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SOMETIMES THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU WON'T LET GO OF WHAT IS MAKING YOU SAD IS BECAUSE IT WAS THE ONLY THING THAT MADE YOU HAPPY.

brandonhunter
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To all the young people in the comments - as someone who is a bit of an old timer, the key piece of advice I can give you is to try to harness a life that isn't entirely based around another person. It's a beautiful thing to truly love someone and experience them in your life to the fullest, but in many cases the comments I've read here seem as though there was (and still is) nothing going on in your life apart from your ex.

I'm happily married for many years now and the key difference from my previous relationships when I was younger is that both myself and my spouse have our own lives, goals, ambitions, hobbies and friendships. We always come back into orbit after all this and feel solid enough in our relationship to do this.

Hollywood sold you a lie. Romance isn't about being obsessed with that special someone and spending 100% of your time with them. It's about being with a loving co-pilot in your life with whom you share all the same values, goals and aspirations. Best of luck.

billsmoke
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It's been almost 11 months since she broke up with me. On our last evening together, she told me that she wants to meet other people and enjoy her youth. When I asked her how she could move on so quickly, she said that she had wanted to end things with me for a year but couldn't handle the pain, so she stayed with me until she felt better. I've had many physical injuries in my life—cuts, bruises, fractures, burns, concussions, strains, and more—but nothing has hurt me as much as that evening. For months, I had extremely high blood pressure and almost had a heart attack because of it.

She's living the best life one could wish for. She has found many new friends, travels the world, sleeps with as many men as she wants, and has nothing but joy in her life. I am genuinely happy for her, and it brings me joy that she can enjoy her life. However, I can't forget her. I feel nothing anymore. There's absolutely nothing I want to do, only things I have to do. Nothing brings me joy. Yes, there are moments when I'm in a better mood, but it wouldn't make a difference whether I spend time with friends, with family, go to university, sleep, work, exercise, read, or simply sit alone in my room doing nothing. Everything has become indifferent to me.And the worst part is, she will never know the pain she has caused me. And even if she did, it would be entirely indifferent to her.😂

I've tried to look forward, to laugh, to find new hobbies, and so on. I am healthier, physically stronger, wiser, and smarter than ever before. And yet, I feel worse than ever. Still, I sit here, writing this, and I don't know what to do. I am 23 years old. My whole life should be ahead of me, but I have no desire to live anymore. I thank God for everything He has given me, and I thank my body for doing everything to move my life forward, but my spirit is shattered. It's been 11 months since it happened, and I've set a deadline for myself of 18 months. If I haven't overcome this by then, I'll just end it. I really can't take it anymore. Every morning when I wake up, she's the first thought. In everything I do, I think of her. Everywhere I look, I see her. And every night when I want to go to sleep, I'm afraid that I'll lie there until 3 a.m., just bathing in my pain.

I hope all of you out there are doing better, and I pray that no one ever reaches the point where I am. Please take care of yourselves and your hearts, and try not to hurt anyone. And if you don't see a future with someone, just leave. Don't manipulate until the extreme. Talk to each other about problems. Don't accept disrespectful behavior, and always think about the consequences of your actions. I hope things get better for you. Don't listen to sad music for too long, and try to live a healthy life. I doubt it, but if you've read this far, thank you for listening to me. You are a good person; don't forget that. The fact that you're interested in this shows that you want to feel better. It will take a few months, and yes, it sounds horrible, but unfortunately, that's how it is. Try to improve yourself and don't live the pain through others; try to be better. Always be the person you unfortunately never got to have and help those who need it. Heroes and villains always have the same background, marked by pain. While one wanted to inflict the same on others, the other chose to spare others that suffering because they know exactly what it's like to be alone in that darkness. Always try to be a hero for other people, even if it means you continue to fight alone. Be the light you missed, and save those who need it. Fight your way out of the shadows back into the light so that you can also show others the way. Take care of yourself, my friend, stay healthy, and thank you for listening 😁💔💙

