What Happens When You Treat a Narcissist the way They Treat you?

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chapters
00:00 Intro
00:55 Rage-filled shock
02:32 Escalate Their Abuse
03:58 Emotional revivification
05:38 Portrayal Of Victimhood
07:00 Label you with a disorder
08:28 Conclusion

[HonestyIsAVirtue]

The children that are caught up in the middle of a narcissists insanity is very heartbreaking. The spouse can divorce the narc, but the child is stuck in the craziness... It's so sad

[nickf]

This is exactly what I did with my ex narc girlfriend. After absorbing all of her narc bull shit for 5 long years, I finally had enough, and I started treating her like she had been treating me. Wow, wasn't expecting that reaction...she instantly knew something was different, she was shocked, shrunk away, and then one day called me up and said she didn't want to do this any more, it took about three months. She cut me off and it was over. No problem, she was putting me down, triangulating me with male orbiters, even seeing other guys behind my back and making demands that were never going to happen. She has tried to hoover me back in three times in the last two years....not happening. Go fys.

[Demona]

I asked my narc aunt to stop the constant criticism. She didn't, so I said "Ima do the same to you"
Less than 24 hours later she yells at me "I'M SICK AND FUCKING TIRED OF YOUR GODDAMNED CRITICISM!" I smiled and said "See how it feels? You do this every day and you couldn't handle it for 24 hours. So either change or I'm leaving and never coming back."
She proceeded to tell me everything she has given me.... while I packed

[andersdottir]

Ghost them while they think they are ghosting you, don’t reply to their texts for days, don’t call them, be nice to everyone else and snap at them.
If you’re lucky they’ll run out the door but if not you should be running out the door; don’t waste your time ‘playing’ with these creeps.

[vacationeyes]

Treat them the way they treat you, then leave for good. The perfect revenge on a Narcissist.

[farihamohamedhilmy]

This is totally insane! It’s like narcissists are too blind with the fact what they did is wrong and has the audacity to call people crazy if being treated the same way 😤

[mschlund]

A narcissist can only be the hero or need a mother not a partner.

[petronellachamakalunga]

100% facts, . They even start to count everything they have done for you, it's almost as if they are implying that the good things they did for you was a payment for their abuse later on. so they kind of expect you to just take in the abuse, if you don't then you are labeled ungrateful.

[ResearchThis]

Yes!! When i finally stood up to my narc mother, and tried to correct her, she told our whole family that I went crazy from the pandemic and the lockdowns. This is how the narcissist parent treats their own children.

[Acrobattler]

It is impressive how deeply informed you are about the subject in such young age.
Congratulations for being so charismatic and for helping victims educate themselves.
God bless you.

[joanb]

It’s very sad that people abuse other people who seem to truly care about the abuser. The caring person has no choice in the face of abuse other than to disconnect.

[ReRe_]

You always nail these people. I enjoy learning from you. You are the man your father should have been. So proud of you. Keep it coming.

[janicebullard]

They don't like it when you reverse the curse..then want you to have a 'Pity Party's '

[ברכהה]

You must have met my mother and siblings personally. This describes them exactly. Well done. Thank you for voicing what is very difficult for the survivers.

[PrimordialCreations]

These are so true! When I quickly discarded someone who started breadcrumbing me, they acted like they were the victim then tried to put me on some kind of shelf. But I didn’t care about being ‘the villain’. I basically told them ‘we’re not a match’, ‘it wasn’t serious’ and ‘life goes on’. They let it go. I blocked them. But I can feel their lurking behavior online. So I shut down most of my media.

[withloveandrespectalways]

A narcissist survivor only knows what he went through. No one can understand. Thanks for your advice and guidance. May God bless you always.

[flowersofthefield]

Run keep running Don't look back .



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[vanessah]

The moment I mirrored my ex back it's like he automatically knew the jig was up. I video called him and he didn't answer so when he video called me I didn't answer. Later on he tried to text me and I texted him back way later and then I never heard from him again. I know he hated that I mirrored him. I don't care, I was done.

[Morpheus-ptwq]

If you decide to do this (mirroring them), then you should be fully prepared to burn the bridge to ashes. And let it burn continuously forever.
It would also mean, you are no longer seeking validation outside, but you are the first and only person required for your own validation, which will get you all required abilities to recognize and dismiss all manipulations, deflections, projections.

[keeperandralf]

I’m glad you stood up to him and got out of there. I escaped the house while the narcissist was at work, saved the lives of my two cats, and it was years before my hackles went down from seeing the evil she had become.