4 Signs You've Met 'THE ONE'

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[TheJoshGalt]

You inspired me to: Divorce my toxic ex-wife, build a stronger relationship with my children, build a 7 figure business, identify toxic people, and meet the love of my life. You are an incredible person Stephanie. Thank you.

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1. Beliefs & Values align
2. You both own/take responsibility for your own stuff (insecurities, short comings, etc.)
3. Supports you unconditionally
4. It's easy

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[PersonalGrowthNow]

Both parties MUST be able to take personal responsibility. A must.

[alibertylover]

Last time I thought I met " the one", my dog convinced me that I already have the one. My dog always responds to love & affection...

[RuthRandoms]

The number of men I’ve met who think they are never in the wrong and cannot ever apologise for anything is unbelievable. So many men are so full of pride, ego and arrogance - “it’s never me, it’s always her at fault”. I can apologise and realise when & how I’m wrong. The men, rarely ever. More in-love with their own ego than anyone else!!!

[debrabarber]

I'm in the middle of my escape. But I needed to be reminded that a healthy relationship is possible in the future. Blessings.

[keejackson]

I'm in that "its just easy" type of relationship right now, and it's absolutely wonderful. It's literally like finding yourself in another person. Your both like minded and want the same things. It's not forced, it's smooth sailing.

I hope anyone watching this find this in their person❤

[obscurum]

She is so right about the relationship with the right one is easy. Too many people push the idea that you have to work hard at relationships. If you have to try hard to keep it going then leave!

[Freverblessed]

Being comparable, having the same beliefs and values it’s KEY! A relationship can’t possibly last if you have to constantly argue about each other’s behavior and way of living.

From a self love content creator to another; great topic, great tips Stephanie!! 💕

[UdoADHD]

How these tips worked for me:
1. We share the same lifestyle GOAL. That was most important to me. There are other things in lifestyle that I want that he doesn’t care about and vice versa but I needed this 1 thing to be there in a relationship - I needed to be with someone who wanted a wealthy life and will do whatever it takes to achieve it.
2. He right away told me about what his “stuff” was and I told him I aggressively seek help for my mental health
3. I think she explained this very well
4. It should feel easy. Yes. It’s hard to explain.
It doesn’t mean arguments are easy or nothing bad ever happens. It just means the relationship IN GENERAL feels like it’s easy to be open, honest and yourself. You don’t walk on egg shells or tiptoe. And when things DO Not Feel easy, can it be resolved in a healthy way and both people feel easy again? This one was one I didn’t realize was a thing until I found an easy relationship.

[Christina-tcnr]

I love that you always have flowers in the background! It makes me so happy

[johannaquinones]

This was very good. Completely agree with you. After 23yrs of happy marriage I can tell you the feeling of "easy" is what I tell everyone is tge secret. For a couple to remain together in a happy marriage it cannot feel like a daily struggle. You have to feel safe and understood. Good job putting this video together!

[imaginedo]

She is, by far, the hottest coach on YouTube. So elegant!

[RN-gxwt]

Look for emotional maturity, not comparison, look for mental health, stability clarity, look for the sense of purpose.

[heartsumlivingjallang]

Yes a relationship should be easy and you should feel safe to be who you are.. the should be inner self work not trying to stop fighting, work. Nice talk Stephanie :)

[candy]

The part where you mentioned where the relationship should feel easy and not too hard is so true. My boyfriend and I been dating for a year (met through the pandemic 😷) and I feel this ease with him and I don’t feel like I have to jump through hoops to keep the relationship alive. We share the same values, we’re mature .. I’m 32 and he’s 40, so now we’re both more “settled” with ourselves and know what we want in a relationship since we’re older. He’s amazing and I love him

[katiedunlap]

One thing I like to tell my friends who always tell me they keep ending up with the same kind of people and it’s a constant dead end—be like George from that Seinfeld episode where he does the opposite of everything he normally does and things finally start to go his way. I chose to date the opposite of what I normally looked for, looks wise. For example, I’m 5’10 and he’s 5’5. I always told myself I would never date a shorter man cause society told me that wasn’t acceptable. But conversation with him was so easy and he was in all other aspects, very much my type. His smile made my heart flutter and his laugh made me laugh. I’m pretty determined to marry this man one day. Life is just so easy with him.

[reacherstudio]

Wow I never really thought bout seeing how they handle themselves, or handle me when things are stressful! I can be a people pleaser and forget that I'm looking for a match too. Thanks Stephanie

[aminahassaf]

Thank you so much for this. At 63 years of age, I believed I was quite content on my own after two failed marriages. Now, my amazing & loving friends are telling me I have 'developed' so much, it's time I gave an intimate relationship another chance. I truly appreciate ALL your guidance AND recommendations. 💖💖💖

[JenFromCa]

Always so helpful, as always! I’m learning a lot with a new relationship I’ve been in. It’s long distance for the time being but it’s okay because I know it’s him that I want. It’s worth it because it’s unconditional. After such toxic relationships before, I get it now.