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[LBmerryxmas]

Also silence, when you are around new people, let them reveal themselves to you . Listen and observe.

[lourdesecheverria]

To the NEWBIES: If you are out, realize that there are two things that now must happen for you to have your freedom.💞 NO. 1 is to break the TRAUMA BOND, which is an emotional and psychological bond. 💞NO. 2 is to break the SPIRITUAL BOND and TIE with the narc. Remember that ANY form of engaging the narc is an open door for the narc to re-enter our lives and continue the abusive cycle. If you and I are out, however we got here, via leaving the narc or being discarded, we need to realize how fortunate and lucky we are to have survived the relationship and have our freedom. Now we have an opportunity to have a life, versus "existing" in the fog and eventually losing our souls and even our lives. Yes, our silence is gold. Blessings to all! ♥

[sandralindsay]

"You are better off taking to a wall or a tree behind you than you are talking to a narcissist"....this is so true

[rochellet]

So, true! Very Dark Spiritual entities. You owe them nothing! Take Care of yourself and support those who truly love you.

[oldcrone]

Ignoring a narcissist makes them furious! I love that.!

[nunyafawkingbiz]

You have to block them and honestly treat them as if they have passed away! Because they are gone from your life forever ! That will help !

[marycampeau]

i never wanted to believe their behaviors was malicious

[SusanCal]

Yes they’re devils! Run as far as you can, start a new life, be happy!❤

[CreativeCCookies]

The narcissist doesn't want you to be silent because they want you participating in building their life.

[Countrylover]

Silence is the kissing cousin of indifference. Indifference is a giant step toward healing.

[Hatbox]

In the case of my ex narc, his silence would have been appreciated. He was such a braggart, always on the phone telling people how wonderful he was.

[Shalombound]

I’m on my 5th week out no contact. Today is hard. I’m tired & lonely. There’s no going back since he can’t be trusted.
I wish my heart would catch up with my head. They’re in two different places.
I saw him shape-shift. Literally, a darkness came over him. I know I’m safer w/o him, yet I feel like crying & he’s not worth my tears.

[lios]

Silence- Nature- No humans- No chaos.
🍂🍃🌿🌲🍂🙏🍁🌱🍂🌲🐿🍃🍂

[rubyjet]

They are such a mess up that any communication with them is pointless. If you really have to communicate, then communicate with them clearly, briefly and concisely because they do not remember long-term.
And be calm and confident, of course.

[genuian]

Being silent is the best advice against any narcissist they want to drain your energy and belittle you being silent is now frustrating them 😂😂

[malibu]

All true, Andrew. I was almost slaughtered by the relationship with the narcissist, but I escaped. I am free of the narcissist. My world is small and quiet. Healing is taking its time.

[BlackMarketYoga]

"this added up" that is so true. you don't notice it all at once it creeps up and ADDS UP until suddenly you are in a cage that took time to build.

[leilagomulka]

A great distinction, being silent vs being silenced. ( code for being frightened ).

[ERnarcfree]

To all the Newbies out there. You have found Andrew who is the best person to help you and this huge community every day providing their comments.
Watch the videos every day and try to watch a few every day. It will take time but just like so many other people- you will eventually be giving advice to other Newbies.
Just remember that no matter how hard it gets - this world is better with you and all of us In It.
You are not alone no matter how lonely you feel at times and you are not broken. No person can break you.
Just be patient, watch the videos, shower, eat, sleep, go for walks and day by day it gets better.

[ERnarcfree]

Silence is golden for so many reasons. When you talk to a normal person- it’s called a conversation. When you talk to a narcissist it’s called a “ fact finding mission for the narcissist “. Whatever you tell them- they will remember it forever and then use it against you.
You tell them you bought a coffee maker that cost 100 dollars- they will remember this and when they want 50 thousand dollars overnight they will say “ but you spent all kinds of money- like that new coffee maker “.
The Narcissist is not normal. They are there to take from you anything possible- so by limiting your exposure- he or she has less on you to use against you.