How To Prevent Your Kid From Being Bullied

Are you worried that other children may be picking on your child? Bullying can leave serious negative effects on a child, so it's our responsibility as parents to prepare them for this kind of situation! Learn more about how to prevent your kid from being bullied by watching this video!

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:00 Intro & Summary
00:41 Differences In A Child Before And After Being Bullied
01:16 How To Prevent Your Kid From Being Bullied By Improving Your Home Environment
02:24 How Increased Maturity Helps Avoid Bullying
03:04 Importance Of Understanding The Differences Between Truths And Lies
04:58 How To Prevent Your Kid From Being Bullied By Improving Problem-Solving Skills
06:35 How To Practice Problem-Solving Exercises For Bullying Situations
07:42 Learn More With My Free Class

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[kjbdn]

I was bullied (verbal and emotional abuse) for 8 years when I was in public school. You have given good advice for parents--not the complete picture for them, but good advice. Parents, please be sure you don't tease your children about boys or girls they might like, or about the way they look, or what their legitimate interests are, or about things they cannot help that make them different. You might think it's funny, but your child doesn't. If you tease your child, he/she will not tell you about the pain experienced from peers, will not get into below-surface conversations with you. Children are tender and sensitive and don't "get over it." They need parents who listen to them, love them, respect them, and kindly will help them figure out problems. Children tend to accept painful situations instead of doing something, because they aren't experienced enough to know what to do. The other thing to understand about bullying is that it's all about power. The bully enjoys having power over someone who seems weaker. lf the bully is consistently confronted about the bullying by someone who she/he regards as more poweful than herself/himself, then the bullying has a good possibility of ending. This goes for both individual and group bullies.

[margaretm]

This video is spot on. How can I as a parent help a free spirited child that was told to be quiet from another child from singing when she did no wrong? Also, can you please talk about 1. Child that says sorry too much. 2. A child that is a people pleaser. Nice vs kindness. **** I have no idea when I am the same way.

[ItsmeBish]

Every parent should teach their children to have confidence and be strong. Every parent should have an open and honest relationship with their kids. However this doesnt prevent or help bullying in anyway. This video sends the message that if your child is being bullied then something must be wrong at home or within the child/parent relationship. Thats not the issue at all. The problem lies within the bully and only the bully. That is the kid that has issues at home. Also, you can tell your kid all day long not to believe or listen to bullied when they insult them but when kids hear this stuff everyday from the bully (no matter how much confidence the parent has instilled) it will eventually bring the kid down. The solution is to start with the bully and their parents.

[Fishyeditsphonks]

I got bullied in school by older kids when I was six. And also in parks

[johndoe]

Bullies respond to strength. Empower your child by allowing them the option to take self defense classes (not karate…something that’s actually effective such as krav maga). It will give them confidence and take away much of the fear of the inevitable confrontation. Should things ever go kinetic, your child will be empowered with the confidence to defend themself appropriately.

[marianagodinezsansores]

Thank you so much for this information, I feel like we should prepare for this situations because this can really affect their development

[dustancorpman]

It is completely and utterly unrealistic.

[JoeFastFox]

Thank you for this valuable tips and information.

[ninjad]

Oh my gosh thank you for this insight, my son is 3 and already is getting targeted daily :'( and I know that at this age it can be more of a jealousy/communication/primal behavioual thing but I was wondering if maybe I could ask you for an example of each lesson, that I might be able to use with him?

[amymorgan]

Thank you, this is very useful! God bless you

[Anh]

Nicoleen can you do a get a video to sodas in depth from a 2 3 and 4 year old

[kamiparker]

Yea, bullying has chat and seems worse 😢

[MediaMusik]

usually happens in the locker room, and I was sucker punched, broke my nose cant prevent suckers

[edithcabrera]

Thabk you for this video. There is so much truth in it. Thank you for open the eyes of us parents and grandparents to help our children to be strong and cofident,

[esmeraldaserna]

My son is kinda chubby. He opened up to me about feeling bad about himself for teasing that was going on.