How to Know Your True Friends - Jordan Peterson 🤔🤔

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How to Know Your True Friends - Jordan Peterson 🤔🤔

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Its one thing to turn the conversation around to make it about yourself but its actually really common for someone to talk about their own similar experiences so they can empathize and relate or at least let you know they relate

Callmehazy
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I can't believe how smart is that person!!! This Idea or thought is so simple to understand but so hard to form.🙏

tomercohenpma
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Nah, when sharing bad news you’re true friends WILL tell you when you were wrong or what you should have done and they will help you celebrate when you have good news

aidanlowrance
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Turning the conversation is one thing. Trying to give insightful advice is another

TheWizardGamez
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Absolutely. I have had more people there for me in hard times than in good times. They either haters or jealous. That’s not a good friend.

kristen
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it's easy to find someone to share your bad news, they genuinely want to help you because in a weird way, this makes them a better person. I doubt if you could find anyone you can share your good news, and they would genuinely 100% happy for you, if you think this not true, you probably never know anyone in depth.

yorkgrass
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I was waiting for this good yet simple true message to get through self-centered individuals. I will send your mge to my love ones because I tried and no matter what method of explaining myself to them that i need them to stop for a moment and express unconditional
Love.

edwinortiz
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Unfortunately, those people are There's no friends anymore.

Speedy-msck
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And i had a toxic company who were not friends for more than 7 years. I could not tell them bad news and they mock me over and good news they mock me . I was soo stupid to ride along for soo long i am without no one when i got sick . Friends are fake 😞

Thalaivan
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Hand them sparkling water. If they don’t like sparkling kick them out.

milo
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A story about how i can say anything to my friends

6 months after my depression ended, i finally told my friends the truth, i never said the word depression to them before, but they knew something wasnt good.

It was on december 28th, we were sleeping over at a friends and we were drinking. I thought, this is the time i will tell them everything, i told them about the tics i used to have during school, how i was feeling about life. How my depression started. In more than an hour i told them everything, they were very shocked that i almost killed myself. One of the friends there was a little more drunk then we were, i dont think he remembered what i had said, but thats okay, he isnt a close to us anyway. One of my friends said
That he had veen struggling with anxiety too over then the past 4 months.

I god damn love my friends and that we can say anything to eachother

noukhollands
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pov you tell your friends bad news. Friend: das

boxofcereal
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I'm looking at the comments and everybody is saying that they don't know anybody who's genuinely 100% happy for somebody in the good times or when something good happens to somebody.... and I don't know what they're talking about. Granite I'm antisocial so I don't really hang around alot of people especially if that person seems fake or toxic. but I have like one best friend. And I feel like when something good happens to me she's genuinely happy. I know when something good happens to her I get so happy and excited and I'm proud of her. And I pray good things keep happening to her and that things keep looking up and I pray that she's able to do the things that she wants to do. And when good things do happen to her if she wanted to do something about it I do almost anything for her. As long as it wasn't dangerous or illegal. if I had the money she I'd give her the day of her life to celebrate. But I'm dirt poor not a penny to my name. And unfortunately we don't live of walking distance of each other anymore or else I'd walk anywhere she wanted so we could hang out. I just feel like you guys haven't met the right kind of people. There are people out there in the world that feel happy when other people are happy. Who when their friends are going through s*** and they pull themselves out of it or something really great happens to them it brings them the greatest joy knowing that that person gets to be happy. Somthing like that might not happen for them but at least they gets to be happy. Because they deserves it and their so proud of them and for them. Or maybe I'm just reading your comments wrong. I don't know.

ironicGlowstonEGeneticS
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If you find yourself constantly talking about a predicament, OVER & OVER & OVER, it’s because, evidently none of your friends are actually listening. You can’t move forward, because you never expressed any of it, or divulged into it deep enough to actually realize & develop an emotional response, or even gain a comprehensive grasp of it.

desyxd
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you see, what he says makes me want to know if i'm a good friend

Zebula
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I'm having my first baby and my 6 siblings haven't called or celebrated or nothing. Family should be your best friends but isn't always the case.

anastasiamcgilvra
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Unless you are adhd then stating that you have been through the same or worse means you understand what they are feeling and going through.

jabressdolath
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Close ur eyes I swear you’d think kermet was talking

martinkota
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Hard to find people like that now days. I hope I haven't lost my bff C. I hope I get the chance to return the favor 🙂

andrewgrace
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People are thirsty for attention and take your story as a queue to remember their story and start taking when they actually are friend give you space to express you feeling and full story.

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