Communication Hack for Connection & Influence | #shorts

What if there was a simple change you could make to communicate more collaboratively and with more influence, while also encouraging greater creativity?

There is!! You’ve got to try this!
It’s a super simple communication hack that has a HUGE impact on how others feel when they’re around you, and can have a massively positive impact on your relationships (both professional and personal!).

Here’s why:

The word ‘BUT’ becomes a form of psychological invalidation. It rejects, dismisses or minimises someone else's thoughts or feelings.

“I’m so sorry you feel that way, BUT…”
“That’s a great idea, BUT…”
“You’re a great team member, BUT…”

Instead, swap it for another three-letter word, and trust me - you’ll notice the difference!

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[BillehBong]

Question: in the example that you just gave, aren't you just giving implicit agreement of someone's idea when you don't infact agree with it? It's great to make people feel validated but it shouldn't come at the expense of going along with whatever they're saying.

[aritrasur]

Honesty and clarity of communication is much more important than making someone feel good all the time

[ujjwalrocks]

You are so articulate. I am hooked on hearing you talk

[sonalshukla]

I feel the vibe from the book: Win friends and Influence People

[utkarshaggarwal]

You completely changed the answer from not accepting their suggestion to accepting it. It's better to be assertive than just agreeing with everything

[inuwabajoga]

Communication is the best way to understand people

[andrewdressler]

All this stuff sounds great until you actually get into a workplace and realize that everyone is an idiot, and you decide its easier just to join them.

[samuel]

Where were you 10 years ago... All these teaching are beneficial, God bless you kind heart 💓

[jonathand.terrell]

This lady is exceptional in communication skills. Love her channel!!

[vanzylw]

This woman is a champion !
Imagine spending 3 months with her, gaining momentum and developing yourself, to position yourself as new CEO

[oluwasegunphilip]

Definitely learned from this🙏🏾 Thank you Ma'am

[everenigmatic]

"AND will it work just like last time? AND what have we learned from it?"

[vivekanandan]

Yes, this is what my friends have to see before talking to me.

[sailboatlighthouse]

In my age and not shy from learning the wisdom of this young lady, great job and keep it up

[TV-pelk]

and you can also do that to yourself to learn from mistakes. Genius ! Thank you!

[vikramtv-insights...]

You are a true influencer .... Others are just entertainers ... Respect....👍🙏

[teminoah]

Super correct.
Constructive criticism fosters team spirit, collaboration which inturn increase performance and productivity

[rohitjagtap]

I am excessively impressed by your delivery, the way you talk and all your mannerism is something that I admire a lot. Including all the little things you do, like you have a content smile while you talk, and all the hand gestures. Your face radiates positivity and your enthusiasm. That is something I'll like to add in my personality. And, your immense knowledge about the topic, its like icing on the cake. <3<3<3 have a nice day and keep making content. Thank you so very much.

[nourhanmegahedmahmoud]

I discovered that i do this unintentionally since last year since i started thinking positively about stuff and it really does work magic in perspective not just for people who are around u but for u as well

[SpiritXd]

We need more people like you on this planet earth...