My Husband Is Cheating on Me (Is It My Fault?)

My Husband Is Cheating on Me (Is It My Fault?)

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[trexxy]

He SMILED and said “you had nine years to be the woman I loved”.

Girl, run like hell. Get an attorney. You deserve more than this sickness.

[chocolate]

How evil do you have to be to blame your wife AND taunt her

[thorneto]

To cheat on your wife while she’s 8 months pregnant is one of the most heinous acts humanly possible. Absolute scum of the earth.

[justincarrillo]

This guy might think this girl from the gym is perfect in every way his wife isn’t, but no perfect woman would get with a married man.

[ASouthernBoyCanSurvive]

This husband sounds like a guy who never got punched in the damn mouth. HIS family should give him a little lesson about how to treat this lady.

[niftynic]

The 31 year old with 3 kids having an affair with a married man needs to listen to this call. This caller deserves so much better.

[aliolivi]

Her voice, trying to hold it together, is heartbreaking.

[WyoWis]

Affairs don't just "happen." They are planned. The husband deserves no mercy.

[FortessofShred]

I'm going to scream this so those in the cheap seats can hear me: IT IS NEVER YOUR FAULT! DECENT PEOPLE DON'T CHEAT!

[krystalgardiner]

He wants to work it out bc the girl probably don’t want him anymore

[megalopolis]

I don't usually condone divorce, but not only did he cheat and gaslight her about it, but once she found out the truth, he had the gaul to blame her for it, AND kicked her and his tiny son out of the family home for good measure. That player used up all of his lives on those loser moves. It looks like it's game over. Thank you, Dr. John, for helping her seek the counseling she needs so much. She deserves to heal, become strong, and move on. ❤

[orangesplaylist]

I'm biased against cheaters and I'm almost always to say leave them. But it's next level malicious to use your affair to hurt your spouse. This dude is not worth rebuilding something with. He took pleasure in hurting her (ie: "the most evil smile") Leave, he's garbage

[John-dumq]

He sent her to CA for a while hoping that if he divorced her and ended up working out with the other girl she would already be out of his hair. Cold blooded for sure.

[krystalgardiner]

I was on bed rest for a pregnancy, and was told if I couldn’t satisfy him he’d just have to go somewhere else. Being young and dumb I panicked and did things I shouldn’t do.. surprise surprise he cheated the next pregnancy to, men like that don’t deserve to have their genetics passed on. I’m sorry I have no sympathy anymore.. it’s NOT YOUR FAULT.

[tahsinarahman]

This "husband" is an absolute narcissist. Cheating is an active DECISION made and to talk down to her and make her feel like its all her fault is fucked up... especially when she was 8-9 months pregnant.

[courtneymurphy]

The hurt in her voice is tearing my heart apart. Her husband is disgusting! She needs to leave him.

[Girlgonewise]

I want to give this woman a hug….I understand that every story has at least two sides but if what she is saying is accurate, her husband is heartless.

[rebeccaoprea]

He had 9 years to act like a man. Don’t give me that bull crap. That sounds like a man that doesn't want to take responsibility and accountability.

[azteca]

My mom told her daughters. "Have cash stashed. You just never know" this is one of the reasons she advised us

[Hiker]

I always empathize, but this was the first call that made me teary. The pain in this woman's voice is heartbreaking. Anna, please don't go back to him. This monster has no remorse for what he did and he does not deserve you. ❤