flirting for introverts

[totallynight]

Instructions unclear: he said something flirty back and I panicked and slapped him

[vizz]

Woman I luv you plz start some crash course of flirting 😭😭

[Anna-bemt]

Girl, your confidence is through the roof!

[LeiaLouise]

Gurl, you’re making me nervous, sweeping me off my feet!!!

[cryingchild]

Personally, I feel like you should say one or two hobbies and then say the "watching people talk" line. It's more engaging.

[ruwanawijesinghe]

Introverts do not like to talk to strangers 😂

[yes_ryu]

I'm learning from you not for myself but for my novel's characters lol

[savemasaferyattashutelbitd]

how did you get to be so unbelievably cool

[aks_thegoat]

NAH BC I WOULD FOLD IF SOMEONE SAID IT TO ME
BUT IM OBSESSED WITH YOUR CHANNEL

[leyla]

I say sleep and cry …

And this why I am single 😭

[NoPlanNoProb]

Yall obviously can flirt however you want, but as a guy every single one of those lines makes it seem like you _don’t_ have hobbies and just flirt with guys for fun. This is fine if you just want to sleep with the guy, but for a lot of guys this will move you from the “I might need to tie this girl down” box to the “she’s a bop but she cute” box.

Probably best used if you want to sleep with a guy who wouldn’t otherwise make a move on you, but I’d say it’s a step in the opposite direction as it pertains to having a guy want to date you. Basically discouraging real dates in favor of “u up?” texts or “let’s get drinks”.

Chances are that we wouldn’t even be asking if we didn’t already think you were cute.

[ElineaTeine]

Ehhhh. Nope!
ONE time a guy told me on a first date he "guesses" he likes talking to people. That's it. No other hobbies.
I ran for the hills.

No way, I'm getting together with someone whose only hobby is going to be our relationship, who's going to make a scene because I don't spend every single day with him... I need to have respect for my partner, and I sure as hell can't have it for a person who doesn't have a single hobby other than social media and talking to people. I don't care if their hobby is making po*n and figuring out the best camera angles, I need them to be passionate about SOMETHING!!!
This advice you just gave would send me running.

Seriously. At least first mention a single other thing you're passionate about before adding this bit.
I've been burnt before. Dating a guy like that is scary as hell for me.

[kryskross]

How do you get someone to be nervous when they usually aren’t the one getting nervous???? My bf is a tough nut to crack. He’s usually the one that flirts with me, but I want to make him feel some type of wayyyy! TEACH ME HOWWWW 😭

[BciamCatwoman]

I’d love to first start off by saying that you’re literally the older sister I’ve never had 🙏🏾
Second, I’m a 16 year old Female and there’s this guy I really like but feel like he might not like me back. So- like any normal girl would do- I’m trying to spend as much time with him as I can so that psychology can start working and the Mere Exposure Effect starts taking place.
Regardless, (it’s a very slow process), we have a debate on Friday together and I know he’s going to wear a suit. I really want to compliment him in a way that it will stick to him and make him think about it for more than 5 seconds.
You got any ideas?? Plsss 🤩😭🙏🏾

[alexa]

What can I do if I really like a guy, but I don't think he's into me?

[sasha-ide]

I'm brave in this situations, but can't think on the spot😅

[NashRainer]

I did this at work them nosy females be labeling me as flirt even tho I have a man and he’s. Deployed.

[Laila_eq]

I beg you, can you make a video all about how to flirt over text? Especially if u have never met them in person?

[Basketball-ox]

How do you approach a guy you already know but just a little bit

[aurieamoore]

My first thought before i finished the video was:
"Well i haven't done it yet, but I'd like to do you."