What To Say IF A Girl Asks Your Age

Dating apps and real life, should you lie about your age or do you tell the truth? In this video we're going to dive into dating advice that gets you out of the hot seat when it comes to the big age question. So get your pen and paper out and be prepared to write down exactly what you need to know what to say if a girl asks your age!

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[peterjohnson]

"Old enough to no longer care."

[sunvaj]

Once a girl likes you, age doesn't matter at all.

[aem]

I’ve responded to that question in the past w/;
1-my true age immediately,
2-old enough to know how to treat U right,
3-old enough to not play games that’ll hurt U... &
4-old enough that it won’t matter if Ur mature enough to give me the opportunity...
The superficial or immature personalities separate themselves which saves me time, money & effort/energy...
Thx for Ur efforts Arica & I love the vids... Mac😎😘👍

[anthonyacquah-ghann]

I think a man, who is confident in the strength of who he is, would tell his age straight up and own it. When he says it, he should say it with conviction and positive energy. In my experience, if a woman sees the man has a great energy about himself, showing he is self assured, she usually doesn't care.

[MarkGunnMedia]

Ive no need to lie about my age. At 62, ive been described by a few younger women as "sexy as f***" 😅😅

[dagarob_c]

Yes obviously don’t lie, my girlfriend is 28 and Im 42. She asked and I just told her and she has told me that men have lied to her about their age before. She said to me “well your a great guy, in shape tall and I like my man seasoned” lmao. A bit over a yr now together and we are doing great. 👍🏽 Great vid

[rh]

You are certainly very easy on the eye!
I always say; "For a locust, I'm old; For a rock, I'm young; For a man, I'm just right. :-)

[romanemp]

I’m 35 and I met this 19 year old I got along well with. When she asked for my age, I told her I was 55. She laughed. We kept talking. She asked again, I asked her to tell me how old I looked. She said, 25. So I said, okay, I’m 25. A few weeks later, she asked again. As we left from work, I straight up told her my age, fearing she would turn me. I was surprised when she texted me, “I miss you, Roman.” I thought, hey, it didn’t matter, but then she disappeared on me.

[enricocortez]

I just tell them my real age outright if they ask. I agree that we should not lie about our age especially if dating someone whom you want a long term relationship with. I guess it"s how you say it. If you say it with confidence, and that you are secure and not embarrassed by your age, it may even add to your attractiveness.

[brucejohnson]

I'm 67 and put 57 on social. Having spent most of my life in special forces I look 50 (and have been told so). This advice is by far THE BEST ADVICE i have yet to receive on line

[jimanderson]

As an older guy I think women in general care more about the connection. And never lie. Other coaches have said that women care more about you being someone they can trust more than just about anything, which I believe.

[rob]

I love my age!♥️
Old enough to know better than to lie...
Young enough not to care how they respond;
Experienced enough to handle that question.
Simply put, everyone is the age they are for a reason... Embrace it.

[elad]

Kind of a double standard. I never ask a woman her age or her weight. I sometimes get irritated when ask my occupation.

[timjensen]

I heard a much better line on another site, old enough to know what I want. Young enough to get it.

[murphsviews]

If you're much older than her (say 40 to her 20):

"I'm 65, but I'm told I look great for my age. If you play your cards right you can call me granddaddy in the bedroom 😉"

Or (again, if you're 40 to her 20):

"I'm 18, but I have a thing for older women".

Something else you can do if you're again say much older than her, is to get in first and flip the script on her, by "disqualifying her" for being too young.

Eg. "You're really pretty, pity you're too young for me."
"I love your smile, shame you're too young for me"
"Wow, we have some real chemistry going, pity you're too young for me".

Females hate being told they can't have something, or are too young, too old, too weak etc. It's like a red rag to a bull, so by getting in first and disqualifying her, you make her far more likely to want to chase you and to forget about any objections she might have had due to your age.

Then when she does get around to asking, you can tell her honestly, and in a confident way that sounds like it's a good thing that you're that old.

Which in a way it is, because there are things that come with age that are attractive for a woman.

Eg maturity, wisdom, "security", experience, stability, status, possibly wealth, etc.

If all that fails and you can tell once you've told her your actual age that she's offput by it, but hasn't said so or rejected you yet, you can get in quickly and say something like "does that freak you out", or "how do you feel about that?", which will give her the chance to express herself, before making a final decision, and that will reduce the chances of it actually freaking her out.

Because for one she won't want to be seen as someone who is superficial about these kinds of things, so if you put her on the spot about it like that she's less likely to let herself get freaked out by it. She'll want to be seen as someone who is strong and mature enough to be able to handle it.

Thus making her more likely to give you a chance.

[jlc]

I look younger than I am, I take advantage of that!

[chriswhite]

I tell her old enough to know better, too young to care..!! 🤣

[philipallsopp]

If a girl asks your age, of course you shouldn’t lie. There’s no point in not being truthful, and every reason to be honest.
If you lie about your age, when asked, the foundation of what then comes is already compromised and undermined. It lacks integrity.

I like the idea of turning it in order to take away the emphasis on age, “focus on the connection”.
Good idea. Thanks.

[johngonzalez]

Age is nothing but a number. I normally don't have a problem telling women my age (33) because I don't have nothing to hide. I'm often told I look younger. Great video Arica 🙏🏻

[skidrowoffroad]

From my online dating experience, women have a range of ages they think they want. The very first question I've been asked EVERY TIME a woman responded to me was "How old are you?" and that's despite my age being visible on my profile. If I answered honestly, I never heard back from her. If I tried something like what you're suggesting, she'd bitch that I didn't answer her question and that was the end of it as well. So....eventually I gave up on online dating. In person, it's a little different, but being honest about my age has never gone well.