Best + Worst Parts of a Long Distance Relationship

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~Where do I live? I spent 2016-2021 in Los Angeles + Pasadena CA but moved back home to Austin TX in Nov 2021.
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[ShalaLicia]

I was in a long-distance relationship for 2 years that didn't end up working out. An unexpected benefit for me was, when the relationship ended, I never needed to go through a period of "finding myself" again. I already had so much independence and my own life that had always remained separate from his. Though the breakup was devastating, I felt like I was able to move on more easily than if we had lived close to each other right away.

[ChessieChess]

The hardest part for me was I was dreading and subconsciously counting down the days we had left together, making it harder to truly enjoy the present moment with each other.

[jodiminsky]

Your revision surgery was a huge success. Your new nose is beautiful and fits your face perfectly.

[ew]

Being married for 23 years I love and look back fondly on the times that we have lived apart. There has been 2 times when we lived apart for 3-6 months each time. We lived apart due to moving and job commitments. It actually was a nice break in marriage. It was a time I was able to focus on myself and our kids. It was a nice reset for both of us.

[lynnefranklin]

Hi. I was in a long distance relationship for three years and we just decided to get married as he was forces and in Berlin. We have now been married for 48 years and counting. It was hard at times but we overcame it.

[debbiedutell]

When you mentioned the part of my friends vs your friends it made me think that also something that might be part of a long distance relationship is not being able to see how your friends and/or family interact with the person you are dating. Sometimes friends and family can also see things about the person that we don't see that may may be good or bad. It is always good to get other people's perspectives on things.

[karatheyaroxan]

I agree the biggest positive for me was being alone helped me figure out me, what I needed and wanted, what I loved to do, and I stopped being so dependent on my partner. And my current relationship is so healthy now.

[alaynakaufman]

My husband and I met when we were 13. I lived in Illinois and he was from Alabama. Fast forward 11 years later and we have been married for 4 years and have an 11 month old together ♥️ hard is an understatement but long distance is worth it if it’s with the right person. Having that communication and commitment as a foundation changes everything in a marriage 😊

[stephaniewinkler]

Before my husband and I were married we were long distance for 4+years. When distance was finally over it was a new phase of us moving to different places because of his job. All I can say is that, no matter who makes the sacrifice, there’s always going to be emotions surrounding a move. I have felt all the emotions about moving, genuine happiness, resent, etc. the main the I like to do is, when I am feeling sad about missing family or resentful about the sacrifice, is to keep an open conversation. It’s totally natural to feel all the things. Just be honest and help each other through those emotions. ❤

[rebeccacurtis]

My husband and I were long distance for our entire relationship (2 years) before we got married. One of the things I found really beneficial (especially considering my first relationship was quite the opposite) is that you have to be understanding of each other’s different schedules. Our time zones were 8 hours apart so finding time to FaceTime was sometimes difficult, and we had to be understanding and patient when schedules didn’t align well. But you also learn to prioritize time together, which is huge for a “quality time” love language person ❤ 2.5 years into marriage and I couldn’t trust him more!

[hiscanvasofgrace]

Congrats on your engagement Michel!! 🎉 I've been doing long distance for nearly a year now and we just got engaged in May, getting married next June. 6 hours apart. The toughest part in the beginning is when you are both taking the plunge with no guarantee on the other persons part and slowly getting into more and more trust and commitment as you see how much they are willing to put into knowing you, and realizing how much you do want them in your life no matter the cost. Both definitely have to be in all the way for it to work. Its funny because both of us were in years long relationships prior, but it was not the right person even though we held on longer than we should have. God was so good in writing this love story for us that we both feel unconditionally loved and wanted and cherished ❤

[cleg]

My friend is in the U.K. and her boyfriend lives in the U.S. and they make the best of FaceTime and scheduling calls together every day. Physical visits they try and get together a number of times throughout the year. They work so well together and they are open and honest and they have to trust each other with the distance. So far so good for them and eventually I see my friend moving across the pond to be with him. His family are amazing and so welcoming to her which is great to see. Hats off to all of you that do manage long distance relationships, I hope you all keep happy and get you ever after moments ❤

[lvlysticgirl]

Just started the video but wanted to say, "Yay! I missed you!" 🩷 Also your nose looks INCREDIBLE, Michel!! I'm so happy for you!!

[fallinlove]

My husband and I dated long distance for a year and I loved it. I had been in a relationship before in which all I did was spend every waking moment with my partner, and I knew I didn't want that going forward. Dating long distance allowed me to put in a lot of time into my friendships and also volunteer at my church, which took up every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday (I volunteered for youth ministry at that time of my life).

[daisybyerly]

Yes, long-distance sucks. We did it for years internationally, only seeing each other every few months... but sometimes you find that one person that you can't imagine your future without. Our two-year wedding anniversary is next month, and the risk of all the unknowns were so worth it. Yes, there have been sacrifices - but what we have now is worth more to me because I know what we went through to get here. 

The only question that matters, in my opinion, is if that person is worth the wait.

[meganvenegas]

Hi Michel! I know we only see bits of you two, but I love the way you both are mindful and aware of each other's needs. I wish you two the best always! Take care

[jeannine]

I just watched the video where you announced Jordy's music. I've been going back and watching old videos because you were on vacation, and I had so many I hadn't watched. That was fun! I'm still watching. I love the relationship you and Jordy have. I hope there will be a wedding someday, no pushing, just hoping! :) Love watching your videos. Thank you for sharing your life with us! :)

[crissy]

I hesitate to comment on other people’s bodies - you have shared about your nose repair… Your nose looks SO incredible - just adorable! Right now!!! I hope you like it now and in a year from now when it is completely healed ❤

[DonnasWonderland]

I love how Jordy looks after you from afar it’s so sweet. You are both being so intentional about this relationship from what we get to see and I’m so pleased for you both ❤ hope you had an amazing break together

[prakrititanna]

Hi Michel!!
Welcome back to YouTube!!! We missed you❤❤