eduardwalter
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I was 26 when we broke up. Covid came and all that BS. Now I'm 32. I still miss you. I know we've met again 5 years after we broke up, and I'm so grateful that I had that closure. Thank you for being so kind to me, even after all these years. I know our lives are not the same now, you pursuing your dreams and all. I am proud of you. I am happy that you're reaching for the stars and truly live your life to the fullest. You will always be the woman that I love the most. And even if I'm not there with you know, know that you are always in my heart and I always root for your happiness and success. You will always be in my heart, until the day I die. <3

irwanshah-qp
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She gave herself to everyone. I thought the connection was real, but it was just the idea that I fell in love with.

zacksmith
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It's been 3 years and I have forgotten her voice and face. But the heartache is still there.

AnonG
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I find it awesome and super cool how everyone here is expressing their feelings without the fear of being judged and people are open to offer comfort for others and share emotions even though we are all complete strangers

gustavodavidrodriguezmonto
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I'm here at 3:30am. Suffering from depression and hearing this songs and reading your stories.
If you need to talk, I'm here. For everyone.

MatzeMitAI
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These comments made me cry. And im a fully grown ass man. I wish you all the best recovery and love...

Nmx
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“One day you’ll meet someone who starts a fire in you that cannot die, the sad part is it is not always who you will spend your life with”

drew
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to all the real ones down here. trust me, one day it becomes just a memory like a half faded dream you maybe thought you had. stay strong it'll be alright.

Terebizh
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She showed me what love feels like.
I don't remember her face, i only remember her eyes and her smile when she was looking at me.
Time stops.
The whole world is blown away.
I'm in heaven right now.
It's just you & me.
I can feel my heart beating again.
I can feel the sky again.
I didn't know life could feel so extatic.
I didn't know love could be so powerful, so transforming.
She grabbed my hand & took me to the Most High.
Silently, she left.
Sun is gone.
I'm alone in the night.
Stargazing.
Tears rolling down.
Then I understood.
It was all me from the beginning.
The light in her eyes.
The magic in her touch.
Pure Life flowing through my veins.
She is a miror.
She showed me Who I Am.
She awakened me to my very Nature.
The Source of Love is inside.
It has always been.
Infinite Love & Gratitude ♾️✨️🤍

Shaeny
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Just let go. Be ruthless and take care of yourself! Set goals! Live!
Believe me, I was there where you are now. I've seen the abyss and fell dozens if not hundred times. But there is no use in staying down. It takes a lot of strength to get back up again and again. And it takes a lot of courage to move on since there is comfort in the panic. But it is all of no use. You got to keep moving! You have potential! And it does not lie in you past or your suffering. Life can be so beautiful. People can be so beautiful. YOU can be so beautiful. Don't let your life slip away. Take action! We are waiting for you to be with us, laughing and dancing! Take my hand and come with us. Don't give your pain more power than it deserves. Learn from it! Learn your lesson don't let it be for nothing! Your next chapter awaits you.
You are worth so much more! There is more in life than suffering! There is also joy, friendship, solitude and love. Get up and take it! You're worth it! The time is now!!!

nichtgestalt
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I just came here to hear some relaxing walking around at night music. Hope all you lonely hearts find that special someone who loves you back.

jordil
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“She’s never truly yours, it was just your turn.”

I’ll save a bench for you, gym bro.

