manipulation

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[MCBlommer]

I love that you have the shot of pomegranate. The fruit of intuition in witchcraft.

[gachaluvr]

2:16 - Being Naive
10:52 - Intuition
17:23 - Forming Boundaries
22:27 - Being Manipulated
23:44 - External Support
27:47 - Shame

[abstergo]

the worst kind of manipulation is the non-direct one, like the one where the person doesn't tell you to not do this or that and even tells you the contrary but acts in a way that implement that "there will be consequences" feelings and when you talk to them about it their response is "but you can leave if you want" like it's the most insidious and easiest trap to fall into, even when you are a secure aware person, it's so upsetting, especially when you're someone who knows all that already

[leojerezvo]

"In life you get EXACTLY what you tolerate."

Boundaries setting is a self care/self love act. It can be scary but it's necessary, I've had to do it with family, friends and co-workers, you have to be okay with the outcome no matter what it is, if you lose people for setting boundaries then so be it. It shows you who really loves and values you, Why would you want to be close with people that disrespect you? Exactly.

Feel your feelings, it's your survival mechanism telling you theres something off. If your nervous system feels off, those anxious feelings are there for a reason, if you feel unsafe make sure to prioritize yourself.

Sometimes we may exhibit trauma responses. (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) Understanding them better can help you understand yourself more.

I took therapy this year to understand my past trauma and it was the hardest and best thing I ever did to be honest. I DON'T tolerate disrespect anymore, I put myself and my needs first.

Srry for the long comment, I hope it can help someone!

[cheyennec]

Please remember any person who genuinely loves and cares about you would never treat you that way. Period.

[Makenzi-vt]

I love these little chit chating therapy for me as a younger teen girl its hard to find balance in trusting someone and putting bounderise betrween them and me in my life .

[aesp]

I just wanted to recommend the book, women that run with wolves… your energy remembered me of this book. Im just reading it! Thank you for recommending it to more women🧡

[amampathak]

Listening to you is like listening to a friend, it is so refreshing as ever to be able to hear your thoughts and reflections about life, Thank you inayah ♥

[anaoicar]

i’m here after a full night of crying thanks for this video 😭

[Kimmm-ie]

Thanks a lot...This video literally gave me huge courage. I've been through a toxic relationship with manipulation for almost 2 years and I didn't realized it until now. At the beginning I felt so upset, anxious, scared and confused, it was just like I was suddenly at the bottom of a strange and cold pit and had no way to get out of it. But your video just changed that situation, like guiding me to a spot where I can climbed up to the ground. It will take strengths and efforts, of course; but the most important thing is that you gave me the strong hope that I didn't have the chance to get on my own. Again, thanks a lot, you are my role model💗

[MeryemOzturk-zdvo]

I am in a kind of mental breakdown era on nowadays and i just wanna say thank you with all of my heart god bless you inayah you r like one of my true firends imma pray for you too when i am praying for myself i love you

[ThumbnailGrail]

I may not be your target demographic, but your videos are quite helpful to listen to. Thanks for the wisdom!

[MomentswithAira]

when my head is all over the place, i just watched you every time. you're like my online therapist without you even knowing. thank you for your life, inayah!

[trinkettconsumer]

These are like a steady therapy session to me. I jot down the key moments in my journal of what’s being said and try to stick to it. Along with remembering and using the advice when the time comes

[dinklebopp]

I will watch every video of yours in full. I absolutely love the peace you give me. Much love ❤

[Cherrycherrytheythem]

This video was very interesting to me as a young fem person who just left a very turbulent relationship with my ex bf that had untreated bpd and i felt like he always pushed my boundaries but never knew it was intentional and at times still wonder. I miss him so much at times but man....

[StephenBelcher-ci]

“ Ditto”, ” The Wolverine that Ran with The Wolves “, is LtM’Argy’s Fave book right now, the same.❤

[rhondacosta]

I just got out of this nightmare. Manipulation is real.

[MariaBeatriz-xiqz]

you always have the right videos at just the right time, thank you so much. I love hearing about life from your point of view. lots of love

[ktyoginiii]

This video comes at the exact right time for me. I was going through something and just made a decision to end the vicious cycle. Thank you.