China's Unmarried 'Leftover' Women Crisis

Leftover women have now become a widespread topic in China. As China opens up to the world and transitions towards a market economy, patriarchal Confucian norms have begun to re-develop. In the struggle between tradition and modernity, the family remains an important site of contestation. The emergence of leftover women has also become the main object of attention between tradition and modernity. Although women have made significant progress in the public sphere and secured economic independence and social status, in the family sphere, they are still confined to the traditional family framework that espouses male authority and female passivity. Leftover women usually have successful businesses, but they also have a strong family concept. This chapter aims to unravel the complexities of this tradition, offering a window into a world where cultural preservation clashes and coexists with modern societal norms.

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[mindcache]

Never understood why men are lining up to get a headache.

[bobby]

leftovers women?.. yet they ask for outrageous dowry when finding a mate..,

[Sunshineboy]

Overcharged dowry is one of the major problems in our Asian culture.

[Freedom.of.Speech]

In the west these are called Post Wall Entitled Women

[ViolentCabbage-ymko]

It's not a "crazy" phenomenon. It's a fact that a woman's best eggs are in the early 20s and the quality of eggs decline rapidly after she reaches 35 years old. Successful older men who want children must choose women before she reaches 35 years old. Hence why there are many women who are single in their late 30s and above

[rockkstah]

I think Japan calls them Christmas cakes after 25 its over Lol!
I think those shaolin monks got it figured out...

[ladypilliwick]

no fat women. no tattoos Chinese have it made

[dimitrisd.]

Hard truth. They pay the price of modern life style. End of story.

[borkug]

"Quality women are more likely to left over than quality men". Dude, if they are left over, they're NOT quality women!
What's so complicated to understand?
It's men - not women - who get to decide what a quality woman is.

[stevec]

This is basic Red Pill theory. Nothing new here.

[fischman-China]

Going to China later this year, not to find a woman but to hang out with friends. If I see any leftover women, I will get back to you.

[zoopfvisualeffects]

This problem is worldwide with a lot of women facing this unfortunate truth because of all of those woke movements that literally destroyed relationships and marriages.

Men are simple creatures. For the longest times and still today, men know if they're average or a super model and what they bring financially. And because of that, we have always dated as according to what we are and our financial status, and, even happily settled down as long as a woman was a "good woman". This is the difference between men and women. Back in the days, women equally were happy to do the same because they understood time favors men and their windows of opportunity is during their prime years. Today, women are no longer the same and so I always just encourage men today to be extremely picky when choosing a woman as to not end up divorced and their lives being taken away from them. Men, we know what it means to be rejected only until we become something, and then we get to choose at will. Women today have misplaced their time and trust with the woke movements instead of following rules of old that was to help them not become a left over. Now, here is the most stupid part that I have to remind women today simply is: "you can have a career while being a great girlfriend/wife/mother as long as you follow the schedule of time." Both men and women can have a career and still be married by 25/30, have kids, and build a family as long as they follow the schedule of life - Finish high school, then finish college/trade school, then enjoy your money once in your career, then get serious about relationships and lastly be married by 25 or latest 30, then have kids and build that family. So, what does that say? A woman could have had it all and never become a left over. Women of old understood this. Women today may finally now understand this simple concept, but unfortunately, by experiencing being unwanted and undesired no matter how pretty they are or how much money they have.

What needs to happen? Women world wide need to unfollow the laws of wokeness, which betrayed them and return to the laws that would have allowed them to have it all. Unfortunately, for the women considered left over now, they must lower their standards and choose a good man instead of chads or high value men, which in the end all end up choosing women in their 20's only.

Woke = cancer for both men and women, and now, I hope women know it too. Men pumped and dumped them until they became left over. And unfortunately, maybe even good men don't want them either anymore even if they lower their standards. Left over women are so screwed and pun intended. Fellas, keep hitting the gym, work on that mental happiness, and become financially comfortable, and choose her younger sister ahaha.

[namkebanyanklariti]

7.69% of the population in China - that's a drop in the bucket. But that's a third of the US population, nearly 3x Canada's population, and covers the population of the Caribbean. That's a lot of women - to put things into perspective.

[devator_yt]

16:31
"Loneliness is an unpleasant emotional response to perceived isolation. Loneliness is also described as social pain – a psychological mechanism which motivates individuals to seek social connections. It is often associated with a perceived lack of connection and intimacy."
- So its concluded loneliness is an emotional response. And love is the greatest motivating force. So they ARE looking out of love.
16:48
So basically last sentence is about loving yourself = to be happy ? No, that way nobody cares and nobody dates. If someone is already happy why would he/she need anyone to ruin their happy life with possible problems ? That's why some women don't see the point in marriage, relationships... they don't need anyone until they get old and things get difficult or lonely. But by then they maybe missed their only chance.

Happiness is also emotion and loving another person and vice versa can bring joy and happiness that is probably unparalleled to anything else.

[PPB_Army]

It's tough out here
Protect your seed

[carlogambino]

Asian men stay single. Never be a Simp.

[USER_SVNT]

ngl some of these women are still very beautiful for their age, a shame their feminine and family values don’t hold up the same, and thats what brought them to these circumstances.

[venomdust]

5:44 she is not looking to get married. And she definitely not a throw away woman. “ but men may come and go “
Yea that’s the editor having a jjoke

[PeterGeorg-ezft]

I would be happy to take an older lady into my household! She will be very happy with me! I am reputable and well-off, my mother is no longer here!

[teamvjmckblah]

The Naratore is obviously on the side of leftover women. Almost making it sound like it a wonderful thing for them to be the breadwinners. Yet every single one of them still wants marriage they just think they deserve the top 10% yet letting their fruit rot and becoming under the lower 50% of women for any guy who wants to build a family. Just imagine a dude 4"11 and dirt poor demanding a Victoria Secret model (when they were all hot) because he used to be rich.