what caused you to have low self-worth? #selfworth #healing

Hi girliesssss 🦋 In honour of International Women's Day, today's episode is all about WOMANHOOD. Where I chat ⬇️

-cycle syncing and the importance of embracing our biological differences
-birth control & preventative measures
-how to balance masculine and feminine energy in a masculine dominated society
-my views on woman in the workforce & if it's TRULY ruining our feminine energy
-my views on soft life and stay at home gf & wife trends
-the red pill community and toxic masculinity
-gender stereotypes
-navigating friendships with women without competition and envy
-fitness and nutrition tips for women
-feminine hygiene tips
-and MORE

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[lailaniCleary]

The way I understand this .. I remember same thing happened to me. No child should be screamed or yelled at for not understanding something

[Ana-tysl]

I had the same experience, from that day on I never liked math.

[viv]

Why is this a universal experience I swear….

[ladyeloiseherbert]

This resonates with me. People vouch so hard for two parent households and from my experience some nuclear households are so toxic and damaging to children.

[TaroLoaf]

I relate to this a lot. This attachment to perfection I think is a huge issue with our society today. A lot of people feel the need to constantly have the best, fastest, or most premium of something. When really it's a distraction from our internal auffering

[Mosdefinitelyable]

Omg!!!! This happened to me too and I record it as one of the single most impactful moments to my mental health and self worth. Let’s get this right parents!!! Wow it’s damaging! Thank you for sharing!!!

[Diane_Pena]

that hit sooo profoundly 😭😭😭😭 we have the same memories and traumas

[iheartmissG]

I can relate to this to a tee. It was my mom though and she would also slap me across the head if I got the answer wrong. I’m 30 years old now and feel like it’s made me be a less confident person with low self esteem. It’s tough at times but I don’t want to blame my mother because I know I can work through it and become my own person. Thanks for sharing ❤

[АннаШироких-хф]

This happened to me. My father was checking my handwriting (I was so little I've just started learning to write by hand), he didn't like how my letters were turning out, so he ripped out the page and told me to start over again!
The worst thing about this is I did almost the same thing to my little brother. My parents asked to see how he was doing his homework. He couldn't understand a math problem so I slapped his head out of frustration. Gosh, I was a child myself and couldn't deal with my emotions. I'll never forget his cry.
Recently I've apologized and said it wasn't his fault and he's allowed to make mistakes.

[thesandguardianofthesand]

I had this, but not in an one-on-one situation. An entire year group I was in hated specifically me, because I was less mature, I was outgoing, I was energetic, I was loud, and now I've lost all of that. Words can really hurt, folks. Make sure you give people positive words ❤

[sofiatrelles]

I also went through that. You're the first person I've seen talking about this experience that continues to hunt me. Thank you ❤

[lestermatos]

YOU LITERALLY DESCRIBED MY EXPERIENCE. My father is an animal with clothes. The screaming and terror is something that still resonated after a couple times of that I’d rather fail an exam than ask for help

[AWholeLottaLola]

_I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are okay now though. Sending love your way_

[BeccahJoy]

I relate to this sorrow. My dad was awfully impatient and intimidating. Heavenly Father is so kind and compassionate, I lean on Him more than my physical father.

[innervision]

These types of situations were the cause of my anxiety. I remember never feeling safe in my own skin after my father doing similar things.

[choclatepancakes]

Childhood memory unlocked. That's why I always hated school

[Ascension]

Aw man lol your experience triggered some memories I still haven’t dealt with that I didn’t realize I still had. I really need to fix that. I appreciate you sharing. This is why when I have kids I want to be the perfect father because I don’t want them growing up with scars emotionally. If I have a daughter I want to flood her with love and self esteem so she feels unshakable when she grows up

[dgrantsmith]

I had the same experience with math problems and my dad. I resonate with your story. It took a while to overcome these limiting beliefs but awareness of them is really powerful.

[priyankarayc]

Relatable indeed.. Even I developed a math phobia because of my father's yelling and hitting my head for it.

[Ghostcookiees]

I blame school for a lot of my issues.

I was probably about 7 years old and this teacher really didn’t like me for whatever reason, I was a shy quiet girl and I never caused any trouble. I used to wear glasses growing up and I remember sitting on the floor on a classroom and some of my friends besides me were chatting and I think one of them said my name so I looked behind me, the teacher then shouted at me and told me off for talking, I even looked around confused and she said “you, the one with the glasses” I was so upset I remember it still so vividly. That night I sat in silence in the back room of our house, I lay there, so upset as I didn’t do anything wrong and I never got into trouble. Over the years this developed into me getting upset when someone blames me for something that isn’t my fault and I get very defensive. I also often blame myself for things that aren’t my fault.

Another thing that stands out to me at school, I was helping this smart guy with some maths in the classroom I was probably 7/8. He asked me a question or an answer to something I can’t remember, I barely spoke and the teacher pointed at me and told me to stop talking, she also said “do you really think he needs YOUR help?” Because I was quite average at maths and he was known to be very clever. This has caused me to have massive self esteem issues over the years and I never feel like anything I do is good enough and I’m not good enough.

I don’t think some people realise how these things shape you as an adult. I’m still not over these seemingly small interactions and I’m 30 now.