the worst of reddit

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[alisaurus]

“Snapping back” after pregnancy is NOT A THING. Even for those genetically blessed to avoid stretch marks and weight gain, even if you soon look outwardly as you did before conception, your ENTIRE BODY has been altered by the experience—bone density, joints & ligaments, hair growth/loss, not to mention your reproductive organs and mammary glands, BESIDES recovery from C-section, stitches, any of a thousand complications.
“You look a bit different so i love you less” is gross in any case, but when the cause is she’s just risked her actual life growing and birthing your child? STFU FOREVERRR

[katphish]

Excuse me, I need to yell about something.

PRODUCING BREAST MILK REQUIRES EXTRA FOOD. LESS FOOD = LESS MILK. 🤦‍♀️

[justaperson]

I can't believe her husband convinced that one lady that 6 months should be enough time to get back into shape, get used to baby, get used to pumping, etc when that's LITERALLY NOT ENOUGH TIME TO MAKE A BABY! Leave him love, you only have one newborn, but between the cooking and cleaning, it sounds like you have two children

[Adam-pccm]

"I don't know how to clean up my own vomit" feels a lot like weaponized incompetence.

[zoeyc]

It takes 9 months to grow a baby, it will take at least 9 months to be back to "normal". The way women are shamed for not looking like they did pre-pregnancy after only like a month is crazy.

[trikitrikitriki]

If your partner has had a baby and you are not too exhausted to have sex, then you are not doing your part to take care of that baby.

[SpaceJunk]

Husband who wouldn’t clean his vomit be like I frew up 🥺🥺🥺”

[haz.fellie]

The postpartum/baby stories have me appreciating my husband so much. I'll be going home and profusely thanking him for making me feel confident and comfortable in my postpartum body, caring for me post-op, and being such a supportive and loving partner and father. I'm a lucky lady. I'm sorry for anyone who deals with sh*t like those women have.

[catrakitten]

Instead of posting misogyny and stupidity online, those Reddit users should get therapy.

[sneakysnek]

It’s WILD to me that the tinder guy said he makes a new account after A DAY??? ONE DAY???? Like DUDE HAVE PATIENCE… Jesus…

[matcha_zuki]

My previous ex would go on and on and whine that he needed a side chick and how even if I’m uncomfortable I should let him do it. Of course his name was Kyle.

[fredskull]

Fathers have a responsibility to help out, especially when your partner is exhausted. Sleep deprivation is real, and it's a team effort. Being a dad doesn't just mean providing; it means sharing in the good, the bad, and yes the late-night freakin feedings.

The whole "side chick" thing is rough to know that some guys think that way. In my view, every relationship requires open communication. If there's dissatisfaction, both partners should talk about it. Cheating is not the answer; it's a coward's way out.

Postpartum body comments are totally out of line. Women go through so much during pregnancy and childbirth. My ex-wife's body changed after our kids, but so did mine over the years. It's life.

As for the house duties – My friends and I have a simple rule: You make the mess, you clean it up. It's basic respect.

[kami.kaze]

It’s bizarre to me that men feel entitled to control women.

[JulianGreystoke]

Sometimes you just have to throw the whole man away

[roxywolfe]

I’m 22 and yeah, 28 is pushing it. The highest I usually go for dating is 26 💀 also, most young women who are 18 aren’t interested in a guy who’s almost 30.

[ijusthadtodoitxd]

I'm buckling up already the title was scary enough

[Oxellee]

I was hurting and cringing so hard at that "husband complains I'm not in shape after 6months" that I got a leg cramp. It's insane how this woman doesn't see she's just being taken advantage of, used and unappreciated. I would NEVER go as far as a wife even for a good man because it's just too much, to the point it would take a mental toll on me. She literally sacrificed her health and body to give him a child and all he can think of is how his sex doll-- I mean wife isn't hot enough for him? How it doesn't even cross his mind to appreciate her, help her and support her, as a loving husband would and should?
We teach men to take and take, and women to keep giving and then when marriages break down and the divorce rate is 50% + and mostly initiated by women, everyone wonders "why oh why".

[pikes_panic]

18:55 The fact that he says he'll tip on a date if she's watching means he knows it's a sleazy thing to do

[nireus]

i love those videos because it reminds me of how i am blessed by being gay and asexual. omg those people are insane

[leecole]

“the side chick craves sex from you too”…. then make the side chick your I don’t understand where the disconnect is for this guy