The BRUTALLY Honest Reason Guys Stop Chasing In A Relationship (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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When we first date someone, we can’t keep our hands off them. All we want to do is take them home and spend all night in bed together. But what about when the infatuation stage is over? Can you still keep up the chase even though you’re both in a stable and comfortable relationship?

In this week’s episode of LOVELife, I explain the psychology behind why so many couples get lazy and lose attraction over time, and show how you can avoid that by taking on a few key behaviors to boost the DESIRE in your relationship so that you and your partner always feel irresistibly attracted to each another.

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[BEASTNYC]

When woman gets into relationship - she hopes the man will change.
When man gets into relationship - he hopes the woman won't change.

[angelajia]

You should not want him to chase in a relationship. That’s the key mistake. You should make him feel like home so he feels safe to be himself and he feels warm around you. Believe or not, a man needs to feel safe in a woman’s presence too. Make him feel loved and respected without being clingy. You should definitely still keep yourself busy. But don’t play games or at least don’t make him feel that way.

[rcbreakdown]

Speaking from marriage of 24 years, I can attest to the advice this guy is giving. Excellent advice that is working. The moment you take your partner for granted is the moment you begin losing them.

[MrHansBattle]

A partner who puts effort into looking good and developing personally -- and then stops once they are in a committed relationship -- has used a "bait and switch" strategy.

[misssparkle]

If 'excitement' is your only motivation & glue for being with someone then it's not a person you need, it's a life.

[iCeleste]

I had an ex who would say, "Well I already got you, so why do I have to try?" and laugh it off. That really pissed me off. I wanted a partner who I could GROW WITH

[MHKing]

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit."
-- Will Durant

[agentdark]

The more the guy shows interest, the less the women shows interest and plays hard to get. That's why guys are not motivated anymore. The system rewards lazy guys.

[calicoc]

:/ If you are looking for someone you want to be with long term, don't put on a facade, don't do something you are not going to continue to do.

[hunwarrior]

You can't make somebody happy in a relationship, unless you know how to make yourself happy first, and maintain that!!!

[LisaGemini]

If you've chosen the right person, you'll want to keep learning more about them and growing together. That will naturally increase the attraction.

[candacecandace]

"Choose someone, don't need someone"

[EnterpriseKnight]

I don't feel this is just for women... Gold advice even for men.

[EatYourVegs]

This guy is incredible. So empathetic, so relatable, so charismatic and flowing, and so on point. But most importantly, he has a british accent!

[BodyofWater_]

I actually dated a woman who admitted she was trying to keep me away from the gym so I wouldn’t be as attractive. Thinking I’d be of lower risk to be able cheat on her lmao

[tulabean]

if you are seeking satisfaction outside of yourself all relationships is an inside job

[elleari]

Waw, didnt even realise i was continuously making myself unattractive over a long period of time. All i use to do was complain about how he stopped complimenting me, stop being excited to see me and i would complain and try to CONVINCE HIM that i was still amazing when i should have been SHOWING HIM.

[captainevans]

Single guys give the best relationship advice 😂

[Trizzer]

Nobody wants to keep chasing. To keep attraction alive you need to build an actual bond, actually be intimate, dont idealize each other, but see each other for what you are

[ikonora]

This is true. I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 and half years now and I see that. There is a saying 'keep doing what you did in the beginning of the relationship and the relationship won't have an end', or something like that. People stop with the love, with the passion, with the chasing. They get too comfortable. My boyfriend and I are doing that, and I feel like it's time for me to step out of the comfort box and start doing my things again.