daltonhoneycutt
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Honestly, it's refreshing af seeing so many comments just being honest and vulnerable... It's easy to forget that there are others out there going through the same kind of heartbreak. The hardest thing lately is to just not feel lonely af.. all the time. The one piece of advice I'd give anyone who feels they're falling in love or currently in a relationship that you hope to continue... is to NOT rush things. If the person you're actively chasing is telling you that they're not ready for something more, or that they're "not there yet", just give them time. Continue to be the best version of yourself and learn to love them UNCONDITIONALLY. The worst thing that you can do is set expectations on someone who doesn't even know you're setting those expectations for them. Not everyone is going to love as hard or as much as you do. Some people need time to learn to love. I know it's hard, I know you just want them to feel the exact same way that you do, but you need to give them the time and space to feel it. Trust me. I found the girl of my dreams... I actively worked towards breaking down the walls she had up... I built a relationship of trust with her.. and when she finally gave me a chance... I blew it because I wanted to jump into it head first and she just wanted to dip her toes in until she warmed up to it. I ended up making her feel like the effort that she DID put into us was never good enough. I let small things get in between us... I lived in my own head and made up assumptions about her character, even though I knew deep down inside that she was an honest, genuine, caring, and trustworthy person. She had never given me any reason to believe that she didn't want to be with me... if she didn't want to be around, she wouldn't have even been giving 1% of the effort that she was... but I got possessive, jealous, and projected a lot of my insecurities on her... even though she was always doing her best to overlook and accept those things. I kept telling myself, "If she wants to be with me, why won't she just be with me. Why do we have to stay in this "dating" phase where she won't even commit to a label". God... just reading that back makes me cringe and fills me with regret all over again for acting like that. She ended up getting tired of the unnecessary drama in between the good times we had and ended up ending things w/ me. This isn't to say that she didn't have her faults and that she was perfect in any way shape or form. She had things she needed to work on, she had trauma she needed to work through, she lashed out at me in times that were unjustified... and I was committed to staying w/ her and work through all of it with her, but she wasn't at the same level that I was... but that's okay. As much as it hurts that I lost her, even to this day, to this second as I type this.. and even though I will never truly know what a long term relationship could feel like with her.. I still deeply love and cherish her, and will forever hold those memories we made in my heart. I always told myself that I would rather get hurt knowing that we didn't work, instead of being hurt because I never tried with her. Idk... I'm not really sure why I'm typing this for nobody to read.. but if you do read this.. I wrote something down during one of those moments where I felt like I would never recover or get over her. Hopefully it will help you out the way it helped me in that moment. Don't give up on love. It's true what they say. It's better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all.

Fake it
Don't let them see you're weak
Smile when you're dying inside
Laugh when all you want to do is cry
Sing when you feel like you don't have a voice
If they knew how weak you really are
You may not be here
This facade keeps you afloat
Don't drag yourself under
Reality will make you crumble
The truth will devour you
Embrace what helps you maintain
Time is precious
It heals the heart
Like a hit of lidocaine
It numbs everything
Be careful though
With enough trauma done
They'll become sharks in the water
You'll float by ignorantly
Assuming your safety is intact
It's easy to miss what's below you
If your head is so up high
Hold your breath
Come back down
Just remember to resurface
The pressure will suffocate you
Heed warning
Pain is inevitable
Embrace it
Don't neglect it
Only you can save yourself
You're worth it
Don't let them see you're weak
Fake it

Dripszzz
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She said she knew a spot...then proceeded to take me to the lowest point of my life.

Flosstradamuss
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The devil doesn't approach you with a red tail and
horns, he approaches you disguised as
everything you ever wanted...💔

anthonybarker
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The secret is to love yourself before you love someone. Think about this. Would you let something bad happen to the person you love? No? Ok. But why do you let this same person treat you badly over and over? Why do you let things repeat again and then think, next time it will be different? It's because after all, you don't love yourself yet. If she/he break up with you, you're gonna look for her/his love, but if you love yourself, you still have your own love and it will keep you safe and strong to pass through this horrible moments. I wish you guys the best comeback ever. I passed through this situation for over 8 years. She was very toxic and I thougth that it was ok and let those things keeping happening, she gaslighted me and did everything that a narcissist does. People always alerted me, but when you're in this vicious cycle, It's almost impossible to look from another perspective. It has been 2 years since I got free but sometimes I still feel a little guilty for letting someone treat me so badly. Therapy helped me a lot!! STAY STRONG!!!! YOU CAN DO IT!!

ReNaTo
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it`s been 4 years now and yet i still think of her the moments that we shared together i miss her so much its just unfair that im still here waiting for her and she already moved on

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