Stalkers, what they want and making them stop

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Stalkers, what they want and making them stop
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[shereencollington]

There need to be better laws in place to protect victims of stalking.

[Joulean]

The pressure to be a perfectly unreactive victim in the eyes of these systems that are supposed to help when you are going through the most disturbing shit ever is just the ultimate nightmare

[Highwizardd]

this is common advice for if you deal with narcissistic personality types. “grey rocking” basically no emotion, no reaction, no responses. you gotta fight your ego and ignore all external force.

[VVesteria]

This is reminding me of how Robert Pattinson went on a date with one of his stalkers and basically was talking nonstop about how miserable his life was the whole time and she apparently never came back after that.

[mariapilarme]

Stalking it’s nothing more than controlling!

[summerturner]

I have had a stalker for nearly 10 years the person has done everything to get my attention even spread lies about me to anyone who will listen even contacted my friend on Facebook to get to me. I am not on social media I am glad i have a friend who has stuck by me as she knows what this person is like police are useless I have To be attacked before they will do anything they said. To everyone who is going through this keep your head held high you are stronger than you know realise this is not your fault and be proud of who you are and how well you are coping.

[SuperKarineka]

They never stop, they have an obsession that escalates overtime. And yes, they know what they are doing is wrong which is why they do it covertly and lie when caught and are manipulative.

[bondeappetite]

I’ve had ten years of keeping quiet. Stalkers do not stop.

[sandrajunghall]

"Zero response" may be possible for some kinds of stalking, but not enough for someone who's also hacking resident devices, listening into victims' home, tracking their phone and intercepting communications vital to work, socializing, paying bills and living. The new kind of stalking is a whole new ballgame.

[saturdayschild]

I had a stalker once. He was a 35-year-old psychiatrist. I was 16! I got out of dodge for school, didn’t tell him where I was going, and he found me. I will never forget answering my dorm phone and hearing his voice. Scary time. He showed up with a gun. Very sick man.

Thankfully this was long before social media. It was terrifying but he eventually found another target.

[secretlybees]

A lot of women on social media will refer to a stalker as "my stalker" which worries me. This gives the stalker a relationship with the person. MY stalker means they're being acknowledged. I wish people would say "the person stalking me" instead because it does not validate the relationship.
Like, when Tana Mongeau would be like "MY STALKER is SO SMART he avoids being caught" and stuff like that.... That's really fueling it. You're owning him, you're complimenting him, and it's encouraging him. Keep all of this language in your private conversations. Never let the stalker see or hear it.

[xfghytgv]

They want to torment, and take your life; either through incitement of suicide or by their own hands.

[AnyaAnnika]

I was cyberstalked for 2 years it was hell on earth it resulted in me nearly ending my life & induced a manic episode & I was hospitalised under the Mental Health Act (quite ironic as a mental health prof myself). I was constantly told by the police not to react & it couldn't be that bad as they were not an immediate threat to my life. Meanwhile they'd infiltrated every aspect of my life: hacking work accounts, my phone, stole my identity etc. I had no way on line or on the phone whether to trust who I was speaking to or what I was seeing was real. If anyone can recommend any support groups I'd greatly appreciate it; it's two years on and I'm still extremely traumatised and trauma bonded.

[WomanOfValor-TheVoice]

They even influence other people against me. Real painful.

[nickolazcarters]

I hate stalkers man. It ruining my mental health.

[citysurvivor]

A cop gave me the best advice. That was too call the cops every single time you get contacted and that a restraining order is just a piece of paper and will not make it stop. And that’s exactly what I did.

[immadeusrex]

Beautiful analysis, it is almost as if an alter ego or an alternative version of you has been created in their imagination and they are forcing you to align with the "you" of their imagination.
The scary thing is ultimately they convince themselves of the authenticity of their version. They hijack the real you and replace you with the version they have created of you.
I guess in that way, they can justify or rationalize their victimization of you. They are always ahead of you, presenting the version of you they have created, even before you get the chance to present yourself as yourself to the people you encounter.

