My ex demanded me for child support for a kid that is not mine, my mother and sister are on.

My ex demanded me for child support for a kid that is not mine, my mother and sister are on their side...

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[thespectresociety]

I firmly believe that anyone who defends that woman is a red flag you should never interact with. Making a man who was betrayed, pay for a child that's not his? Shame. She's money hungry and the defenders lack a soul

[dennisvicarth]

"A woman's word goes first and that's all the proof anyone needs." The level of ego in that statement. Is OP's sister floating above the rest of us regular folk?

[brodrickflowers]

"Forcing your ex to be a single mother"
Nah, she tried to force you into being a father under terrible pretense 😂😂😂

[TheGamingSarman]

About story 1: The mother just trusted her son's girlfriend over her own son, I find that absolutely crazy even with *abuse* allegations.

[nate]

In the first story. That would honestly make me question whether I would want my mother or sister in my life again. The sister is just damn insane and the fact the mother took the ex's side so quick and dismissed her own son being abused because "she seemed so nice, no woman like that could be abusive" absolutely insane words. I have seen first hand how quickly someone's personality can change behind close doors...

[RepellentJeff]

“I’m grateful my mom and dad gave me hot food, fresh water, and my own bed growing up.”

That’s what’s otherwise known as the *_BARE MINIMUM!_* They’re legally required to provide that for you, and it sounds like that’s about _all_ they did!

I hope OP2 wises up and realizes he doesn’t owe them jack-shit.

[Only]

I remember story 1

No OP's mom, sister is the one who needs to stop and is the one tearing the family apart, she's the one who needs to forgive and forget not OP.
No OP'S relative, sister is the one taking it too far, harassing him at work and harassing him on social media to ruin him.

[PoipoleEntertainment]

Let’s be real nobody really has OP’s back as the father failed for letting his wife continue with this behavior and how OP’s mother failed when she choose to support the woman who hurted and abused her son, OP should have called his mom a failure of a mother for trying to convince him to take care of a kid that’s not his. I hope the OP wins the lawsuit and gives us an update about it too in the near future. The mother is a prime example of what a failure of a mother looks like because what type of mother sides with the woman who hurted and cheated on her son?!

[Antsaboy]

Story 1: Well, perhaps those relatives could had told the sister to cut the crap early on instead of sweeping it under a rug and letting OP take the fall!

[Mattonimus]

Story 2: Just as a friendly reminder to anyone that might need to hear this, family does not have to include blood relatives, and can most certainly be chosen or found: I.E., friends, partners, surrogate or adoptive, even just role models. Just because someone shares the same last name, are your mother or father, your niece or nephew, aunt or uncle, whatever the affiliation, does not mean that they are family. Those who love you unconditionally and without remorse or resentment, are the ones that should be considered family. Always remember those that have been there for you through hell and high water, and forget those that are willing to chastise, reprimand, injure physically and/or emotionally, and belittle you for no better reason than because they're terrible people with complexes.

[crowfather]

I still wouldn't have been cool with the mom. She still took his ex's side in the breakup over his for no reason.

[SapphireExile]

If that's the argument that the sister's making, then she has to pay child support for every child on the planet that isn't hers. That would shut her up real quick.

[namedhuman]

Mother and Sister pay child support. Equal responsibility to OP so the fact that this is a dumb idea shouldn't bother mother and sister.

[Serenity_Dude_X]

She should have taken responsibility by using contraceptives or other protection.

[Deimos]

Story 2

The op should go NC and in regards of the op getting married, the op shouldn't invite his immediate family.
After all they're rotten to the core, they're look at his money instead of him.

[juliearmfield]

I love how all these self-serving righteous people are so generous with other people's money.

Op really needs to go no contact with his psycho sister and the rest of the family that agree with her.

[Quessen]

The audacity of ops mother and sister... He should tell them to ef off and pay for the bastard child from their own pockets if they want too. Cutting ties with these two 304s is also highly advisable.

[michaelwang]

If I was OP, I would hit them back with their logic of "Even it's not your kid, you're morally obligiated to help her!" with "Even it's not your kid, you're morally obligiated to help her by being a MIL(mother-in-law) figure and an SIL(sister-in-law) figure to the single mother? Why don't you help pay then?"

[landonhagan]

Story 1: The Ex's actions are evil and Machiavellian, but at least I get what she's trying to do. There's logic there. Something's profoundly wrong with the sister, though. It seems she, like many, has let politics rot her brain to where she'll destroy her family and ally with someone trying to hurt her brother just because she's a woman. She's an unhinged traitor.

[BellaAnderson-ooo]

The mother and sister are wrong because the child is not his child, so he doesn't have to pay for child support. I'm glad he got a dna test and didn't buckle to the pressure, and didn't try to just be nice and give his ex the money.

The second story is too similar to my own upbringing, and I also had to cut ties to family as much as possible.