She's honest enough to admit she pushed good guys away.

[sunnyflower]

This whole channel is good. Not bias, not soul crushing, not men bashing, not women bashing, not divisive, just understanding ❤

[NurseLisaD]

I love how soft spoken she is! Her voice calming!

[sisey]

When you are unhealed you self sabotage and you look or attract the bad ones because that confirms the beliefs you hold about the opposite sex. When you believe you are good and truly believe you deserve better and know you are capable of loving someone unconditionally then it happens. This is especially true of people who come from dysfunction they will bond with another person from dysfunction and if they are not healed they will spiral into what they know. I takes introspection and most times therapy to come to a space of healing.

[Brasileirale]

This is the reason why I stopped saying men ain’t shit. The truth is, I pushed away A LOT of really good men simply because I wasn’t mature/ready.

[Jezyra]

Sheesh people really do go through this😳it’s the opposite for me. That level of unavailability makes me run and start sharing my time and energy with another that values me. I don’t have time for the “I’m not ready or I don’t know”

[AlisonCrockett]

For a lot of women, we don’t even know what a solid man feels like so we push him aside or ignore him because he doesn’t FEEL right. Because we’re used to feeling comfortable with disfunction we embrace disfunction. This woman says it all right here.

[keepthefaithwithtori]

Great Her Realness and She from South Her Voice is Everything I loved hearing her sing

[titanjake]

Glad to hear this Convo...glad she is raising her hand to say "hey this what it is and I did it"
She is absolutely beautiful. No simp just the

[debbieharvey]

When you everything. When you laid back and laughed when Whitney's hair piece fell behind the priceless!!!!

[cappygurl]

She gravitated towards the emotional unavailable, because she was emotionally unavailable herself. Like sees like.

[southwestt]

She is Absolutely gorgeous ❤️❤️ her whole vibe is contagious! You go Queen

[fee]

Had to send this to my gf’s bc I’m not the only one who is now realizing that I been a toxic magnet bc I was totally unhealthy with myself 😅😅😅😅😅 I was A MESS!!! and still working on it!!! 🙃🤣

[msshawbear]

Yea, I pushed some good guys away to. I was unhealthy because of a bad break up. Never been their phone but drove by their house. I am on the road to healthy now that I am on the road to being healthy I refuse to chase after or try to figure out if we together.

[ellah]

I gotta hear this whole convo, bc it's so true🤣🤣

[theoracle]

Wow, she speaking FACTS 💯 to the mindset of many, many women (and men) throughout generations.

Ohhhh but when you finally submit and surrender to Christ Jesus over every area in your life (especially love), you'll be singing 🎶Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me. I once was lost, but now am found was blind but now I see! 🎶

[kimberlyturner]

This definitely happens. What a beautiful young Lady.

[michelebradley]

She's speaking facts. Unfortunately, I was always the 1 who had "that little bit of unavailability" & brought toxicity
to relationships. I almost lost out on my husband ( 31 + yrs 💍)when we were dating because of my unhealthy behaviors. Thank God he was healthy, intentional & chose to put in the time.

[aishahkenny]

So true. I'm learning to know what healthy relationships look like. Thank you for this podcast.

[autumnthomas]

When your not ready you are attracted to ppl that aren’t 100% available

[Tiredttttttt]

I’m a woman who’s 26 years old and I have never liked that space of someone making me guess if they want me or not lol the one relationship I had we were upfront about what we wanted, I don’t have time to waste like that honestly