8 Subtle Signs Your Marriage is Falling Apart

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Hey YouTube, Brad Browning here. I’m a relationship coach from western Canada and today I’m going to share with you some subtle signs that your marriage is falling apart.

The thing is, when problems start to creep into a marriage, they’re not always obvious. Though most people think of screaming matches or divorce threats, there are actually many more subtle signs to be weary of.

Now, let’s get started.

1. Your focus has switched from “us” to “I”

When you and your spouse first got together you were probably in the “us” mindset. You made plans together and worked around one another’s schedules.

While it’s normal for the “honeymoon” stage to end and for spouses to slip into their own personal routines, if your collective mindset has switched from “us” to “I” then it’s a sure sign that your marriage has some underlying issues.

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My marriage checks everything on that list. Why am I still married then? Because I cannot financially leave. I just avoid him to keep my sanity. I am much happier when I am not thinking about him.

stephaniejohnson
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Marriage is so difficult... and it’s all I’ve ever wanted. That makes it hurt so much more.

SoloMotionSKT
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I was just telling a couple close girlfriends that we feel more like roommates than anything, these days...you nailed it.

TheFunkySpork
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Stephanie I agree with you there I'm in the same boat. when he's not around I'm much more relaxed just being by myself might as well be.

patriciamarria
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Daaamnn Brad, these are all very good signs. You truly are the expert on breakups and marriage. Good job!👍👍

terriesmith
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I can honestly say that yes my marriage has ended for the best . it was so so unhealthy even in my best days today . Thank goodness I am able to leave it sober and with a clear mind and a healthier me .

bethankful
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So glad I am no longer married. I am FREE AND AT PEACE!!!! FINALLY NOT LIVING IN A LIE TO I ❤️ MYSELF TOO MUCH TO NOT BE REAL TO MYSELF!!! I ALSO HAVE GOTTEN STRONGER AND HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT. I TRUST MYSELF.

ruthschanuth
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I felt your information was valuable when you smiled!
Thanks! Thanks great advice!

marthahernandezmobilemassa
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That's how I've been. Any little thing makes me blow. I am stressed out.

Yasbel-
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These signs actually seem like phases in a comfort zone

JBthree
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We fight in almost everything please help we parted ways and came together and all the same nothing has changed

nyongesadiana
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Hey brad me and my fiancé were together for a little over 5 years and my fiancé broke up with me a week ago because I lied to her for a year about losing my job. She found out when she came over and my parents told her. We have a 2 year old little boy together and right now she wants to take me to court for child support and is saying she wants nothing to do with me and wants me out of her life. But she still goes on my facebook because she knows the password and she looks at all my unread messages and notifications. Im confused and I don't know what to do any advice?

JustinWilliams-zplx
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Brad so I had affair with someone at my job. It was an emotional affair. My husband of course found out he put a recorded in my car and listened to my conversations. He wants me to quit the job. I feel like if I do that it will create more resentment because I love my job. He has resentment for me for the affair. Is this just toxic and it will always be resentment back and forth. I am struggling. This is just the problem now. Our problems go much deeper.

furbabymom
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tick tick to all. we are young, three kids and its been over for years. we are just living together is separate rooms for the kids.
he wants to stay and I want out of this mind hell :/
but what about the kids? would love to know your take on kids being involved

bt
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Hey Brad, I am now in "No Contact" phase
Should I post in my snapchat story, that I'm being with friends, being very active, participating in the events, taking trips ant all that stuff. Just to let her know that I'm busy and I acting happy without her. Should I do it ?
P.s Thanks for helpful videos, best of luck !

kleras
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Hi Brad! This is messy but we had about 3 years on/off relationship. Now the girl said that something just "clicked" and she don't love me anymore that much, just want to be friends anymore. I'm very sure that she wanted to get over with me because she was afraid of getting hurt due to this on/off situation. But I'm 100% sure that I want to be with her (not on/off anymore!!!). I just said that too late thats why I'm so angry at myself. What should I do now to get her back? I really like and respect you, thanks!

tuomaspaalanen
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Hey brand I have a question I kinda cut my 30 day nc by two weeks and now my ex is dateing Someone new and she barely talks to me she's awakened when she does should I disappear again? And Idk if it's a rebound we're only 16 and she's looking at the new guy how she used to look at me

marvinwilson
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Hey brad I've been hanging with my ex lately I've even cuddled with her and slept beside her in bed and she is super close with me. But she told me she's just not ready for a relationship until she's done college and she has brought up the break up and she was sad . But is this where I give up she also said she still loves me . But she said she's not ready because we're in high school. Is this where I give up because I dot see us getting back together now but I want to

marvinwilson
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Is it alright to send your ex snapchats during no contact? I need help on this one

Pokesmot
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Hey Brad, I was just wondering if I could ask you a question?
My ex girlfriend is dating someone and it looks like it's a rebound. I was just wondering whether you'd advise that I try to re establish contact with her whilst she's still in a relationship with this guy or should I wait for her to dump him then de establish contact? She's removed me from Facebook and unfollowed me on Instagram and hasn't tried to contact me since we broke up a couple of months ago.

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