I have been stalked/group stalked for 8 years and counting, at this point I can probably write a book. Sad thing is it takes away your ability to build meaningful or new relationships. Terrible predicament.

[grimreaper]

100% agree ignore them they hate it they want you to notice them.

[she]

this video really helped because i’ve been so tired of people telling me that “ignoring will make it go away” everytime i tell them there’s nothing i can actually do for her to stop cuz she’s clinically obsessed with me, so while it did relived the part of me that wanted to be understood, it made me cry and hurt me just about as much as it gave me peace. I’m tired of not being able to enjoy life because of my stalker . I’ve had a troubled childhood and my teenager years were no sea of roses but i always had me. I always had my identity and my history and who i was and wanted to be present and since i had no friends or family that i could count on at the time, this was and is my rock. But surely peace never really lasts and this weird obsessive girl started to trying to be me 5 years ago and has not stopped since. I wish i had seen your video sooner but the. again, at the beginning i didn’t realize she was actually mentally deranged. I’m used to people copying things i do and i never took it seriously, i would just block the person and soon enough they would eventually stop, so when this girl started doing the same, i took the same approach. A lot of things started happening ( my boyfriends would get calls saying i was cheating, the police will get calls saying i was a terrorist, accounts with my face were made, some actually impersonating me and having “relationships” with followers, others just blatantly making fun of my body and face. I never would have guessed it if not for a ex friend of mine that called me and said that he would have to stop being friends because this girl (my stalker with whom he now dated ) didn’t want to. I said okay and i ignored it, but being a human i got curious and i searched for her (because he did say she had 3 fake accounts following me so i could not post anything about it cuz she would be mad, and i was furious with the audacity she had to do all that and still demand to have control over my life) I found out when i search for her, that for the past (at the time) 1/2 year she had done about everything to become me . She painted her hair and straitened it, she followed my friends, she claimed everything i did she did to, she purchased the same clothes i did, would post the same things and so on. This is when ur video would have come in handy because blind by rage i soon exposed her and went to the police (which was no help because my country has no laws for that :) ) it’s been 5 years. I’ve completely disappeared from social media, but she never stopped or stops. She found out my past, the horrible things that happened to me and spread them in the internet saying i was a liar. She also claims to be the victim (and even tho anyone that processes eyes can figure it to be the other way around, some don’t actually know me so they help her spreading those rumors with my name on that have made my life a living hell. Her mom is in on it too for she has called me multiple times to say that i need to just accept and be proud that her daughter admires me so much, while she keeps on giving her money to copy everything i do. My current boyfriend keeps getting calls, his exes get approached by her and jealous girls are the meanest. My mental health is progressively getting worse given that i am also getting physics sick from nerves and depression. I really don’t know what to do because i’ve been quiet for a year and a half now and she only gets worse and she finds ways to make me hurt and to get to me (example she made another psycho pretend to be my friend in real life to tell her my secrets, expose them with her twisted lies and then screwing me) i can’t really trust no one and i changed who i was so many times, so i would not be the same as her that i lost myself, and it was no good either cuz she just copied everything again. it’s a cycle that i can’t get out of . I really feel like perfect blue describes my life perfectly because i have thought in desperate moments that maybe i’m imagining it ? maybe i’m the sick one that thinks i’m her, the the large amount of proof i have says otherwise. I’m really lost now and i don’t know what to do, and it’s sad cuz she won’t stop but i don’t know if i can take it anymore . Either way, probably no one will read this given it’s extensive content and also my possible many orthography mistakes haha i just need to vent . I’m still grateful i stumble through ur video and grateful people like you exist, make me feel less lonely

[chanellivory]

You have to go "toe to toe" with these people for them to stop.
They're usually very underhanded, sneaky, work in groups, and are cowardly, so finding out who your stalkers are can be difficult, but pay attention to people around you and meet them head on when possible.
Stay protected, but always move and think logically.
Remember, only those who are weak throw rocks and hide their hands, so continue to be strong.