REALITIES OF MARRIAGE, REGRETS, CONTRACEPTION, ETC | CHITCHAT

Hi loves,
Hope you enjoy this super raw and honest chat with my mum about the reality of marriage.

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Name: Uzoma Iroche
Age: 22
Birthday: Nov 20
Location: Ottawa, ON (Canada)
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[momak-builders]

It’s nice to see how vulnerable your mom was about her marriage. It’s also nice to see the comparison between the older generation and this generation.

[simii_j]

My mama went straight to dragging 🤣 “people care more about the wedding day than the marriage” . Love itttt

[ponmileboluwade]

Your mom is so soft spoken and full of wisdom . Thank you for bringing her on❤️

[farabale]

"Don't be angry with me, I'm just a mummy" is sending me 😂
Shoutout to Aunty Viv though, this was 10/10 💕

[mikangobeni]

Mommy is so calm and wise! I loved this

[ItunuoluwaLambo]

It’s interesting how the statement of ‘blocking’ a baby made me remember something my Pastor once said.

In God’s prophetic calendar and timing, certain things have to be done at a certain time, no matter what. John had to be born around the time Jesus was to be born because he had a role to play in fore running Jesus’ ministry (and maybe that’s why Elizabeth had a delay).

That was God’s plan. If John was born earlier or later, it might not have played out the way God wanted it.

So, I think whether or not we choose to start having kids early on in the marriage, or if there’s a delay beyond a couple, committing it all to God’s hands in prayers like your Mum said will always be the best and wise thing to do.

I think it’s okay to have our own plans, take precautions, have family planning, etc. but ultimately, we must submit all things about our lives to God and let His will be done.

It doesn’t mean God is against science, it doesn’t mean God won’t let us have our way sometimes. But our disposition should be that His will reigns supreme.

Thank you once again, Uzoma.

[Agnes.shines]

I love where she spoke about her not knowing God could choose a husband for someone 🥹❤God bless mumsi!
Tell her we’re grateful she shared her life lessons with us ❤

[goodnessvalerieodioh]

Literally just got married and this is what my mother said when I said we are waiting to be financially ready to have kids. Our time is 2 years from now and she said you shouldn't have married

[isiomaononye]

This was an interesting discussion. Your mom made some good points about how people tend to focus on the wedding and not the marriage which is the most important thing and learning how to be with your significant other when things are good and not so good. You should def do a video on contraception. It's what we need to discuss more of in the African community but religion also influences people's beliefs on that so...I just believe that married couples should plan to have the number of children they can truly take care of.

[Jesudemilade]

I love how this conversation is balanced❤️❤️.Thanks to your mum for coming on this ❤❤.P.S: She is so pretty🥹❤️

[tarsbar]

Aunt Viv dropped so many gems!! Loved this video sm, please bring her back 🫶🏾

[Wizzemma]

Mum Is Speaking Wisdom. Please, Don't Block Any Child And Definitely Take Her Advice. Much Love. Stay Blessed.

[DanielObadun]

Amazing video darling
Thank you for sharing thee vulnerable topics with your mum. Marriage is a faith based action and you need God to lead you❤

[peaceofGod]

The older generation vs new generation conversation brought so much enlightenment. God bless you and your mum for this Uzoma ❤

[TheBaboshiyaAO]

Oh wow. Mommy's perspective is quite enlightening, so much wisdom. Thank you Uzoma for bringing Mommy on here.

[Dr.kikixx]

Mommy dropping Gems!!! Lovely video ❤️
Yes please we want the African parents and contraceptives video x

[ItunuoluwaLambo]

I absolutely enjoyed this video. Thank you for having your mum on the channel and getting her to answer these important questions.

A big thank you to your mum for being real with us.

She mentioned that a lot of people in our generation are only preparing for the wedding and not the marriage. Asides listening to married people share their knowledge, reading books on marriage, praying about it, etc. are there other ways she can advice we prepare for marriage?

[Go_sholly]

Your mom is so beautiful 🥺❤️. Thank you for this video ❤️

[obajecomfort]

This was definitely refreshing to watch. Your mum dropped gems. God bless her and keep her.

[iremiposiajayi]

This aged well. 😊😊 So happy for you, Uzoma. ❤❤😊