Why Women Aren't Attracted To Nice Guys

Girls aren't attracted to nice guys. No matter how nice or considerate or generous or thoughtful or sweet you are... if she does not get that gut level sense of desire from you, she will not like you and will be repulsed by you. So you'll learn how to go from nice to DESIRABLE.

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[thecowboy]

Better to be a Good Man, as opposed to a "Nice Guy."

[gonagon]

Sounds like too much work, I think I’ll just stay single

[lionelkennedy]

A good guy is a man with character and principles. He treats people well and shows respect. However, he is not a pushover or a doormat. I think a 'nice' guy is more of a people pleaser.

[acdragonrider]

Key phrase: “you want to be nice not to get someone to like you.”

[shadstewart]

Do not give your power to women, nor follow the ways that destroy kings. Proverbs 31:3

[Suspect]

They want a bad boy until one punches them in the mouth

[Dee--Jay]

Nice guys are not weak. They just put value in a women more than himself. Any woman doont want that or takes advantage of that isnt a good human being

[librarycollection]

Tripp, there really are no words to describe how special your videos are. You get the message across with such uncanny clarity that is simply beyond awesome. Thank you.

[aesthetewithoutacause]

Exactly, be a good person, not just nice. Nice is good but if you're nothing else, if you're not courageous, honest and YOU, man or woman, you're not gonna attract a soul that's worth your time.

[josephdogan]

It is indeed pathetic to live in a world wchich equalts being nice to or weakness.

[samealey]

Your interview with Dr Robert Glover got me onto his No More Mr Nice Guy book which is a complete life changer, Nice Guy Syndrome isn't as simple as it sounds, it's seriously deep. Amazing book! Thank you Tripp for making me aware of him 👏

[vcnsored]

I only show emotion to her, nobody else. I've been called brain dead because of the lack of emotion. And that still makes me a pushover.

[deltaecho]

It's all fun and games until the bad boy cheats on you and you divorce him and take half of his income, whatever that is.

[Dee--Jay]

I don't see women being in the bad girl anc the good girl, balance. They just being picky until they get old I did all of a sudden they want a nice guy

[stephenbutler]

I just think you should be who you are as a person in general instead of trying to change yourself to fit in . A woman is going to like you for you and if she doesn't that person wasn't for you at all!

[warfighter]

i don't really wanna compliment myself but yeah i'm a nice guy and i wanna be myself (who is a nice guy) why would i change myself? it's the who should change not me...

[alexandramaria]

Tripp,

Although I love your content, I have to disagree with you on this particular topic.

As a woman, I do like nice/good guys because these men know how to be consistent and be there for you when you need them.
The nice man knows what he wants, doesn't play games and has a clear vision of his goal and future.
What you are talking about here is women who are attracted to unavailable men. These men show fake confidence, and are very good at the beginning of one relationship, but then, they evacuate themselves from your life because they can't sustain it.

More than talk about nice people, we should look with clever attention to the reasons why men and women find some partners attractive and others, who would be good for them, not that attractive.
Attachment style, childhood experiences, and past relationship experiences are some of the reasons to explain it.

In the dating world, everyone seems to be terrified. People think just because you are honest and consistent that you are playing games. Now, just because one man is nice, he is a pushover and is trying to manipulate their partner?

Nice people:

- Good listeners
- They are generous
- They make others feel good, because they care
- They know the difference between being a doormat vs generous giver
- They treat others well, but also themselves too.

Have a good weekend.

Alexandra

[shanaydee]

This sounds about right to me. Sad but true. Sometimes the “nice guy” screams insecurity. I would rather a good guy over a nice guy.

[kevint]

Hits home pretty hard Tripp. Love your content. Man you’re so right....

[Itriedtakennames]

When was the last time you heard a guy brag to his friends “I have a date tonight with a broke, average- looking 46-year-old mom, and man you would not believe how nice and polite she is! She treats me so well.” Not valuing “nice” over “hotness/status” isn’t exactly a “female” thing that guys need explained to them.