How Can You Tell If a Guy Is Using You or Actually Cares

[ivydune]

True. If he likes you, he will text you often, ask to hang out, offer solutions too see you again, talk with you even if he's not a talkative person. If not, you'll see him posting pictures of dinners, concerts, parties that you didn't even know he was going to, you'll see him adding girls after girls on his social media, if you text him, he'll reply hours later to show you you're not a priority, and respond as if you're just one of the guys. I'm in this situation. And I was in denial believing maybe he was insecure. Following bad advice from people saying not all men want to chase, most men want us to make the first move, etc...bad advice. There are no shy guys when it comes to dating. When they want you, they will shower you with attention everyday.

[haley]

well I'm obviously being used. Thanks!

[LG-wveq]

Two of my exes introduced me to their friends and families didn't work out their egos get in the way men are weirdos

[BRITTWOODNESHIE]

All these points to my mom's boyfriend whose she's supposedly in a civil union with after only a month and a few weeks.

[Mandy-ojii]

Thanks for the advice just what I needed to know!!

[humblecornellious]

What if they do all that then drop u in a month

[miss.phyllisreneefoster]

I thank you so much for letting me no, now I no

[ritadougherty]

Could you pm me with some advice? I don't really want to put my info on the internet but it is so difficult to get advice on the internet and yours seems very genuine... Thank you so much

[francesortizortiz]

We have a child together we live together he'll say you love me I say I love him too but it just something about him that is just making me worry too much I just don't know all his family knows me or his friends know me he does taking me out but I just don't get it about him he is a sweet talker when he talked or he sweet talks his way out of it by using sex with me he know that's my weakness but he use it when we both get mad and say something to each other call me a b**** and say I can get another woman and the most thing that I hate the most. Please help me figure him out he is an alcoholic he drinks and drive he doesn't care about his life he doesn't care about no one likes he say that he doesn't get caught that he would never get called but he have a DUI the first time he say that you love me and my daughter I called him many times drinking and lying and try to sweet-talk me for not to be mad it's like a manipulation that he does when I'm telling him to leave his alcohol and pick and choose what do you want to do he likes to hang around with the wrong person he likes to drink and tell he's intoxicated I don't accept in my house because I have children what should I do this is a man that's not willing to change three things about him and he won't even do it for her daughter should I kick him out I've been with him for 2 years he's depending on me for everything food a bed for him to sleep on I just feel like it's too much for me I don't know what to do