What If My Ex Finds Someone Else When I Go No Contact

What if my ex finds someone else when I go no contact? Often times we become very afraid that our ex will move on and find someone else during no contact. It can happen and it feels like you will never have another chance with them.

[meeraraj]

The greatest self discipline that it took to watch someone go and not be reactive is a war like no other. It made me stronger than even dads death.

[kirkv]

I don’t care if my ex forgets about me or find somebody else. She made her decision . While I’m getting stronger and looking like the man of steel she is getting overweight and acting immature. Her loss. She’ll never find anybody like me again.

[afterastrum]

Think about this: if they get with someone else soon after a breakup, I know it may hurt, but really think about it logically. Why would you want someone back who can just flip from you to someone else like you’re nothing? Regardless of the brain chemistry going on or whatever, there is a total lack of respect from them. So respect yourself. If they come crawling back in the future, respect yourself, and don’t let them back into your life. You will find someone who wouldn’t split your heart into two like that. That ex doesn’t deserve you.

[outroseok]

seeing your ex give attention to someone else takes the breakup and increases the pain by 1000% it’s straight up awful, it was my biggest fear going into this breakup and now it came true. I truly don’t wish this pain on anyone.

[CoachCraigKenneth]

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[sianmegginson]

Great advice . If someone finds someone else during no contact they are a rebound because some people I have known have to have someone in their lives no matter who they are. After personal growth I realised when that person came back I no longer wanted him as I had changed the person I was and no longer liked them. The reason you go no contact is usually for a good reason.

[carolloraine]

I'm no longer on social media.
For me personally, It's a waste of time.

[MarshallSmith]

I go for runs when I'm stressed out. it helps a lot but today she unfollowed me and no amount of running helped

[smallfish]

This is completely true. I listen you when I go to bed and fall asleep every night.

[MajiIndigo]

Just focus on you and making you happy. Be the one who makes you happy

[DanielleFerreira-ktix]

My ex got married during no contact... 6 months after he broke up with me and we'd been together for 5 years... but it wasn't no contact's fault. I believe in no contact, it really is the only way. If it won't do, pestering our exes never will. No contact is our best chance.

[marcuslopez]

I got to the point where I stopped giving a damn. I made peace with my ex breaking up with me. It was a tough moment in my life. It's been 3 years since my ex broke up with me. Thank God I've been able to push through that tough moment in my life. Also, thank God for my friends that have always been there for me. God Bless you Coach Craig and Coach Margaret.

[craigmerrila]

My ex did find someone during NC.
Out of my hands.
I'll just keep working on myself.
It's a marathon not a sprint

[abdiellawrence]

She found someone else, but they broke up. Oh well. 😂😂😂

[carolloraine]

It just wasnt meant to be.
Send a silent Blessing and move on.

[DG-uuej]

I was sceptical about all of this, and then I reached out to my ex, not to get him back but just to talk as a friend, end only then I realised what I have done, so yes, no contact does work, and yes, your ex will reach out :)

[donniesdesertcannabis]

The love of my life of 9 years broke up with me about 2 months ago, out of the blue, I was devestated, more devastated than I've ever been. I'm finally turning the corner and I'm actually starting to like being single and i ALMOST don't give a shit what, and who she does. I'm focused on me and my well being and focusing on work and my dogs.

[keivahummel]

Been watching you two for years and after yet another breakup with my ex, I took your recommendation to listen to the playlist at night and it’s been so helpful. I’ve felt just a little less anxiety when I wake up to your voices and reminders.💕thank you all so much!

[examplejohn]

Got my heart broken for the 1st time at 26 year old, after a 6 year relationship. Seen a lot of things since i was a kid but never felt as hurt as now. I took things as granted, and was shocked and confused when the reality hit me in the face like a cold slap, as i got dumped. Learned that loyalty is not the only thing that keeps a good relationship afloat, i was not emotionally present for myself so how could i be for one another. The fiction you build in your head while thinking your lost love, can be a lot harsh than reality itself. Only thing you can change now is yourself so why not focus on that.

[catastrophenoise]

3 months no contact now and weird is now after all this time, i don't think he was the right one for me, now i see all his red flags, i couldn't see that before. i was too much into him and was blind. it was my hardest break up, i fell so deep, in a deep black hole and to be honest i'm still suffering and i try to figure out why.. putting all the puzzles together to finally move on. during a break up you learn so much about yourself, it's interesting. i wouldn't know what to do if he will contact me (which i don't believe will ever happen, he is too proud).. i would be confused, but hopefully i'm then strong enough to say ..goodbye..