Have THIS Talk Before Making Her Your Girlfriend!

Before you ask her to be your girlfriend, make sure you deal with these 3 items, and have this talk...

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[mikey]

Here's my 2 part test ...

Part 1) When they step over a boundary and do something hurtful or disrespectful, call them out on it and see how they react.
If they shift the blame to you or to anything else, she's gone.
Of she makes excuses. She's gone.
But if she takes accountability, admits to the mistake, genuinely understands why it's a boundary for you and doesn't diminish its importance, and if she vocalizes the specific steps she'll take to keep it from happening again, then you probably have a keeper.

Part 2) No fatties. :)

[whocarescrapsa]

Agreed. #2. I won't touch anyone who posts provocative photos on social media to start with. Not sure you can change someone who needs constant external validation. Save yourself the "I was this way when you met me" arguments.

[automan]

Out of all the things that Rich has said #1 thing is genuine burning desire. Hands down the most important thing .

[charlesdavid-py]

This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.

[scur]

When women constantly keep bringing up their Ex's in conversation....major red flag.

[robertd]

"No body bangs more wives and girlfriends than 'he's just a friend'" -Rich Cooper

[Sergio_Loureiro]

I wish I had this advice 20 years ago.

[michaellennon]

Just today I ended the relationship with my “girlfriend” after four months because she refused to give up her “friendship” with her ex-boyfriend.

[Jondsmusic]

Great talk as usual good sir! One of the things I’ve learned over the years when it comes to women:

1.) when they approach you talking about random stuff, it’s a lead in to talk to you because they’re interested and are hiding under the guise of random talk.

2.) beautiful things don’t ask for attention!

[mcbraveheart]

Posting on social media = a HUGE red flag. By definition, she's caught up in teasing guys. Morality aside- she's got a problem.

[jamesga]

Strippers, bouncers, anyone else in the club scene can tell you the same story whether it’s cheating all the way, grinding on some guy on the Dancefloor, flirting with guys for drinks… The story is always the same. Women will tell you they’re different but they’re not. There’s too many stories of how they’re the same to overlook.

[map]

I’m 58. When I was young girls in middle school were sleeping with high school guys. High school girls were sleep with guys in their 20s. I’m pretty sure nothing has changed. Maybe it’s even more prevalent today. My wife’s high school friend bragged to us when we were out drinking one night at a bar that at 16 she wanted to prove she could get a hot married guy to sleep with her and she did. It was to build her confidence and it did. She was no different than any other girl. So that being said how are any of today’s girls worth dating? They’ve all collected at least 5-10 bodies by the time she’s 18. Then add on college years.

[samuraisaint]

I have told past gf”s who wanted to goto the night club for a girls night out, No” why would i let my gf back her sweaty ass up on some random drunk dude on a dance floor

[stevestruthers]

One thing that protects me from all of this bullshit is that I am pretty ugly and can't really attract anyone.

[jdek]

I look very deep into who she hangs around with and what they're like. They always expose themselves. If she's with wild/crazy friends or friends that have major red flags, it's only a matter of time they're going to bring your girl down with them.

Also if she brings up the "where do we stand" talk, I ask her why she wants a serious relationship and what it means to her. More specifically, what role she expects to play, why she wants me, what she expects of me, why she thinks I like her, etc. All this stuff is worth getting out sooner rather than later. It seems a little over the top, but then we have a very clear reference point of at least a baseline of expectations for the relationship.

[ivoted]

I met a nice woman a couple of weeks ago. Long story but, she was coming on strong - first date she says: “ask me anything about me”. I asked “how’s your libido?” She explained that she never had one. 10 mins later, I was gone.

[Revetwelve]

A marriage counseling couple told me that you cannot have a solid relationship when social media is involved

[moneylineparlay]

Genuine burning desire is a major cope, 95 percent of men will NEVER experience that even after self improvement

[Lynn-dxgj]

Agreed on these points - but it goes both ways with point #2: Girl doesn't post provocative photos on social media, and guy doesn't seek OUT provocative photos on social media (or wherever), if ya know what I mean! No room for that (intensely hurtful, all-around harmful behaviour) in a "committed relationship".