Even though this caller wanted to get things out in the open and move forward, his wife prepared to file for divorce. He wants to know if there’s anything he can still do…

Dr. Joe Beam asks this caller, “What do you think she was feeling?”

Our caller explains that his wife felt abandoned by his coldness. He goes on to say that he told his wife that he “didn’t mean to act this way intentionally” and
promised to not repeat those actions in the future.”

When a person learns about a betrayal (especially when they think they already know everything) it is normal to be angry about it. That is what most people would do! But if you're trying to put a marriage back together, it can be tricky.

Still, what this caller is describing is fixable- his wife says she loves him (is IN love with him) but just that they don’t know how to reconcile. She thinks that because they haven't figured out how to do this, maybe it can’t be done. But here at Marriage Helper, we believe reconciliation IS POSSIBLE! And, you can do it! We’ve seen couples reconcile time, and time again.

Yes, reconciliation is tricky. Yes, it takes work- but it is possible!

Here at Marriage Helper, we have amazing tools you can use to maintain, grow, and heal in the reconciliation process. Find out more by giving us a call at 866-903-0990

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[frankortegaberealpodcast]

dang dude that is so tough, i feel like reconciliation almost starts over after finding out that new news . . . . especially it being your best friend and wife . . . .. .

[carlosclay]

She is using you to get an amicable split she is using you

[carlosclay]

She doesn’t think they can because she doesn’t want to

[johnheiser]

Cold shoulder vs having sex with another person. Not the same betrayal

[jg]

I truly believe the wife wants to end this marriage because of her "guilty has to look in his FACE every day & LIVE with that distrust of never telling him when they both agreed to put everything on the table while they were separated and he heard it from someone else....

[NexusAscend]

Wow!! Who benefits, the couple or individual?